Bad boys?

[Crugsta]

So the question is do women love bad boys?

I recently went through a break up after 5 years. When we met I was let's call a bad boy.

Turned a litle softie as ya do when you mature and have that amount of time together.

 

My question is do women prefer a bad boy.

I'm still the alpha male around almost anyone I'm in the facility with.

Just wondering anyone have any insight ?

[Capricorn3]

Speaking for myself only, NO. They don't impress me at all.

[Sportster2005]

So the question is do women love bad boys?

I recently went through a break up after 5 years. When we met I was let's call a bad boy.

Turned a litle softie as ya do when you mature and have that amount of time together.

 

My question is do women prefer a bad boy.

I'm still the alpha male around almost anyone I'm in the facility with.

Just wondering anyone have any insight ?

 

Bad boy means different things to different people.

 

Some women do, some don't.

 

Unless you're a silver back ape or in a wolf pack you aren't an Alpha male.

[tiredofvampires]

Do you WANT to be a "bad boy"?

 

Whatever that means to you?

[Gloworm]

I find some alpha males to be kind of jerks that literally prey on women. I like a softie who can handle their own. He can take me on a ride on his motorcycle.. i like a little bit of bad boy.

[Seraphim]

No, I am not much into bad boys .

 

I have an alpha personality myself.

[musicman777]

I think the term "bad boy" is stereotype for what women are into. Women have all types of preferences in men. And I think there is no clear definition of what a "bad boy" truly is.

 

Being as a guy, I can define a "bad girl"; I think a "bad girl" is someone with a questionable lifestyle, potty mouth, a bit of an attitude, maybe not a clear career path, probably has bad habits (eg. smoking, drinking), tattoos, and isn't the brightest person in the world. I'd like to think women have a similar definition for men in that department.

 

As for my personal taste, sure, I like a bad girl to SOME degree according to my definition of one. I'm actually not that into the perfect girl; eg. someone perfectly clean, overly well mannered, frowns at cussing, doesn't like to drink. I like someone with a bit of attitude and style to them. I don't expect people to be perfect.

 

I think this is just a very big, questionable subject.

[Moontiger]

When I was 16 maybe now pushing 30, no, not at all.

[Ms Darcy]

Yeah - I think you'd need to define what you mean by bad boy.

[Hollyj]

Bad boys are a turn off. I think when you grow up, you recognize there is no future and only drama.

[thejigsup]

I like a little bad from time to time. It's fun. Meek, wimpy, men are a turn-off to me. I want an Alpha Male. Most definitely. I'm a very Alpha Female and meek, timid, nice guys let me run over them and be the boss. Not fun. I want an equal partnership, not one where I'm the boss or one where I am dominated. While I don't want a man who does drugs, smokes, has no ambition, and who disrespects women, I do want a quick-witted man who commands the room when he enters it. I want a successful go-getter who believes in himself. I want a man who is very good in bed, and that takes experience, so I want that as well. He must be highly intelligent and funny without being crude. He must be educated with preferably an advanced degree. I love professional men. He has to have just a touch of snark about him, but not too much, because he must have a soft heart underneath it all. Basically, I want the male version of myself.

[missmarple]

If by 'bad' you mean someone who lies, cheats and doesn't keep his promises, then, no, I don't like bad boys and never have. I like men to be polite, sweet and trustworthy.

[notalady]

No I don't like bad boys and never did. No tatoos, motorbikes, acting reckless or macho. I like MEN not boys for starters, men who are confident about who they are, at the same time respectful and considerate, not afraid to be open and to show their feelings. I don't consider men who appear tough or bad to be "alpha", quite the contrary, they often are more vulnerable and just putting on a tough exterior for the world to see, then easily crumble under stress.

[Crugsta]

When I said bad boy I should of explained a little more. I do not mean s horrible person or someone who cheats and has to swear all the time.

 

Me myself I have a good career I don't have tattoos I look after myself in all aspects!!

 

I should of said alpha male instead of using bad boy!

I have read plenty of times on this site that for you lose yourself (from a BU) must get yourself back be an alpha male again.

[missmarple]

 

And what is an alpha male for you?

[notalady]

What do you mean when you say "alpha", because I don't perceive or define people that way. And what do you mean by being a "softie"?

[dias]

I like a little bad from time to time. It's fun. Meek, wimpy, men are a turn-off to me. I want an Alpha Male. Most definitely. I'm a very Alpha Female and meek, timid, nice guys let me run over them and be the boss. Not fun. I want an equal partnership, not one where I'm the boss or one where I am dominated. While I don't want a man who does drugs, smokes, has no ambition, and who disrespects women, I do want a quick-witted man who commands the room when he enters it. I want a successful go-getter who believes in himself. I want a man who is very good in bed, and that takes experience, so I want that as well. He must be highly intelligent and funny without being crude. He must be educated with preferably an advanced degree. I love professional men. He has to have just a touch of snark about him, but not too much, because he must have a soft heart underneath it all. Basically, I want the male version of myself.

Only that?Have you heard of superman ?

[Blue_Skirt]

My question is do women prefer a bad boy.

I prefer a gentleman, but I am just 1 out of many women…….

[Moontiger]

You have to define Alpha. I think most people miss use the term (or perhaps I just see it differently) and Alpha Male, to me is someone who is calm, assertive, ambitious and knows how to get what they want. Now, of course it can be taking to a ridculous extreme which is no good.

[Crugsta]

This all reverts back to my recent BU with my gf of 5 years I am very soft hearted towards her !! Just wondering what women like to see in men that's all!! Currently 3 months no contact since day of BU just want to better myself to prove I can be better. But mainly it's motivated me to do what I want and improve myself for myself.

[Seraphim]

What women want in men is individual as the woman.

[Blue_Skirt]

Just wondering what women like to see in men that's all!!

Different women will want to see different thing in men. Just be your true self! That’s generally very attractive.

[Moontiger]

This all reverts back to my recent BU with my gf of 5 years I am very soft hearted towards her !! Just wondering what women like to see in men that's all!! Currently 3 months no contact since day of BU just want to better myself to prove I can be better. But mainly it's motivated me to do what I want and improve myself for myself.

 

There is no hard and fast rule of what all women like to see in men. My friends and I have wildly different taste in men both personality wise and what we like physical. You have to remember that women are huamns, with individual thoughts, feelings, opinions and emotions.

[Crugsta]

Off course I understand just wondered what others thought.

The quote has been with me recently

 

" nice guys finish last"

 

Sometimes it's nice to finish first!!!

[Seraphim]

Many alpha personality people are not bad.

 

So what you are talking about is a PUA?