SpoiledVixen

well myself being a girl... i find that me, and many many other girls... like to sort things out, to "finish" them in a way. its hard for us to move on wen theres that little bit lingering. so i think u should accept her call, and if she tries to hurt u, u already know its coming, so it shouldnt phase u... it would just be sad on her part, and uve got to let that slide, then u are being the bigger person and plus: u hang out in basically the same crowd, so she would just be making an akward situation for herself by doing that to u...

the best relationships have good communication. u should always be able to confront her. maybe wait a little while, to see if she ends up telling u, she MAY get mad at u for reading her book, but just say, that u expected to have that privilage due to the fact that u know her locker combo, and that u love her... etc. but i srta did something like that w/ my bf, and i couldnt contain it for more than, i think it was, 4 days... i told him, he just got a little upset, and then it all blew over, and i still love him, and he still loves me, and i hate to brag, but we couldnt've gotten this far if we didnt have such great communication skills... thats the key to a relationship... how is one expected to have a relationship w/ another, if they cant talk about EVERYTHING?

it may sound cheesy. but u should remember, u only get one try at this. so id go for it. i realised that a few years ago, u dont get many one chances, rarely ever two. so u might as well go for it... cuz seriously, whats the worse that could happen? ud learn from it, thats all... on the other end: u may start a wonderful relationship. life is all about taking chances... TAKE A CHANCE

it couldve been or not... but i know when i do that w/ my bf... i do end up stop making out w/ him, cuz its so close to orgasm... sometimes i orgasm, sometimes i dont... either way, it feels really good. but tell me, did she close her eyes? i heard somewhere that its incredibly hard to orgasm w/ ur eyes open...

well im not trying to be mean, but it doesnt seem that good... if he is ur bf, seems like hes easing u into a break up or something like that, just confront him about it. if he says that, ask him what he means by it... simple

look, if u like him and he likes u, alot... all u have to consider... is do it if hes worth it! ur exes shouldnt get jealous, u guys broke up, so it shouldnt matter... if u have feelings for this guy, then go for it! just talk it out w/ him, thats the best thing you could do! make sure u both feel the same way, that ur both willing to put ur friendship on the line... etc. and good luck

well im srta in the same boat... except im the one... well dont go to prof help... she may not be too happy w/ u! but its a hard decision to make... help her through it and tell her how much u care about her... i, personally, dont cut myself... but ive been going through alot lately and ive just recently started doing some drugs, which was not a good thing.... but right now i dont believe things could get any worse... remind her that she only lives once, whether its her belief or not, its all she has at the moment, and that she has u... be there for her... comfort her... tell her things will get better.... etc... my bf did this, it talked me outta suicide

well.... my bf does it for me and he enjoys pleasing me so yay... but maybe hes NOT comfortable w/ it, thats proly what he meant wen he said that hes not gonna make u do anything u dont want to, like, dont make him do something that he doesnt want to... or maybe hes just never done it b4 so he doesnt want to embaras himself... just talk to him about it, thats the best way to go

well im srta in the same situation... me and my bf are having our six month anniversary TODAY i can see myself with him for the rest of my life... i do love him... but there are those nights, where we get in a huge fight, or something else in my life happens... then i just have to sit and think about it. he is only my 2nd bf... but my first was just a summer fling thing... well some nights i have to wonder if he REALLY is the one... i guess we also... were both virgins, lost it to each other... but i talked to him about it, and said "what do we really have in common?" and he turned to me, kissed me and said... "what do ur parents have in common?" well my parents are happily married for... as long as i can remember... then he listed off all these reasons... so it may sound cheesy, but all i can say is for u to just... follow ur heart