This girl used to really really like me a year ago. She happened to be in band with me in middle school and I was friendly to her once in a while, but I never liked her and ended up going out with her best friend for a month. She was really upset and crying. Well we both began flirting off and on since the beginning of highschool. We went to homecoming together and she was always sitting with me on field trips and laying on me on the buses. She really liked me but I was planning on asking her out at the dance and she and everyone knew that. Well the dance came around and it was our first formal dance and we were both acting really retarded. I began thinking she was annoying and for some stupid ass reason I didnt ask her out and started ignoring her for about a month. I completely stopped liking her and I started flirting with some of her friends. Well about 2 months ago I really started liking her again...and friends talked to her and found out that she said I would have to make the move if i would ever want a chance with her again because of the way I made her think i liked her at homecoming. So i began flirting with her and asked her to the movies. Everything went great i respected her perfectly we held hands in the movie she started talking silly so i know she liked me cuz she was nervous. She was laying on my and stuff. Then the next day she told people she didnt think i liked her again and she todl me to my face that I was shy and need to talk to her more. I was really confused after such a great date and called her that night and appologized for the way i ignored her at homecoming and told her i really really liked her and wish we oculd be like we used to before homecoming and that ive been shy cuz i havent appologized and havent known if she liked me again or not. She called me back saying she thought i needed some kinda of answer, she told me it was hard for her to say becuz she liked me for such a long time and had a crush on me but she didnt want a relationship in her life beyond friendship and ended the conversation asking me if she could get a hug tommarow. She hasnt really talked to me since and wont even look at me at school and avoids me in the halls. About a week later she started saying hi to me once in a while but shes so different now. I think i might have come accross as asking her out rather than trying to see if i could have a chance at her liking me again and date and maybe i freaked her out at the thought of going out with me so quickly. But I donno if i should talk to her about what i meant or not because i might seem like a stalker or being annoying if she really hasnt liked me more than a friend. I donno if I should just wait for her to come to me again or what. I dont understand why a girl will act like she likes you, go to a movie with you and make all your friends think shes in love with you. I guess its a taste of my own medicine. Ive known this girl for a year and she means the world to me. I really dont know what to do. I mean I can still be friendly to her but now that shes declared she wants friendship only I cant bring myself to asking her on a date again or flirting. Any advice would be appreciated.
