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  1. Screamindemonuk
    It sounds like you need more time of NC. There will always be questions when you split up with somebody and you will want to meet up with them just for the answers but in my experience it should not be done this way. You need to have fully moved on so you do not have to consider meeting back up like a strategic game of who gave in first. Sometimes it's best never to arrange to meet up, you may bump into each other 6 months down the line and then is mutual. In terms of her finishing with you, but making herself the victim. Some people do this to get sympathy from others and give the impression that they were not 'the bad one' of the two of you.
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    Well it sounds like you are thinking quite reasonably from what you say. You do sometimes have to take into consideration how someone else has been hurt before but it sounds like he is sulking like a child. There is only so much you should expect to put up with. Have you explained to him the importance of you socialising with your male friends and that you don't want to spend all the time stuck in an apartment. I assume you have but sometimes you just have to spell out the truth to the other person for them to understand your point of view. Maybe his short term relationship track record is because he behaves like this with everybody?
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    Whitesnake: Here I go again on my own. Whitesnake: Crying in the rain. J Timberlake: Cry me a river. The funny thing is, is that i'm no BIG fan of either artists bit these songs sure do help me with a break up.
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    Looks like I'm gonna have to use the no contact rule. I split up with a girl a couple of weeks ago. It upset me but was getting on with my life okay. Then I saw her out last night with some other men and it shattered me. I now feel really bad. She still texts me and i have been replying but suppose I'm only fooling myself that we will get back together. I think no contact is gonna be the way forward.
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    I wouldn't say your e-mail was a threat. It possibly showed him that your not gonna stand to be ignored. Which is good because it shows confidence in yourself, and that is important. As long as it doesnt turn into a tantrum.
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    On the conversation of playing games. Both sexes are as bad as each other. I always used to think that girls play the 'hard to get' game and when you back off, they come running. Then, one day, i realised I have done it myself numerous times and not even realised! It's human nature I suppose.
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    Maybe she needs to get to know you better before a date. A group gathering is always a good thing for this. Just don't show off too much. I used to fall foul of that. Be yourself.
  8. Screamindemonuk
    definitely be patient. He may be busy. I went out with a girl and I didn't contact her for a few days because work was manic. When I spoke to her, she thought I had finished with her and run off with another girl. The truth was I didn't get a chance to. You've made the phonecall, the ball is in his court now.
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    I can understand your concern but you need to relax about the experience issue. My girlfriend is 5 years older than me and I had the same thoughts as you. Turns out, I've taught her a few things and I didn't expect that. We all learn something from a relationship. Be yourself, if he cares for you, he will be more than happy to guide you and you won't even be aware he's doing it.
  10. Screamindemonuk
    As Suzy said, be patient. The last thing you want is for him to use you on the rebound because you were there at the right time. Thats not to say you can't use this as a great opportunity to show him how great a person you are. It could start something for the future.
  11. Screamindemonuk
    Think of conversations you've had with him. Sounds like you've found out what he's into. Has he given mention of anything in particular he likes. Without spending too much money, is there anything you can get him that he wouldn't necessarly be able to get himself. Ebay is great for this sort of thing. Eg Signed photo of favourite player. One of the best presents I got from a girlfriend was a book I wanted, but no bookstores local to me had or could get a copy. This girlfriend went the extra step of getting me one via internet. That mean't a lot to me.
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    I have been dating a girl for the last couple of months and taking things at a casual pace. Next week it is her birthday and she has invited me over hers to meet her family etc. Has anyone got any gift ideas? I was thinking of paying for her to have a photo session for her + family but i'm now thinking that may be interpreted as being too imposing. Ideas please!!....
  13. Screamindemonuk
    Relationships are funny things. There is a very fine line between loving a person and having a sexual desire for them. I have been in a very similar situation to you my friend and it does leave yourself very confused. Mixed signals mean you don't know how the person really feels about you. Looking at your situation, your friendship may be all this girl wants from you. You should ask her to the prom. Be confident in yourself as she may be feeling the same about you.
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    I agree with Beec. I have found that whenever I have gone to kiss a girl and she feels it is not right for whatever reason, she will turn her head and offer her cheek.
  15. Screamindemonuk
    The clock your emotions play to is human. Mornings I used to find were the worst when I lost someone I loved. One thing I learn't through my experience is that you really have to look after yourself. I was determined I was going to become a better person, I started to go to a gym, respect my appearance more and treat the people around me that little bit better. As a result, channeling the emotion to make yourself better will help with bringing your self esteem up. You can't blame yourself.
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