HeartGoesOn

What does "sth" mean?

If he truly loves you as he says, he'd never take the chance of losing you. I'm sorry, but the chances of having a future with him are slim to none, (imo).

Sorry to hear about your losses, Lisa. Sounds like you're heading in a great direction. WTG!

Not thai it matters at this point, but she'd have much more respect for you if you cut the cord. Why not put yourself back in the drivers seat, while giving your self-esteem a well deserved boost?

Agree with the above ^ Posting for a friend, etc has the tendency to cause confusion. Please ask your friend to post their own thread...Thank you.

I'd try to be thankful that he showed you this side of himself, at this early stage. I'm sorry this happened, yet be the bigger person and walk away with your final words being "Good riddance."

The right thing to do is avoid the grass is greener way of thinking, and get your head on straight...so to speak. This has the potential to leave you empty handed, where the choice will be made for you. Are you ready for that?

I'm sure you have all good intentions, but before you prove yourself to her/others, you have to prove all of this to yourself. Believe it or not, this is more about you, and less about her. At this point, rather than seeking help for your addition, your main goal is getting her back. The likely result would be you'll end up taking one step forward, and two back. Hopefully this makes sense, and hopefully you'll find your way...

This translates to "I'm not interested in dating you, but I'll always find the time to be FWBs." If you're up for going down that road by accepting to be demoted to that level, you'll be selling yourself for a cheap price. Try raising the bar...

It sounds as if you made it too easy for him, as in putting the cart before the horse. I'm not sure why you slept with him while not knowing if he even lkes you. As you found out, that's not what it takes to seal the deal. He only texts you when he feels like it, which should tell you where his interest lies. In short I'd block him, and take the lesson with me.

Another monkey broke every rule. CANDY

Put up the tree yesterday. CHILD

I wouldn't get too comfortable with staying there with her parents. I understand you're not family, but as they say "two families can't live under one roof." Sooner rather than later it's likely they'll feel like you're invading their privacy, and when push comes to shove, the potential result will end as blood is thicker than water. I'd move back and stay in my own home before the (word of choice) hits the fan.

Rather than making excuses for his behaviour, you need to say what you mean, and mean what you say. By tolerating his control issues, you're simply giving him the green light to continue. Keep in mind that we teach people how to treat us. Hopefully pre-marital counseling will benefit the both of you. If not, you have some thinking to do, and last but not least, please avoid selling yourself short. All the best...

Multiple accounts...Closed.

Make every animal like you. FEVER

No. The legal issues are much more complicated, rather than buying a home as a married couple. It's your call, but I woldn't do as it appears to be too risky.

Until now, find it tomorrow. DIZZY

Hopefully you'll come to the realization that he's the culprit, and not her. At this point you're giving him permission to continue, simply because there are no consequences for his actions. Time to raise the bar.

Take up running next Saturday. SKATE

"Two for the price of one, how lucky can I get?"

Sending good thoughts your way, Vic. Take care, and be kind to yourself during this difficult time.

I wouldn't allow any child to be alone with this woman. Unfortunately this is the price you have to pay to be a voice for, along with protecting them from harm. Be careful not to let your guard down, as these types of people don't change.

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Can you please translate the meaning of "sth" and "AITA" to English please?