Superstickyone

I'm horrified to read the comment about what Gerry said about his previous GF. Is there any sort of proof he said this or just gossip? I'm not saying Starlight is wrong about the fat comment but gossip can get out of hand sometimes. I saw the interview between Gerry and Theresa about their divorce. Frankly, if they are parting ways because neither of them want to move, why wasn't it discussed before the marriage ceremony? Seems odd to me. G&T were holding hands, saying they still ❤️ each other and are both still open to finding love. 👍 Great, I hope 🙏 they find it! Sadly, IMO, I don't think the connection was strong enough (whether he's a player or not) for it to last. I

Thank you for kind words of comfort. I know in my ❤️ it was best for Cheeko. It's so hard to watch a pet bird hurl himself all over the bottom of his cage in seizure fits. I was helpless to stop it. What was amazing 👏 is right after his seizures each time he climbed right back up to his perch to eat his pellets & apple. What a trooper. He kept trying despite the torture he was experiencing. The goofiest thing he did was fly over to the kitchen counter, climb into the cupboard and chew through a bag of popcorn. One day I came home 🏡 and couldn't find him! Eventually I heard a noise in the cupboard. I went over to the open cupboard. He was stuck in the bag of popcorn chomping away. I miss 😢 him so much and will be planning a special little burial & memorial for him at the park we used to take him in the summer. There were cute ducks in a pond that he loved watching.

I'm devastated that my 15 yr old baby had to be put down. He started having seizures out if the blue. I don't know why & it kills me. He never chewed zinc or other metals as his toys were for birds. He didn't look sick days earlier. He was eating and playing as normal. I'm dumbfounded. He went to an avian vet once a year How could this happen?? I only noticed he wasn't flying around as much but I attributed that to him getting older. The vet thinks something was going on before this. Birds apparently hide illnesses she said. Still I feel so responsible for his horrible suffering 😔 . I don't know if I'll ever get over this.😞😞😞😞

Is this guy showing up now because he's lonely/horny? Seems odd that he pops up out of the blue. He probably pursued another woman during that time & it didn't work out. Now he's back seeing if you will overlook his ghosting behavior. Just talking on the phone with him says there is an open door. The excuse for his ghosting was rather lame and wholly unbelievable. I think he made it up because his other pursuits didn't work out. He should have at least told you he needed time away and explained what was going on. He does not appear to have adequate relationship skills.

If a guy gave me his number.i would throw it out. This puts the onus on me when it should be the man who follows up. Anyway saying you are hot is a "player" vibe and I would walk right past you. It means you are looking to get laid, not actually get to know the woman. IOI might happen with eye contact in a bar or coffee house. But stopping women while they are shopping or just walking down the street is just plain creepy!

Best to test your confidence on a single woman. Anyone who says they have a boyfriend is sending a clear message to back off. I would do so or she might complain to management about harassment.

I'm shocked to learn all.of this about Gerry. I can see how Leslie was upset. Maybe in the moment he felt she was the one (and said I love you) and it all changed after the overnight with Theresa. He may have loved both of them but it was stronger for Teresa. Everyone has to realize when signing up for the program that they may be hurt or rejected 😕. It's part of life to be rejected. Leslie's pain was real for certain 💔 and no one should discount that. It wasn't meant to be. When you've been alone for so long and then you open your heart, that open door (and the pain) tell you love is possible. You can still love someone, as long as your heart stays open. Sounded like Leslie hadn't dated anyone in many years. I hope the rejection doesn't destroy her confidence 🙏 . Some of the prior comments on here suggest Gerry is a player. Who knows what the truth is as the show was contrived at best. I really hope it works out for everyone involved!

I watched the Golden Bachelor and last nite was the final episode. Although the show is not in a natural environment, the interpersonal dynamics fascinated me. We saw limited aspects of the developing relationships for sure. However, I love ❤️ to see what makes chemistry between 2 people. It's far from just looks and what people wear. Gary chose Teresa. She's fairly average in looks but Gary emphasized other attributes like her wit and smart mind, plus evidence of her superb relationship skills. Goes to show that you can focus alot on your appearance for a man. But what solidified their connection were those other things. It taught me to focus not so much on my appearance but developing my character, intelligence, and ability to give and take in a relationship.

Thanks for the feedback! She's a mere acquaintance at best. I have a heart ❤️ of gold and will help a friend in need but this one was not a friend obviously. I am just ignoring her from now on at badminton. It's a pity we invest in someone, only to realize their true character later on. You are really taking a risk I'd say, whenever someone new pops into your life. This lady seemed so nice, bubbly and warm that I now realize she wasn't presenting her true self. I shake my head at how many times this has happened. Whew!

I've known this woman for 3 months and we met at a badminton drop in club. We have similar interests and talk about those things . We both also like blues music and singers. Outside the badminton club, we have been to 3 concerts. She has her own car and so do I. Each time she has asked me to drive over 30 minutes to pick her up, go to the concert and drive her home after. I did it the first time but frankly it's tiring and I hate driving at night in the rain. Her reason was because she was "tired". I decided no 2nd and 3rd times so we came in our separate cars. I told her my reason too. But she barely spoke to me at the concerts and said "real friends should help when asked". Then she basically left after the 3rd concert without saying much to me. I told her it's tiring for me too. Now at badminton she says hi and that's it, like I'm being punished! Do you think our friendship is over? I'm a little pissed off at her cold behavior 😤.

You crossed the line at work by invading her boundaries. I think she is uncomfortable with the type of relationship that appears to be brewing. Meaning sexual. Platonic friends don't text all night with flirty talk. She feels too much pressure from you and is giving clear signals by ignoring your communications. I would back way off before she reports you to HR.

Do not tell your wife about this experience. She will hate you for it. Swallow the guilt and never do this again. Get tested asap.

Just ask her if she would like to go on a date with you. It's as simple as that.

What is the reason exactly why you wish to tell his wife? If not for revenge, then what? To help the wife realize? I would not do it. He's going to lie through his teeth and try to mollify her, to save face. He should be dealing directly with his wife if he's unhappy for whatever reason. Of course, no, some avoid issues & sneak around. Like your case. I would pack up and leave them be, move on with your life. Tell not to contact you ever again on the future. He's a total waste of your time. MM are famous for hot and cold. If it was that bad, he would have been divorced by now. You've been hoodwinked!

Is this situation where an affair went bad and she's angry?