Nazzaha

Getting one's own place is not that easy, unfortunately... Pretty expensive, unless you'll buy sth that is far away from everything and everyone XD And now interest rates skyrocketed, so no buying houses for now I guess XD He has a secure job and professional qualifications to do two others. I guess you are right that we need to discuss our places in life and what we want... I'll gladly meet him anytime, but when I have other, really pressing matters to attend, that are connected to my future and they do not repeat every single weekend, like learing bc I have an exam the next day, I suppose I can make our meeting shorter than usual. I love doing little services to people I care about, even if it is making coffee :) so you know, I grabbed the opportunity :) Especially that he does not have his car right now (broke down, have to buy a new one) so it was either my help, one of his friends or picking another store...

Hello, it is my first post here. I feel the need to just let it out somewhere... Please share your opinions and advice :) Me (female 26) and my bf (male 30) have been together for about 3 years now. It is a long distance relationship- we live in different cities, about an hour apart. We meet every weekend, one weekend he visits me or from time to time I meet him (bc he lives with his family and I live alone). We both started sort of weekend courses, but in different schools. Due to that, he visits me every other weekend at my place and we have two whole days for ourselves, and every other weekend we meet in the city we both take our courses. On Saturday, in the afternoon, we went to Ikea to buy him a bookstand. I was supposed to deliver it to his place (less than an hour away). I wanted to pay for fuel (not that cheap where I live), spend my time delivering sth he wants in his house... The thing is, the next day-on Sunday- I had an exam and I had been studying for a week. It was supposed to be hard (it wasn't that bad in the end, but at the moment I didn't know that, but I knew I can repeat the exam again with no consequences). He knew about the exam. In the end, we didn't buy that bookstand bc it was incomplete (the staff couldn't find the shelves lol). He proposed going to my house, staying for the night. I refused, knowing I will not study if he will be there. I said I'll just take him to his house then and then leave. He refused saying it would be a waste of time and fuel, he's fine going to the train station. So I took him there. Now he is really angry at me that I did not spend my time with him, that I value my exam more than I value him... That I think mostly about myself... He says that I should not care about studying so much and put him first. That I don't care about him... AITA? What should I do? It's not like he even wants to actually talk to me...