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Wishful thinking, but that excuse simply wouldn't fly. These stories have a tendency to be exposed in one way or another. Rather than making excuses or trying to worm your way out of this, it's time to take responsibility for the choices you made. Of course it's too late to turn back time, yet it's not too late to focus on this innocent child who has no say in this matter. I hope you choose to own this, and do the right thing.

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I'd lose the negative attitude, as you have nothing to lose by meeting him for a cup of coffee. As long as you meet in a public place, tell friends/relatives where you'll be, and avoid giving him private information unless in time this goes any further Think positive.

Why not ask yourself if this situation is worth your time, or effort. My guess is the chances of having a future with this clown are slim to none, (imo). I'd fight for child support through the courts, raise your daughter alone and move forward. Be careful not to ignore the fact that he's also responsible for the welfare of this child. I hope you find your way.

I'd hold my head high and refuse to stoop to their level. When all is said and done, there's a good chance you could earn the title of "shoot the messenger." A different way to look at this is, sooner or later they'll both have to pay to the piper, along with given enough rope where they'll hang themselves. Although this was not your question, but where do you see your relationship going in the long term?

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It looks like he has nothing to fear, while knowing you won't walk away. It also sounds like you're making excuses for him, and he's running with that. In any event, as long as you tolerate his disrespect, he'll continue with this behaviour. It's a matter of pay now, or pay later. You can do much better.

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I'm sure this is not what you want to hear, but when the subject of sex is brought up along with not meeting yet is a major red flag, as well as giving you a picture of what he's all about. Keep in mind that he's still a stranger, despite communicating online for a long period of time. I'd give this more thought, and be totally honest with yourself.

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Dump the chump. It's not your job to raise him.

Ask yourself, how would you feel if the rolls were reversed? With that being said, I think you missed the major point here. It's not about "dressing sexy," it's more about showing him, the respect he deserves, as well as respecting yourself. Lesson learned?

If you were to question what you mean to him, wait until his wife catches wind of this. He'll deny ever knowing you, and will likely accuse you of being a trouble maker, stalker, etc. In short, this will not end well, and don't feel you're the exception...you're not. Raise the bar...

You're giving him all the benefits of a relationship, and (not to sound harsh) but he's being granted his wish of, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free." (imo). Respect yourself, and others will follow.

Great news, Vic. It must be a relief to take that dilemma off your shoulders.

Thread has run its course. Metalfantom, please seek professional help.

Let him be angry, that's his problem not yours. As to suggesting to be FWBs, why would you demote yourself to that level? As it is, he lacks any form of respect for you, therefore that would be giving him the greenlight to drag you down even further. It's time to respect yourrself and walk away from this Bozo.

One way to get a true picture of a person, is to judge them with your ears, rather than your eyes. In short, verbal abuse can quickly become physical abuse. Walk away...

What's worse than loving someone who hurts you, is thinking that someone who hurts you loves you. Since cheaters and liars go hand in hand, what's the point of attempting to change them, fight for them, etc. They're made out of the same mold. You'll never win this battle until you accept that it's over, and realize you can do better.

There's nothing to talk about, as his actions told the story. After a period of only one month, he's basically a stranger. My guess is he's looking for a a place to hang his hat, along with a roof over his head. He doesn't have your best interests in mind, and again he's a stranger who could be the re-make of Ted Bundy. Time to think...

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You won't win back your ex by involving his stepfather. All this is doing is sending the wrong message, while placing yourself in a position to easily be taken advantage of. As difficult as it is, you're better off moving forward., and working your way through this on your own.

This is just a classic excuse used as a way of letting you down gently, therefore pay more attention to her actions, rather than her words. If she wanted to be with you, do you feel she would risk losing you?

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