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I'm not solely blaming her either, he went down that path. They both made a choice. He started working there in Oct of 2019 after the Christmas Party she made it very clear she was pursuing him and she knew he was in a long term relationship. She was in a relationship as well. I think it was all a game to her, she told him she never intended on anything long term with him but he thought that it was. It was like he couldn't think for himself during all of that, it was always Jess says this or that. He would talk to family and they said everything was centered on her opinion and knowing him to be an opinionated person it was strange.

Thank you all for your input. I have decided not to pursue on telling her husband anything. I do believe we pay for what we reap, and it will come back to her x3. Many of you may not believe in bad spirits but I truly believe she has a jezebel spirit upon her. My bf told me that the whole office knows how she is with her flirting and she became an outsider after all of this, so she is fearful of someone telling her husband because she didn't invite any co workers to the wedding or reception. They are also leaving the state. LOL For the person who asked about my relationship, we are better than we've been in a long time. Except for him working with her that was the only issue. Thank you for the advice.

My boyfriend of 13 years cheated with a co worker and although I left him we got back together and tried to work things out, however he still worked with her up until a few months ago and did not tell me she had left. I told him before when she quit or he quit I was telling her now husband what they did. No one knows on her side at all of the affair. I feel like she thinks she won in this situation, and I confronted him on why he didn't tell me she quit, he said that things were going great and didn't want to bring any of that up. He knows my anxiety regarding him working with her and that was a big hurdle, we weren't at a good place for him to up and quit either. So now I'm at the final point of closure in my opinion, I want to tell her husband it's not fair at all she got out of this clean, I know it's probably better to just leave it alone but there is a part of me that wants to ruin her life.