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HeartGoesOn

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  1. No, you're not the problem here. By allowing her to treat you this way is the same as giving her permission to continue this charade without having to face any consequences. My guess is the relationship has gone south, and can't be fixed. Trust is the glue that holds a relationship together, therefore when it's gone, it's gone. In short, if someone wants you in their life, they'll make room for you without a doubt.
  2. Although the above wasn't your overall question, her excuse doesn't hold water, (imo). Along with that, "he/she is just a friend,"we only slept together one time" are just a short list of the many classic excuses. Having said that, very few couples can get past infidelity in the long term. In short, and not to sound harsh, but it appears you're in denial. Your call...
  3. So sorry, Lisa. Keeping you in my thoughts, It's so sad and heartbreaking. I hope you find peace and comfort in your memories.
  4. I'm amazed at how they like to play "the victim." Maybe it helps them sleep at night? 🙄 In short, I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I hopeyou find your way.
  5. Keep in mind that there's quite a difference between what you want to hear, and what you need to hear. Also, it may be helpful to lose the attitude, and keep it respectful.
  6. Unless you want to attach him to a leash, he'll likely find better ways to cover his tracks.
  7. I'm sorry, but It appears she's doing the "slow fade" (imo). Having said that, If she truly wanted to be with you, she'd never risk the chance of losing you. As to why she left a door open, is anyone's guess. My guess is as much as you'd like it to be, there are no hidden messages. Time to move forward.
  8. The point is you're providing him with an audience, and participating in his little game by adding him on one social media site, but not the other. As long as you play directly into his hand, this will continue. Also, and not to sound harsh, you have the ability to end this by finding a way, if not you'll find an excuse
  9. Please post words with five letters only...Thank you.
  10. Bad idea. I'd question why he's so eager to drive several hours to spend the weekend with you, after talking to you online for just a few weeks. His intentions clearly are not to spend time playing tiddly winks. At any rate, the writing is on the wall. Hopefully you'll see this for what it is.
  11. ^ I second the above.
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