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Recently, I found an old school crush of mine on Facebook. We started texting again - 15 years later... Yesterday, all of the sudden I noticed she started ignoring my messages on whatsapp. For no apparent reason. Then she sent me a (really) long text saying she needs time/space because her mind is full, and that we should stop talking for a while. Ended the long text with "Thanks for everything and see you soon...". Knowing that generally when a woman asks for "time" apart, this probably means I'll never hear from her again, I tried sending her one last short message to her, asking what was going on... To which she replied "I just need some time..." and then blocked me on whatsapp, but ONLY, on whatsapp. She didn't bother blocking me anywhere else. I can still message her on Instagram or Facebook Messenger if I want to, but I'm giving her the space she asked. Now before anyone says "Maybe she forgot to block you on other social media..." I know her quite a bit... She isn't stupid or forgetful, she knows how to use her phone, and undoubtedly knows how to block someone on Facebook and Instagram. I get the impression she left those 2 "doors" open on purpose. So much so that she read and politely replied to my good morning text on IG. She could easily have blocked me EVERYWHERE... but didn't. On this latest conversation she repeated kind of agressively that she just needs time... and will reach out again... Now I'm not texting her anymore and giving the space she asked. Don't want to push her further away. Note: Knowing her personality, I believe that she'll actually get mad at me if I don't try to reach out to her on the next few days or weeks.