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  1. Yeahs all women who game and enjoy the stuff I enjoy are fat loool xD. You clearly don't know what you are talking about.
  2. I Dont care what everyone you think about me. I will do what I enjoy. I have a job. I do my job with 100%. I enjoy playing games and watching Vidoes in my free time. I seriously don't get why you want to change the stuff I am enjoying... So well bye. Have a nice life shaming others for hobbies they enjoy. 🤣
  3. Okay since all of you seem to forgot that I have a problem with SMARTPHONE games (that I totally quit). And a specific kind of smartphone game area (pay to win games). What's the problem that I like to spend my free time with games with people I like to spend time with after I did my responsibilities!? Example: I spend yesterday my whole Saturday with my parents who visited me (we had a walk, talked and ate at a restaurant) I never thought at that time about gaming with my friends. So what's the problem? 😂 And another example I even quit gaming with my friends while in the relationship. I preferred spending time with her! And what's the problem with trying to find a girl who likes games too? That's what I want. I would never get together with someone who doesn't accept that I like to spend my time with playing games with my friends. I would like it to play games with her too. I even played games with my ex! Oh and one more thing. It's not that I don't like to do other things. I like to watch movies/series and YouTube too (about gaming [buuuh!], politics and all other stuff I am interested in)
  4. Sorry guys and girls but why should I quit my gaming? You treat it like its sick to have a hobby you enjoy? XD Its not like gamers will never find a gf lol. Let me enjoy my hobby for god sake. It didn't work out with my ex because I ***ed some things up and basically didn't had my life together. Not because we hit it off immediately. And sorry that I want to get the same things I give? It's like nobody nowadays appreciates genuine interest.
  5. Why is having Covid a bad excuse? 🤔 I am vaccinated but wouldnt you risk getting it? I don't. And I asked her out to catch an ice but she declined it politely. She worked a lot (10 hours each day) and didn't want to meet up after that. Thats understandable isn't it? And whats so bad having a phonecall/gaming together before meeting up? And I never called it a date did I? 🤔 I will answer later to the rest.
  6. Nope. After this one time I felt so incredible guilty... I will not do this again. Even if she is gonna ask again. I noticed I am really not into this stuff... No I haven't seen anyone so far. I might see one of them next weekend if she doesn't need to work. But it's kinda dry right now. No answers from her side anymore since 5 days. And I am not gonna chase. If she wants to get to know me it's her time to show it? I already did that more then enough. Or should I ask what's up? I know she has vacation but is only playing video games and already told me she has no time for a meet up. But I don't want to seem desperate? The other women I am getting to know is more into it I think. 2 weeks and messages every day. But she got Covid right now... I invited her to play some games together to get to know each other. We might do it this weekend. It might be ADHD related hyper focus that likes to "escalate" things fast. I like the feeling of getting some to know. Their likes/dislikes, quirks just everything. And my rejection sensitivity plays a part too. So basically: do it fast so I can move on if things don't work out? I don't want to get too much invested into someone so I can't get hurt. "Please checking my boxes or will move on". I don't feel bad about it anymore. Yes a little sad about the lost opportunity I ***ed up... But thats it. I don't cry anymore when I think about the good memories we had (I still did that a couple of weeks ago). I know you are right... Its just that I don't want to "waste my time". Its just that I don't think I am the type of guy that can date multiple people. I just never did date multiple people. When I got together with my ex we hit it off immediately. So I don't really have any "reference". I never really took it slow. And at the same time I don't want to hurt anyones feelings. Why is dating so complicated...?
  7. Does someone have any advice on how to take things slow...? When I got together with my ex we basically got to know us within two weeks. I was sick at that time. We instantly connected, chatted a lot, talked a lot on the phone etc. I am getting to know several people and its just so slow... It kind of bothers me... 😕 Its just that I want to take things faster so I can decide okay thats worth it or not...
  8. Small update: I never met her again. I asked her two weeks ago when she will have time again but got no answer. I don't really care about it tho. No effort from her no effort from me ^^... I am currently getting to know two females. I will take it slow. No new date so far tho. But maybe in two weeks on the weekend with one of them 🙂
  9. Yeah I know we just had sex nothing more and to be honest after I found out that she is so open with sex I don't even want more from her. We will meet again tomorrow for a dinner and a movie at my place. I will play it safe no worries.
  10. So yesterday one of the women I was writing with invited herself to me really spontaneously. Hinted to have sex with me and I agreed. After a bit of talking I initiated. Because she was my 2nd women I had sex with it wasnt great the first time. So we stopped. I couldn't get hard. She told me she wants to be friends with benefits. I agreed... After a bit of talking about all this stuff I relaxed a bit. We went to bed and well we had sex a 2nd time this time it worked out fine. ^^... So I am so unsure right now... I basically know it will most likely not lead to anything serious. But I want something serious. I would like to keep dating other women. Get to know them. But I want to be honest aswell. I am not sure what I should do if something more serious is gonna happen with another women. Lie about it? Be open and upfront from the beginning but that would hurt their feelings which I don't want to. On the other hand I enjoyed the sex and would like to "learn" a bit more. She is waaay more experienced than I am. P.S: She is into BDSM but told me she will not always need it to get turned on.
  11. I dont know if someone wants to hear that but here you go: I completed my educaction and got the job I wanted. More than decent money for the start. And I got a bit back into dating. Writing with a coupe of girls.
  12. Yes I changed/improved. I was in treatment for 5 months and I can and will go back when I am facing troubles. And because I know that it destroyed nearly my whole life (nearly lost my Job and my ex left...) I am/was addicted to Smartphone Games especially! I know I will have to watch myself and stop playing those games. Most of the times when I got addicted these were games where you could spend a lot of money and time and get better and better. And when there is a community (guilds and all this stuff) and kind of a "goal" it does hook me even harder. I figured all this stuff out with my therapist. Not only that. He even helped me after the breakup to get my life together again too. I am taking care of my responsibilities. I am now really close to get a new Job which is a lot of fun and the people I work with are nice and supportive. And it's not only that I am playing games with them I talk to them about all this breakup stuff. One of my female friends is really supportive and told me to stop trying to get my hopes up yesterday when I tried it again... 😕 I thanked her for it. I really needed to hear that.
  13. Yeah but why? Why wasn't she honest? Why didn't she told me to don't have ANY hopes of getting back together? It hurts even more now... 😞 But I know that I will not stay in contact any longer. She clearly communicates that she doesnt want me in her life right now. But well how does the saying goes: Hate is not the opposite of Love it's indifference. And that's what she is showing me indifference. I told her that I am in quarantine and she didnt react at all... That was when she started seeing this dude... We need to meet one last time on Monday to sort some things out. I will tell her that I can't stay in contact any longer, because it hurts so much, but that I would still like to be friends when we both are ready for it. I am really glad that I have some friends who are taking care of me by distracting me with playing games and listening to me even tho we can't meet because we don't live nearby.
  14. She told me today that she is seeing someone since a week. She doesnt know in which direction its evolving but just wanted to be honest with me. She said it just happend, she wasnt intentionally "searching". I kind of feel betrayed. She basically told me that she doesnt have time and needs to get her life back too before being ready for relationship again and now this...? She doesnt seem to know what she wants herself?
  15. I will not ask her to get back together again. I did it last time and got my answer. Again: why should I go no contact? We agreed to stay friends. I will not pressure her for sure but will still contact her.
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