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  1. Recently, I found an old school crush of mine on Facebook. We started texting again - 15 years later... Yesterday, all of the sudden I noticed she started ignoring my messages on whatsapp. For no apparent reason. Then she sent me a (really) long text saying she needs time/space because her mind is full, and that we should stop talking for a while. Ended the long text with "Thanks for everything and see you soon...". Knowing that generally when a woman asks for "time" apart, this probably means I'll never hear from her again, I tried sending her one last short message to her, asking what was going on... To which she replied "I just need some time..." and then blocked me on whatsapp, but ONLY, on whatsapp. She didn't bother blocking me anywhere else. I can still message her on Instagram or Facebook Messenger if I want to, but I'm giving her the space she asked. Now before anyone says "Maybe she forgot to block you on other social media..." I know her quite a bit... She isn't stupid or forgetful, she knows how to use her phone, and undoubtedly knows how to block someone on Facebook and Instagram. I get the impression she left those 2 "doors" open on purpose. So much so that she read and politely replied to my good morning text on IG. She could easily have blocked me EVERYWHERE... but didn't. On this latest conversation she repeated kind of agressively that she just needs time... and will reach out again... Now I'm not texting her anymore and giving the space she asked. Don't want to push her further away. Note: Knowing her personality, I believe that she'll actually get mad at me if I don't try to reach out to her on the next few days or weeks.
  2. Firstly, Happy Mother's Day to all... Today, as usual, one of my relatives brought his wife and their son here for the afternoon... I sat on the dinner table... and started noticing she (the wife) would get jumpy/agitated/nervous when in close proximity to me... She would start talking fast... to laugh nervously... Moreover, If I'm nearby, not even close to her... she starts acting the same way... nervous... Later her husband called her to go home, and she quickly and -- nervously -- replied "Yeah!"... She got so nervous she nearly forgot to say goodbye to me (maybe she didn't want to?!)... Also noticed he got pissed off at me for seemingly no reason. I went to say goodbye to him... he stared at me for a few seconds before shaking my hand. This has been happening for a few weeks already. I can always feel this weird tension whenever they are here... Mind you: I didn't even look at her. In fact I did my best to not even talk to her. I would never address her directly... much less try and make a move on her... because she has a friggin husband...
  3. Felt like she was trying to imply that... But then again it could be my low self-esteem talking. Because I dated other girls more attractive than her... I know I am an attractive guy. Her remarks about my brother still hurt though.
  4. What hurts me more is that she was the first girl I ever loved in my life. I still love her deeply... And I mean not just simple infatuation or sexual desire... True, everlasting, love. This felt like a stab to the heart...
  5. We are both 27. About the movie... sincerely I felt it was a bit lame. Perhaps I had too high of an expectation on it lol.
  6. Met my crush from high school (from 15 years ago) on facebook a few days ago... We started texting again... Me and my brother went to the cinema yesterday to see the new Dr Strange movie... By coincidence she was there too with friends... Today during texting I told her the tall guy in front of me was my younger brother... (he is only 15 and 186cm tall lol)... She then replies "Wow your brother is very different... handsome and tall..." meanwhile making no comments about my own appearance. This made me a bit jealous... She even asked me twice if I told him anything about her... 😞 So... my crush has a crush on my brother?!
  7. A girl from college (23F), who I see every wednesday, actually asked for me and gave her number to one of my classmates so he could give it to me... We texted and set up a first date right off the bat... But you all know I am me... I can't just set up a friggin date and forget about the girl until the day of the date... So I ended up texting her all weekend before the first date... She clearly indicated at the beginning she doesn't like guys who message her all the time... ffs.... My excessive eager texting turned her off, made her lose the interest and she texted me today cancelling our date with some lame excuse about her work... and said we would have to reschedule... Tried rescheduling to thursday... she told me she wasn't sure she would be available that day... Took the hint, deleted her number... but texted "In case you want to chat... hit me up..." And forgot about her... Yet, some 4 hours later, she actually hit me up, suddenly with a renewed interest for me, asking how I was... asking about my weekend... and for the first time she liked one of my IG stories... Not sure if she is still interested, feels bad for cancelling our date, or is just seeking attention.
  8. Recently I've been developing this abundannce "Plenty Of Fish" mindset, where If one girl I'm texting shows any sign of what I think is disinterest or if I think I'm investing way more than she is, I'll promptly give up on her and move on to the next... "If this one doesn't want me, another one will... Just gotta keep moving forward..."... Signs like dry, one-line replies, taking several hours to respond, leaving me on read... or the dreaded one-word answers... Should I try harder?
  9. Yeah. I have a family trip tomorrow morning. Will be leaving her alone for the next 4 days... No texting... no nothing... Until monday. I also know she'll probably not look for me in this period either. As she told me she is happy by herself and only wants someone to "accompany" her on her life. I fiigured she wants a boyfriend, but one that can be fine without her company/doesn't need to see her or talk to her all the time... In other words... she wants a man. This one is really quite different from all the other women I talked to recently.
  10. Turns out she is very smart. She is quite the intellectual type, mature... honestly she feels much older than her age suggests... she is 23... But sounds like a 28-30 year old girl...
  11. No. Since she is attractive I know she is aware of it and haven't made any remarks at all about her appearance as they would be boring and useless.
  12. Is this salvageable? She didn't cancel the date or whatever... But anyway I'm cutting contact until monday...
  13. About that college girl I got the number of yesterday... Everything seemed to be going great... She seemed very invested in me yesterday, interested in getting to know me and all... She asked my classmate for me, and gave him her number so he could give it to me, we texted for almost 3 hours straight. We set up a date for this Monday... I tried being a little flirty, but not that much... because I noticed she didn't respond too much to it (she just disregards what I said, leaves me on read or takes several minutes or hours to reply usually with one-liners)... -- then I just stopped flirting altogether. Well, it's the day after that first wave of texting... and it appears to have fizzled. I don't know what I did wrong.... ;( Note: Now I am fully aware that texting a girl too much and especially in the days before a first date will turn her off and damage attraction. So I'm not going to text her anymore to avoid digging a deeper hole. Note 2: She responds ok, replies my questions and asks about me... as long as I don't flirt.
  14. I see this girl on college every wednesday... She is the absolute hottest girl on the whole room -- I've checked, there aren't other girls better looking than her. She peaked my interest of course... But due to my low self esteem, I never imagined she would reciprocate me... Fast forward to last week... we finally crossed eyes and said hi to each other... She didn't act disgusted or repelled by me in any way...On the contrary, she was sweet/friendly to me. Then for personal reasons I decided not to go to college today... A classmate than texts me this exact girl asked for me... and I ended up getting her number... we have a date on Monday. In the beauty scale... I would say she is an 8. That's it... I am never doubting myself again. It was like the universe just screamed at me "Yes man, you can!" -- Now, I am bound to see this woman every single week. How do I prevent her from losing interest?
  15. I found that If I use a selfie on dating apps, I get little to no likes... However If I use full body photo, or one which shows my torso... and especially If use a bright colored background, will give more likes, raising the likelyhood of matches. Also found that most girls on my region pay little to no attention to the bio. They only care about the first picture.
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