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  1. Recently, I found an old school crush of mine on Facebook. We started texting again - 15 years later... Yesterday, all of the sudden I noticed she started ignoring my messages on whatsapp. For no apparent reason. Then she sent me a (really) long text saying she needs time/space because her mind is full, and that we should stop talking for a while. Ended the long text with "Thanks for everything and see you soon...". Knowing that generally when a woman asks for "time" apart, this probably means I'll never hear from her again, I tried sending her one last short message to her, asking what was going on... To which she replied "I just need some time..." and then blocked me on whatsapp, but ONLY, on whatsapp. She didn't bother blocking me anywhere else. I can still message her on Instagram or Facebook Messenger if I want to, but I'm giving her the space she asked. Now before anyone says "Maybe she forgot to block you on other social media..." I know her quite a bit... She isn't stupid or forgetful, she knows how to use her phone, and undoubtedly knows how to block someone on Facebook and Instagram. I get the impression she left those 2 "doors" open on purpose. So much so that she read and politely replied to my good morning text on IG. She could easily have blocked me EVERYWHERE... but didn't. On this latest conversation she repeated kind of agressively that she just needs time... and will reach out again... Now I'm not texting her anymore and giving the space she asked. Don't want to push her further away. Note: Knowing her personality, I believe that she'll actually get mad at me if I don't try to reach out to her on the next few days or weeks.
  2. I (26M) met a new woman (35F) on Facebook. Immediatelly after accepting my friend request she started sending messages, asking where I live, from where did I know her... We texted a bit, and since I felt she was interested in me, I asked her out -- to which she said yes. The date is set for later tonight at 9:40PM... However I noticed a few red flags: - When I flirt, she shuts me down and says she prefers to "demonstrate it rather than talk about it..." also that she "is conservative/reserved" about this kind of stuff... - She will initiate texting, but her energy is not half as much as mine. Her replies to me feel dry and bored. Although she says she likes me and says she "feels we'll work out..." and her lack of will to flirt is just disconcerting. I am sure she is a lot hotter to some of the other guys I know she is texting. - This one is different because she already started texting mentioning her intention of getting married... "What if we did something more than just be BF/GF?" -- this time I wasn't the one sounding desperate!!! On the contrary, I'm taking this very slow with low expectations. She is just showing many many blatant signs of disinterest. However she keeps saying she likes me and that I'm cute and all that stuff... that she wants to meet me and whatever... I mean she could just say no to the date, as I have low expectations, I wouldn't care and just move on to another woman...
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