jesslynlee120

I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a month now and I have mixed emotions and I need another perspective. I am 25 and he is turning 33 by the way. I’ve never dated an older guy before. When I first met him it was definitely a “love at first sight” moment. We connected so well and were both really attracted to each other. He wanted to see me almost everyday, and it seemed like he was fast tracking the relationship. 2 weeks in he asked me to be his girlfriend and told me he loved me, and a week ago he asked to move in with me because he’s selling his house. I just feel like this is way too soon. I have trouble saying no to people so I didn’t really give a straight answer to it. One night we went out drinking and I got pretty drunk and grabbed his phone thinking it was mine. Long story short in my drunken state, I saw he had a ton of flirty messages between him and his ex. Like reminiscing on old pictures together, and his ex asking to meet up for help with something. Then I saw he had a lot of explicit pics with him with other girls in his photos. These pics were about a month old. I know it was wrong to keep looking, but I couldn’t stop. I was heartbroken and confused. I can’t tell him I looked in his phone, and I really don’t want this guy moving in with me so soon. How do I go about talking with him about all of this?