CamaroJoe

"You can't go through life thinking that everyone you meet will one day let you down" - Danny Glover, Angels in the Outfield

Has anyone here ever felt the feeling when you're with a certain person and you feel anxious, nervous, excited, yet comfortable all at the same time? It's like you're talking to that person, looking directly into their eyes and they're look right back at your eyes and you just get butterflies in your stomach and you just know that it's right? Truthfully, has anyone else ever felt this way when they were with someone?

it can last. Just make sure you communicate some how. A phone call once a week, email, letters, whatever. And there has to be TRUST. thats the main thing. I did it for 2 years with one girl, and then another year with another. it's not exactly easy, but once a person has a doubt with the trust factor, it's pretty much all over. So... g'luck. BTW, as far as long distance, it worked out fine, but once we got back together it kinda got messed up. we changed a lot. So, it's actually better if you do a long distance if you don't know the person as much, but close enough to have a relationship and to be able to trust that person.

not true!!!!!!!! I mean, a little bit of game is aight, just as long as she doesn't drag it out and as long as she is honest. But if she's playing hard to get, but is flirty, it is ok for alittle while. but if she drags it out, it gets old quick.

Just curious.... What is everyone's favorite Cartoon?? i used to be addicted to The Simpsons, but nowadayz i'm partial to Family Guy. it's the funniest cartoon i've seen in ages. It's about a disfunctional family, but it's so dumb, it's funny.

Just so there is no confusion, don't mean sexually. I mean, just in a relationship way.

How does a girl act, or shall i say react, when a guy moves too fast; either by accident or purposly?

u should of called her. but don't fret. just tell her the truth. just be patient. everything works out in the end. but trust me, if you tell her you'll call her, call her.

dude, Emmitt Smith, the NFL's all time leading rusher is 5'9" 212 lbs, was 209 lbs for most of the career.. so judge for yourself. and if you need a confidence booster, trust in God and listen to Bone Thugs N Harmony's album Thug World Order....songs like : Get up and get it, All the way, and If i fall

girl, no matter what, you can't tell anything unless you miss your period. don't worry. wait till a week after you're supposed to have your period and go get one of those tests from the store, then if it's negative and you still don't have a period for another week, go see a doctor. Also, just because you have your period doesn't mean that you're not pregnant. So even if you have it, you may want to take a test anyway. Also one more thing, if you have two periods right in a row, get a test!!!!

dude, just back off a little. When you see her, just make conversation. Don't mention the email or anything. Just pretend you didn't send it, and if she says something about it, just make up some excuse. Just make sure she doesn't think you're obsessed over her. Then if you find out that she doesn't hava bf, then ask her out on a date. Just take your time. I know it's hard but patience is a virtue.. G'luck

yeah, that's what i'ma do. I'm not worried about it much anymore, because if she doesn't want me, then it's not the end of the world. I just wish she could look me in the eyes and tell me straight up and be honest. but i guess she's just not ready to give an answer yet. I was just hoping to get a famale's advice on what they thought of her saying that, and if they said that, what exactly it would mean.

i talked to Kristina again after work yesterday. I walked her to her car and she gave me a ride back. At work, she did her usually flirting and picking on me stuff. And i apologizsed to her about my voice mail in which i basically asked her how she felt about me and if we had something here or if she just wanted to be friends. She just apologized for not calling me back. Then when we got to my car, i basically asked her what she thought regarding my voice mail *after we talked for a while ofcourse* and she just smiled, looked away, then in a low voice just said "I can't deal with this right now".. so, i didn't want to pressure her, so i let it go at that. And we talked a little more and i let her go because it was Father's day. We hugged and departed. so...... hmmmm.. i dunno what she meant by that. I just know she's got a lot going on and that she's trying to get into a school somewhere, she hasn't decided yet. Oh, she also said she'd send me a long voice mail, and i asked her if it was good or bad and she just in her normal sarcastic but sweet tone said: "a little of both"... Anyone want to elaborate on that? especially if your a female..

I like Eminem. 50 cent's "in da club" is tight. "Life is like an obstacle, put in front of your optical to slow you down and just when you think you've gotten past it, it's gonna come back around and tackle you to the damn ground"

I wonder what it would be like to sail on an ocean of the bitter tears spilt by those who lost loved ones to a stranger......how many stadiums could you feel with the people killed at war?...Now you look me in the eyes and tell me what it's good for!........Absolutely nothing!

I agree with both. But if it so happens that she likes you also, watch out. Because girls like to play games. Just be careful. Even if you really like her or love her, try not to get too attatched too soon. Because you'll never understand women. They like it that way and some like to play games with you. Like, talk to you and then go a certain amount of time without replying to you or talking to you to see how far you will go to talk to them. So, like you said, take your time and don't rush things. And remember, time heals all. I'm in pretty much the same predicament, but i'm much further along. She's playing games and yesterday i asked her strait up how she felt, i haven't gotten a reply yet so i'ma just tell her she doesn't have to answer, i get the point, and i'll just be her friend. Because that's what it seems that she is implying. i guess she doesn't have to say it. But i'd rather her tell me instead of playing games. But oh well. G'luck man!

This is my horoscope for tomorrow lol hmmmmmmmmmm..... "You have had to deal with a lot of tension recently. Your main objective now should be to try to reorganize your relationships. Indeed, there has been a lot of tension with certain people that you need to alleviate. If you are more user friendly, and willing to share your feelings with your entourage, you will find that you have unexpected success"

SHE ALREADY KNOWS I LIKE HER. lol......... I thought I'd add that just in case you didn't read the whole story.

This is generally for females, but if you're a male and want to reply, have at it! Ok, the girl I like, Kristina... Well, I think I'ma kinda tell her how I feel, since I don't get to talk to her much anymore, I figured it wouldn't hurt. But i don't know exactly how to do it, so this is my plan. Lemme know if you think it is good or if I should change some stuff: I'ma talk to her and ask her how she feels about me, like if she still likes me and all. And if she does, i'ma ask her, if she stays instate when she goes to college, if there can be anything between us. And i'm going to add that we can take things as slow as she'd like. Then if she says that she's leaving outa state for college, I'ma ask her to be with me anyway, and then when she leaves, she can make the decision to either stay with me (if she feels like it's right), or she can just break it off, no strings (if she feels like we aren't right for eachother). That's my story.... Any comments?? (it will really help!!!!!) Anyway, this is the whole story, if you wanna know: This is the entire story from the very beginning. It's going to be pretty long. If you read, please reply, I'll take all the advice I can get. Well, it started like this: I've liked this girl for almost a year now. We both, two months ago, had our previous relationships ended. Then, I approached her. Well, first another co-worker whose also a female, told her I liked her, then I told her I liked her (we work together), and she basically said she felt weird. I didn't know how that meant but then I wrote her a letter to better explain myself and I told her in the letter to call me after she read it. She called and then she basically just told me that I had bad timing. Well, I waited a couple of days and then I asked her for her number. She gave it to me and I called her a few times and we talked for hours, I think twice. During the conversations I found out that she might be moving away to college. But I really like this girl, so I hung on the operative word "might". But even if she did, I'd wait for her because she's the most wonderful person I've ever met. So, after that, she went a few weeks without answering her phone, come to find out she was really busy with school and she had to study a lot for her exams. Then, I asked her out and she said when she was done with school, she'd have time. So recently, i asked her out again and we went to the movies and then afterwards we talked for a few hours. Then the next night after work we talked for about an hour. Then after that she kind of started acting distant. At work, she'd talk to me normally, but then after work she'd hang around another co-worker, which I took the hint that she didnt' want me to walk with her.... (one of our managers was there so she probably just didnt want her to know, actually I know she doesn't want any managers to know). Anyway, when I drove off, she was in her car, I waived and she honked her horn and smiled. The next day, I asked her if she'd go out with me again, she said yes. But she's not answering her phone. So, a couple of days later, I asked her why she hasn't answered her calls or called me back and she just said that she wasn't talking to anyone. (she she's said before.) So, then i asked her if i called her that night, if she'd want to talk, and she said "maybe" and smiled. Then i asked for a good time to call her and she replied "you'll find out" and smiled again. I was like WTF? She just playin' with me or what? Well, before that, she was being a little flirty and talkin' to me normal. So... i called and she didn't answer. Well, this is basically where I'm at. And we work together tomorrow, any advice to what i should do? ps.. I'd like to ask her to be with me, but I don't know how long to wait or to say it? (But I know I only have like 2 months left, if she moves and like I said, she's worth waitin' for) UPDATE: yesterday we worked together. And we talked a little and flirted a little. So lemme know if you think I should: "refer to the top"...

swing Fox, well ya see, I already know she likes me. I'm posting updates on my situation. it's a long story, but if you scroll back a couple of days, you'll be able to find th whole story. But we've already went out and everything, but one day she just started acting weird. And she didn't answer her phone or call me back. So, I confronted her and she said that she wasn't talking to anyone. So, lately she's been like that. But, we'll see how today goes. So, if you want to know the whole story, just scroll back, or ask me and i'll repost them.

Well, yesterday I went up to Kristina and I was like "hey" and she didn't reply. So I was thinking "whatever then". And when I went to walk away she said something to me like "do you have longer arms than me?" .... I guess she was trying to get something. Well, I replied something and then left. Then later she came to the back to get the later, and we talked a little, like playing around. Then later, I left before she did and I said "bye" and she replied... So, I dunno what's up with her. lol

lol, I wasn't the one stopping her. It was by boss. But she didn't ask till like the end of her shift, so I don't think that was it. At least not at first.

then, you probably haven't heard the whole story. lol scroll back a couple of days, and maybe they'll still be there. Then lemme know what you think.

Well, at first today at work, Kristina, the girl I've been talking about, didn't talk to me. I said "hey" and she didn't say anything, she just looked at me for a second. But then she said something to me, like asked me a question. Then later, she came to the back and I asked her how she was doing, she answered and asked the same. Well, to make a long story short, we talked for a little, but nothing real big. So I'ma just give her some time, maybe she'll call me like she said she would a while ago. I once decided that I was just gonna leave her alone and ignore her, but everytime I look at her i like her again. She's sooooooooo cute and sexy, it's unbelievable. So maybe if I give her time and just talk to her as "friends" she'l start talking to me again. But I never got perverted with her or anything, I just guess that I moved on her too fast and started talking to her a little too much. Can someone tell me if that's possible? Maybe if that is true? thanx....

i don't think I have. But maybe.