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Tonnes! Basically, you need to remain close to her, you face to hers, after that single lips kiss. Make sure youve got the timing good, as in dont just do this in public, or at a completely inappropriate time. Basically, kiss her on the lips, once, then stare into her eyes, your noses touching. If you want, a good ol' eskimo kiss (nose rubbing) can lighten the mood and make you both feel more relaxed. By maintaining physical facial closeness, you are as good as telling her what your about to do...; after the nose rubbing, or whatever (perhaps some more lip kisses, or a cheek kiss...just keep the closeness, and eyecontact is preferable) go for it! You should both be prepared by then and the first 'making out' session will start,lol.XD. Go in for another kiss, just...extend it, and soon enough youll be there! Good luck!

Wow, it worked! Lol, I told her what I preferred instead of what I didnt like her doing, and it worked! hehe. We agreed to guide each other on how to do it best. Thanks for the help, guys!

I can say now, its not like shes inexperienced....lol...Theres a lot of suction and a lot of focusing on the really sensitive parts at the top...sensitive not in a good way, just in a .... sensitive way! lol...

Majorly...

You're female, slight difference...

I can tell you now that it took this guy a sh*tload of courage to go and pick that syrup up, and it took him 10 days to build that courage up. To be honest, I think that getting angry with him was the worst thing you could do... See you said it you yourself he's shy around you. The fact that he asked you to bring him something back was an obvious sign that he likes you and you should be pleased that he came around at all... I wouldnt go up to him and make a direct formal appology then walk away, I'd use it as an excuse to talk to him. You want him to ask you out.. Have you ever cosidered asking HIM out? If I were you Id go up to him at some point and start a convo like...: "Hey, sorry for being angry the other day, I didnt mean to scare you/hurt you/etc... I was just stressed cos of my workload/other random excuse... Let me make it up to you, want to catch a movie sometime?" Go for it! =P Let me know how it goes!

Basically I and the girl Im with both love doing 3rd base, giving oral sex. She absolutely loves what I do for her, but when it comes to her doing stuff for me... It should be pleasant but Im finding what shes doing painful, well, overly sensitive and not necessarily in a good way... Ive managed to give her quite a few climaxes with what I do, and she really want to 'finish' me in return, but Im just not coming close with whats shes doing...Ive subtley suggested her being more gentle (she is quite...aggresive.. with what she does) ut all that seems to have resulted in is her going slightly slower. The first time she did stuff for me it was great because she was gentler, but we ran out of time... Is there anything anyone can suggested to solve my problem? I dont want to offend her in any way, and I think not 'finishing' after all her efforts is quite offensive.... Thanks in advance.

I spent a lot of time with her last week. We spent a lot of time (and money!) texting each other, and she even rang me. I spent over an hour talking to her on the phone, and I never speak to anyone on the phone! I went round her house on friday and we spent ages talking. We then went to another gig together. We spent the whole evening with each other, holding hands and hugging and stuff... Afterwards I took a couple of friends home and then me and her went for a nice long random drive, listening to loud music. We ended up in a park at 11.30 and one thing led to another and we ended up kissing... I asked her if we should be doing it, but she said for me not to worry about anything and that it felt right... I went to hers the next day, Xmas eve, and more talking, hugging and kissing... She's gone away for this week to see her bf. She's texting me everyday and we've got to the point where we're telling each other what we really like about the other. She said theres something she really want to tell me, but that at the time it wouldnt be appropriate so will wait till she comes back. Im not sure which way this 'thing' will be. Whether her saying she's finished with her bf, or whether shes gonna say what we're doing has got to stop... So, yeah...

lol, the girl mentioned in my original post must like it...she presses her whole body up tight against me when hugging. =)

Im in a similar situation but the thing is the bf lives several hundred miles away! Uumm, I guess you should just show the two of them respect and that... Be there for her if anything goes wrong with her and the bf. Im afraid that all you can do, if she and her bf seem to be getting on perfectly fine at the moment...

Ok, I know this may sound harsh, but drop him. He doesnt sound like he's worthy of you, or generally worth the hassle. It sounds as if he's just using you. If he has these feelings for you that you say he has, then dropping him will give him a reality check and make him realise how badly he's been treating you, which should make him come back to you. If you drop him and he doesnt ask for you to have him back then that'll show you those feelings were false. Im sorry this all sounds harsh, but relationships have to work both ways....

Dont go into anything with a set mind; either planning to give a relationship a go, or not to. Spend time with her in ways you both feel comfortable. Allow things to progress on their own. That'll give you time to sort your head out; you can see from spending more time with her what your feelings are about her. If things were meant to be...

Omg...Youve brought tears to my eyes... If ever you want to chat, PM me... I'll even give MSN address if you want, for someone to talk to... This prob doesnt mean anything but *hug*.

MySpace, in my opinion, is a brilliant creation. Whilst there are some dodgy people on there, they are few. Generally, I find that people like it cos they get to communicate with people with similar interests etc. and, as said, can vent to them and that, without actually having to meet them. This often means people open up more to those they dont 'know' as they dont have to see them face to face the next day, saving embarasment and such. When in a relationship its perfectly fine to use these sites, well MySpace at least. As said, Hot or Not is used by desperate shallow people, and should definitely not be used if youre in a relationship: you shouldnt need some random people on the internet to tell you if youre attractive if youve got a bf/gf to do that for you. But if you trust your gf, then you should be comfortable with her going on whatever sites she wants... I personally have become friends with a girl via MySpace, that seems like it could go further, who lives near me and goes to my school etc, but who I was always originally to shy to approach. After talking on MySpace for a bit, meeting face to face was easy! Hehe.

Theres this girl from school, lets call her J, that Ive fancied for some months now but never actually spoken to there. I basically thought I'd never stand a chance with her. To my amazement I received a friend request on link removed from her the other day. We have some mutual friends so assume J found my profile via these friends', thought I sounded cool and added me, or something. We got talking and it turned out that she thought I was another guy from school with the same name and musical interests, lol. But we still carried on talking via the site for the rest of the evening. The next day I was at a local gig and bumped into her there. Our eyes immediately locked and she was like "Its you!". We ended up hanging around together, with some other people, for the rest of the night. Now, shes a very sociable person and knew basically everyone at this gig. I didnt really know anyone there apart from the two guys Id gone there with, and even still, I wouldnt class any of them as close friends. Towards the end of the evening, we were outside, and it was freezing! I was standing there, hands in pockets, shivering and basically a bit down, and J came up to me away from the others, and slipped her arms under mine and around my waist and gave me the nicest longest hug I've had for aaages. As Ive said, she is a very sociable girl and will hug almost anyone, but I hadnt seen her hug anyone in this way and for that length of time, that evening. After that she seemed less interested in everyone else and spent the rest of the evening close to me, and kept giving me hugs, even stating that I was hers, lol. I was already giving the two guys I went with a lift home, and had offered to give J a lift, as she lived near the first of the two friends, and had no other way of getting home. I planned to drop J and the first friend to their houses, then that the last friend home, en-route to my house. However, J suggested that I took the route that took the last friend home first, then the other friend then her. I got excited at this point as it meant she wanted to be alone with me when she said bye. So yeah, I dropped the other two friends home, and me and J were singing along to every song I had playing in the car, which was great; no other girl I know likes the same music as me! We got to hers and sat in the car for a while just talking. She complimented my musical taste, thanked me for the lift, and, funnily, for the evening! She even asked for my number, gave me another hug, and kissed me on the cheek! When I got home I sent her a text just saying goodnight, and received an essay in reply! We texted for a it that night, and for all of yesturday. She has said in the texts that Im the coolest person shes met for a while and the only person shes ever really clicked with. I replied with similar things. And she has said thats shed like to meet up before Xmas, as on Boxing day she is going away. Now, here is where the problem is. I know she has a boyfriend that lives quite a distance away, and she doesnt get to see all that often. I also know that she is going on boxing day to see him. But on things like MySpace she barely mentions her bf and says shes single...which is a bit confusing. Do you think she'd drop this long-distance relationship in order to be with me?