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Samuraixbob

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  1. My ex and I did that too... It made things bad. I suggest you back off. Stop letting her use you and still be single. If she wants to be single she cant have you too. Its bad for you too, because it'll mess with your emotions. It'll make you guys start to tear apart from eachother.
  2. My ex and I have ben apart for some time now. We havnt talked all that often for the last few months. We talk at the most once a week, for a minute or through a text message. I still want to see what it would be like with her again. But unfortunately, she is slightly mad at me still. Its weird though, when we see eachother I can tell she is still in love with me deep down inside. And if we hug, she will not let go. The weird thing is that she still trys sto keep as distant as possible. Why? and what can I do?
  3. if it was my ex girlfriend, and she was 16, Id just tell her that she is going to regret smoking while she had a an unborn child. And if it were my child with my ex, id make her quit.
  4. Im the guy with the daddy restraining order. And this morning, by a stroke of fate, me and my ex showed up for school half an hour late. I was walking to my class as she pulled up. She waved, so I stood their for a moment waiting for her to park. She did, and then came over to me. we talked for a bit about nothing really, then i dtried to convince her to buy a snowboard. because i took her snowboarding once and she loved it, and at Zummies their is an awsome deal on last years boards. Neways. So I cut our fun short to go to class. After class she and I came out to the parking lot at nearly the same time. I'll admit, I went slow getting into my car in hopes that she would come out. Well we talked again. then as i was leaving I said we should hang out some time. She agreed, and said it'll be hard since their is that 6 month daddy restraining order. i told her it'll be more exciting. she smiled. Then at the light on the way out form school she told me to go to a certain party that one of our mutual friends is having, cause she'll be their.
  5. Working out at that age is fine. My friend Brett was a really skinny kid when he started working out at the age of 15. Now he's huge, and no-one messes with him. everyone at school knew him because of how big he was. Working out is fun. But I suggest the gym. Their is alot to learn their, and no one wuld make fun of a young kid starting early.
  6. I heard spermicide can weaken condoms. I'm not sure if it is, but I wouldn't take the risk.
  7. How long have been you two been together? And how close is this relationship. are you deeply in love?
  8. I think that she told her dad she was getting bugged, and then he took it into his own hands. Because her and I were going to not talk for only 1 or 2 months. I think he extended it thinking it would make us get over eachother.
  9. Its not a by law restraining order. Its a Daddy restraining order. Witch I feel is worse than a law restraining order because her dad is a big car guy that loves his only daughter, and her older twin brothers are 6'6 200 somthin lbs. but im going to talk to her mom and see if I can get closure.
  10. Were going out friday. but in two weeks she is moving to san diego for school. witch is where I was going in two years.
  11. Ok. things with my ex have got bad. I have been talking to her every now and then about one of my friends because he and his ex just found out that his ex is pregnant. he is only 19. My ex is good with that kind of stuff so I was going to her for advice to help my friend. That conflicted with the fact that she didnt want to talk for a while. I didnt respect that she didnt want to talk because it didnt seem like it bothered her all that much. Well, apparently it did. I guess is bothered her enough or bothered her dad enough to have him lay down some rules. Or a "Daddy Restraining order" he told her and I that we can not talk for 6 months. No exceptions. I dont know if she even cares about not talking to me anymore. I know that she cared enough about me to not want to hurt me, and that she is unsure enough about her feelings to not say we'll never date again. so what can I do? The worse part about the Daddy rules is that I cant even call her on her birthday. Another bad thing about it is that we didnt even get to talk one more time before this rule was made. So it just feels like she died. I cant do a thing. I want to get her a message or note telling her to call me on her birthday. And let her know im still here if she has any probloms, and that It just feels like she died without any closure. Then in two or three months I was thinking I go to the mall where she works and bump into her. By then she should've cooled off. I hope that after a few weeks she will miss me, and then she will call me. but it feels unlikly.
  12. In one of my classes their is this hot tan girl who looks prepy/snowboarder. I catch her looking at me in class. She is really outgoing towards me. The other day we walked to our cars together talking about what we wanted to do after school. We were having a good time. When we got to the point that i had to go another, i said so and she sad for me to still walk with her, then she would give me a ride to my car. When we got to my car I said bye. then she said it. then she said it again. kinda sorta trying to give me the hint to ask for her #. but i didnt. than after i was out whe said bye again. was i stupid to not ask for her #?
  13. its a tad more complicated i called her too much for a while. all she wants to not have anything o do with me.
  14. My ex and I dated for over a year. We never had any probloms but one. She doesnt condone drinking or anything of that sort at all. She is mormon, or was. During our relationship we broke up about two times because I lied to her about drinking with my friends. And then I had a change within myself and I quit drinking all-together. But on new years eve my stupid friends talked me into smoking weed. My ex was extreally against that. I figured what the hell, because I was kinda mad because I wasnt going to be seeing her that night. then she showed up ran to me extatic and kissed me. she pushed off me took a few steps back and started to cry, then she ran out of the house. she tasted the smoke on my breath. After that she hated me. we almost got back together but she found out about some other times I had smoked. It was way overr. she hated me. I worked extreamly hard to get her to not hate me. and we eventually hooked back up. but we wern't ready for a relationship yet so we broke up. Then I moved on and she came crying back to me because she thought we were going to wait for eachother to be ready. so I dumped the other girl and mu ex and I hooked back up. That also didnt work out. anywasy to make a long story short Im not over her. she is over me. For a while we talked everyday. but now she wants to have at least 3 weeks where we dont talk at all. she said she hasn't had any time since we broke up. what can I do. she loves me, but hates me right now. I have already cleaned up my act. but hers is a mess now. she drinks and isnt mormon anymore. what should I do.
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