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    It wasn't the actual act. It was the idea that there was more to him than missionary before bed sex, regardless of the direction.
    I honestly did not expect so much judgement from an online forum though I understand why. The reason I put this here is because I cannot imagine telling any human I know personally.
    He's very private. Very quiet. We've had numerous fights over his complete lack of communication and expression. But I figured that's just who he was. And I'm mostly okay with it. I over share and have no shame. I don't expect everyone to be like that.
    I honestly don't care who believes me or who doesn't. I just needed to put it out there. Getting Ready for a First Date

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    What happens when you hide these objects? Does he sleepwalk or find them? Does he talk or eat in his sleep? It could be eclairs or pickles, etc. Have you checked the fridge or kitchen in the morning?

    Has be been worked up for parasomnias or sleep disorders? Perhaps your arousal over all this is simply observing him having weird dreams/parasomniac rote behaviors.
    Originally Posted by Overthemoon7
    I wouldn't call it giddy...manic maybe.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    👹🐗💩🐷🌭👇🦄🤖👾Your troll posts are so amusing you should consider writing for some sort of porn site. Y

    thank you!

    my thoughts exactly, but I wasn't going to say it

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    👹🐗💩🐷🌭👇🦄🤖👾Your troll posts are so amusing you should consider writing for some sort of porn site. You don't have a question or want advice you are just writing out your fantasies here.Especially like the screaming capitols and frequent vulgarities. 🚽💩

    Have you taken a look at these? : [Register to see the link]
    This is literally the second time I've experienced it.
    And now who's trolling?

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    It does sound trolling.

    I can't see any woman getting manic over a man deep throating a dildo.

    Next.

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    That's good. 🥒🤓He could have broken a tooth on a glass one.
    Originally Posted by Overthemoon7
    glow in the dark glass dildo. BUT THIS TIME IT WASN'T BY HIS FACE.

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    This is not a troll post.
    I've gotten the answers I wanted. My choices were to bring it up or not. Lol.
    I donít understand if after 7 years together the hesitation to bring it up.

    I realize itís a delicate topic but how can you manage 7 years together without any form of mutual communication?

    How can we hazard to guess the motivation behind your boyfriendís desire to de*pthroat a vibrator anymore than you can? We can speculate, sure, but itís just speculation.

    Youíre always going to learn new things about each other so maybe try to just consider this one of them.

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    Originally Posted by Leah33
    I donít understand if after 7 years together the hesitation to bring it up.

    I realize itís a delicate topic but how can you manage 7 years together without any form of mutual communication?

    How can we hazard to guess the motivation behind your boyfriendís desire to de*pthroat a vibrator anymore than you can? We can speculate, sure, but itís just speculation.

    Youíre always going to learn new things about each other so maybe try to just consider this one of them.
    You're right. And that's why I was hoping the suggestions would be less inquisitive...
    We've never been like that. We still don't even fart in front of each other. (I know it's a lame example but you get it.)
    I agree I'm always going to learn more about him...I just don't know if HE'S ready for me to know. Like saying him doing it in bed next to me was an invitation...I think he was just being careless. He's very prideful and emotional and I just don't see this conversation going well. I just wanted to see how crazy other people thought it was and honestly to get it off my chest.
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    Originally Posted by Overthemoon7
    You're right. And that's why I was hoping the suggestions would be less inquisitive...
    We've never been like that. We still don't even fart in front of each other. (I know it's a lame example but you get it.)
    I agree I'm always going to learn more about him...I just don't know if HE'S ready for me to know. Like saying him doing it in bed next to me was an invitation...I think he was just being careless. He's very prideful and emotional and I just don't see this conversation going well. I just wanted to see how crazy other people thought it was and honestly to get it off my chest.
    I donít blame you on the fart thing. Farts are unsexy.

    If you wanít to avoid being direct, maybe bring a popsicle to bed, work the popsicle first and then let him finish it. Could be a less invasive way to broach the topic.

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    Originally Posted by Overthemoon7
    It wasn't the actual act. It was the idea that there was more to him than missionary before bed sex, regardless of the direction.
    I honestly did not expect so much judgement from an online forum though I understand why. The reason I put this here is because I cannot imagine telling any human I know personally.
    He's very private. Very quiet. We've had numerous fights over his complete lack of communication and expression. But I figured that's just who he was. And I'm mostly okay with it. I over share and have no shame. I don't expect everyone to be like that.
    I honestly don't care who believes me or who doesn't. I just needed to put it out there.
    How long have you owned the ďglassĒ dildo for?
    Itís obviously not glass but thatís beside the point.

    Did you own these toys before you met him 7 years ago?
    Because it certainly sounds like you and missionary boy didnít buy them together.

    If you had them before 7 years ago , fine. If you bought them while with him then you are at fault for lack of communication.

    Your post is sounding very much like a troll post. After 7 years you find him deep throating a regular dildo and when the responses you got didnít satisfy you , suddenly and apparently the next night he is using a glow in the dark glass dildo elsewhere lol

    Of course you donít care what people think. Why would you when itís a concocted story?
    Itís just fun to waste peoples time right?
    Iíll give you all the time you want!!!
    But Iím not a psychologist so perhaps your time spent would be better with one.

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