Pheonixpassion84

For me it depends on the guy I'm attracted to. If he's really attractive and or I don't know him that well I try to make eye contact with him. I also come up with reasons to "accidentaly" bump into him.. even if when I do so I don't actually talk to him because I'm too shy. For guys I am more comfortable around or that I know well, I try to talk to them or come up with reasons that I need to. I also try to bump into them a lot.

Aw thanks for the advice! Hopefuly time and meeting new people will help. Maybe a new love interest will eventually come along. I appriciate your advice. It is so helpful, and thank you for responding rather than just viewing lol.

Female: No limit. Could be as early as one week depending on the man and situation. Could also be months... once again depending on the man and situation.

I cannot be with the guy I am in love with... for many reasons I am too tired to explain. I am depressed by it and heartbroken. I don't know how I'll ever get over him. All I feel is pain. Other than that it's just numb. Here's where the casual sex comes in: I have had two offers from two different guy friends to have casual sex. I am considering one of the guys. Normaly I wouldn't since there is only one man I want. But now I can't have him and my heart is broken. I know It'll be long (maybe never) before I love someone else again. I never had sex with the other guy (the one I love) because we never got that far. I don't think I will for a long time if I ever do so I think I should give up on saving myself for him. So I thought that maybe if I try this sex with a friend thing it could help me get over him. Get me to feel something other than the heart break. So I was wondering, what is the best thing to do in this situation? Have any of you guys experienced with the casual sex thing? Does it help you get over someone or just make things worse? How can I get over him?

she may just be shy around you because she likes you. But its hard to tell. I'd give it some time and see what happens. Hope it goes well

Maybe you are attracted to him because he is different and unique. It is good to experiment with things that are out of the norm and different. You should keep hanging out with him and see if the relationship grows. If you like him then maybe show interest. That's awesome he played a song for you! I'm jealous hahaha. Hope it goes well

Hooray! Wow you backed that up. I totally agree with you. Well not 100%... but I do think that everyone should have some single time in their lives to focus on other things like being yourself and becoming an individual. Maybe even making an awesome career move or traveling. Just let love come to you... if you want it

I was curious what you guys thought of the following questions. Input appreciated 1. Can you fall in love more than once in your lifetime? 2. Can you experience true love more than once? 3. Can you fall in love with someone who isn't in love with you? 4. Is there only one person who is 'meant to be'? 5. Are you ever too young or too old to be in love? 6. Does true love really last forever? 7. What defines "falling in love"?

Just excercise 3-5 times a week, and eat only when you are hungry (not when youre bored lol I know everyone does it) Also try to eat healthy foods. If you need to lose weight just stop when you think you look good. People don't see some scale number when they look at you, they see you and your body. So focus more on the physical beauty and health not just some number from a scale.

1) I am proud of my determination 2) I am proud of my willing to accept people 3) I am proud of my talents 4) I am proud of my sense of humor I think four is good enough for now

I am so broken hearted. I loved someone and I let him slip away. I rarely ever see him again and think at this point he may like someone else. If only I wasn't so afraid to tell him I loved him as more than a friend.. things could've changed. But he's moving away to go to school and I'm stuck hear heart broken. I've never felt so lifeless and painful at the same time. i have no appetite, and never stop thinking about this person. I don't know how I will ever get over him. It doesn't help that I am also very stressed out lately. I feel like I don't know where I belong anymore, things have gotten so messed up this summer (one of my best friends cheated on another of my best friends and I got stuck in the middle.. I won't get too in depth.). And I feel so worthless and unloved. I've tried everything. Comfort food doesn't appeal to me (loss of appetite) I can't seem to distract my mind. I do a lot of things but still can't distract my mind from him. I don't know what to do. Can you ever get over the person you're in love with? Do you only fall in love once in your life? Can you be in love with someone who doesn't love you back? Is there any way to get over him? Idk what to do anymore...

After reading this thread... I think that maybe 3 months of dating is a short time. And that with the military it may be difficult to see eachother... but isn't that what love's about? It shouldn't matter what the circumstances are, love will survive anything. Plus it is her decision who and when she wants to marry. She should enjoy it! Good luck with the wedding. Hope you find a pretty dress!

Just a question: did you ask whether she had feelings for you before you told her you loved her, or after?

omg i cant handle this. i cant handle myself. I know this is the dumbest post ever. But I have to vent. Im in love. I know it. I know I am. But he's moving away. And I can't tell him I love him because he has a horrible relationship past. Plus I could never ruin our frienship. Id rather be friends than not friends and him knowing I love him. I don't know if he loves me back. He acts like it. But.. niether of us makes a move. The thing is, I don't want to be in love with him. When he moves away (all the way accross the country) im going to die. Im going to heartbreak. I haven't eaten anything for 24 hours. I can't. I'm not hungry. All I do is think about him. This is so messed up. What's wrong with me?! I'm not like this... I never have been. Ahh](*,)

sometimes people love more than one thing. For example: someone who loves their significant other, but also loves their career. When those two things separate and you have to go with one. It doesn't mean you don't love the other.