doyathink Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 I think we are negative 28...boy you are cold....turn on the heat! Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 28, negative -28, holy crap! It's 67 outside! lol I'm EST. I'm going out at 9 est. I'm very glad for you DYT, that would not be a good thing. (A distressed DYT walks into emergency room with said nipples in cup of ice...) Link to comment
Vynde Posted November 30, 2006 Author Share Posted November 30, 2006 Im going home for the day. Goodnight to you all. Ill be thinking of all of you tonight as I gaze up at the stars. John Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 nite John~I'll drink to your health! Link to comment
dreamingwithabrokenheart Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 that this story reminded me of how my gf left me after six years together. i mean the same scenario. i lost 10 lbs in one week. i thought i was the only one going through this until i foudn this forum. Link to comment
sandyv Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 Dreamingwithabrokenheart: No way, you and many, many of us are in the same boat, you are not alone at all, we all come here to help each other... And by the way welcome, stick with us, we can help..... Link to comment
sandyv Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 Night John: Will be thinking of you, all the best till tomorrow..... Link to comment
doyathink Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 28, negative -28, holy crap! It's 67 outside! lol I'm EST. I'm going out at 9 est. I'm very glad for you DYT, that would not be a good thing. (A distressed DYT walks into emergency room with said nipples in cup of ice...) I wouldn't need ice if it's -28 outside. Just throw em in the seat and drive...lol Link to comment
Stambler Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Well, it was a cloudy night, but it became gusty and cleared just enough clouds away to expose 4 stars! In my moment of clarity, the thing that came to my mind was to be at peace with everything I am going through. To change what I can, accept what I can't and be abe to know the difference. Yep, that's what I want - inner peace! I also thought of a person I'd like to be with, and imagined her, by some chance, staring at the stars at that exact moment (and it's not my soon to be ex!) Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Hi Camber, Sandy here, my though was (but I could not see any stars cause of the rain) was of all you guys my pals..... that I wish the best for you and all of us and there is no way, thats we cannot be alright.... thought of you all, and I had a true feeling of peace, it was wonderful Link to comment
doyathink Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Ok. I was out there and didn't see any of you! lol Cold...BUUURRRR......still shaking too. I seen several but only two very bright ones. The only thing I could think about was one person who has been very kind and caring. It also reminded me that there is so much more to life than the small piece of what we enjoy everyday. We tend to focus only on our routines instead of the whole scope of things...life is beautiful! Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Right On DYT: You are soo cool, I really love your way of thinking, now where Is that booze????? Link to comment
doyathink Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 um, well between you and the cat...it was finished off last night. lol Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Aww damn, oh well I guess maybe I'll have to have a few Lucky Lager tonite than..... Hope all is well with you girl... Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Aww Camber, that sounds so very romantic! Link to comment
Stambler Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Thanks sandy! She thought so too (I had to tell her!) Link to comment
doyathink Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 No you didn't. I knew when I read it camber....shilly sit. Link to comment
Stambler Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 No you didn't. I knew when I read it camber....shilly sit. ......... Link to comment
Stambler Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 John, Lone, Desert, Okie, W1nter.... Waiting to hear from you about your star gazing.... Link to comment
Vynde Posted December 1, 2006 Author Share Posted December 1, 2006 Hey Camber and gang For me it was a great feeling, I walked out about 5 to 9, and waited. When 9 came around, it was a feeling of comfort, I will admit. I’m glad we decided to do that. It was a great idea. In fact, I would like to do it again one day soon, maybe right before the holidays. I didn’t get to see any stars, but that’s ok. I knew they were there Did everyone get to do it? Hope everyone is doing ok. John Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Good Morning, it was raining here. I saw not the first star, but I sat in quiet peace and thought about the person I was, and the person I want to become. I thought about loving, and about the secure feeling you get when you hold hands with the person who holds your heart. I thought about betrayal, and about deception. I thought about the war, and about my blessings. I thought my friends, old and new~and wondered if they are where they wanted to be. I hoped that they were. I told myself it was okay to continue to let go~ Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 ***sigh*** I'm ready for the weekend, it's been a long week. The ex is moving to the beach next week, she's packing this weekend. This is all so difficult, I kinda hate that she called me about that cat because now I know that she is moving~ah the "ignorance is bliss" part of NC is such a good thing. (IMO) . (but I'm glad she called because I can't imagine the cat living with anyone me if she doesn't keep her) I bought a "bucket" (yep) of margarita mix and added the tequilla last night and put it in the fridge. It's overcast here and I am filled with an overwhelm sense of "This is it?" Somebody break wind or something, I need a laugh. Link to comment
Stambler Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Awww, Lone! I'm finding the same thing. As my wife and I are in the same house and haven't even started the separation/divorce process yet, we both know it's going to be a long haul, and we're both uncomfortable. I find that on her meeting nights, I am so much more at ease, home alone with my son, having fun.... So, just try to keep it even keeled until she moves out, as difficult as that may be. Here's your laugh - My son (3 years old) farted the other night and laughed so hard he couldn't catch his breath! He said "Ohhhhhhhhhhhh mannnnnnnnnnnnn!" and then blamed his mommy!!!!! Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 lol...I wonder where'd he learned to blame your wife dude?! I wonder where Desert and the cat are today? The cat should be good for a fart story or two! Link to comment
Stambler Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Oh man! Cat farts are the worst!!!!! Link to comment
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