sandyv Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Hey Camber, Lone, John Desert, Kath132, DYT and any other pour soul i've left out... lol Hey I'm here, afew too many lucky lagers last night.. I suppose, hope everyone is well? Kath123 sounds like you are doing much better in comparing your older posts! I had a laid back weekend, except of course yesterday.... went to local bar and guess what, the ex came in shortly after me...... I just ignored his existence totally, kept talking to the guys at the bar.... I was the only female there..... these guys were telling me how he was looking like a lost puppy, I didn't notice cause I never even looked his way after being aware he was there..... but I gotta admit, I got that crappy love feeling again... but went home feeling sorta good knowing he seems to be kinda sad..... Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 lol...does he have a Crane or he just blows through it with his fist?...man kids are great, time vested is nothing, in fact,neither is time, but fun now thats the thing, and why not? Life is too short! I'm sorry Camber, that must be very difficult to deal with sometimes. You'll get through. No, you need to let her go, as hard as that will be. You are right about that. Work on you. Re define that man in the mirror. Spend time with that boy. Hold tight to him. You're family loves you (and there disapproval although intrusive and aggravating to you, is not totally incorrect? Right? they love you and may see pain in you, you do not realise you show them. They want you to be happy. They cannot help feeling somewhat negative about someone who had cause you pain. They will continue to "judge" your partners in future~not much you can do about that. Ask them to be fair, and give people a chance. (thats what we will have to learn to do as well) Link to comment
desertnomad Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 You got that right LS. The unknown can really be an a** kicker some days Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Hey Sandyv~ You handled that so well!! Good for you. I know the crappy love feeling...we should write a song called that! It will pass. Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Yes sounds good Lone: That Crappy Love Feeling, by The Enotalone Pointless Sisters!!! Link to comment
desertnomad Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Haha or for them how about "you've lost that crappy loving feeling" Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Right, a collective album... contains smash hits like!!! "That crappy love feeling" "the Lincon log shuffle and the broken barn" "If you think I'm a stud muffin in this jacket" "my cat is evil and should be in prison, but I am a h*ll of a nice guy" Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 I feel like I starred in the break up, but no one besides DYT or Sandy would have seen me there because everyone else was looking at Jeffifers a**! (okay guilty as well) Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 love it Camber! (by the way would you mind not grabbing my not ringing phone for me? I think I don't hear it) Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Yeah yeah!! I love those tunes. "whoops, was that your heart?" "what becomes of the cut up bankcard?" (to the tune of what becomes of the broken hearted) Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 How about "If drinking don't kill Me Your Memory Will' ;( LOL Link to comment
desertnomad Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 haha I like that one Sandy Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 lol Sandyv! "I think my fly sealed shut" "all I want for christmas is kleenex" Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 How about some songs about dating again like: "I thought you were pretty, too bad you had a wiener?" Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Desert~I know you have a few of these right? lol Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 "Oh... what the hell is "myspace" will help me get a date? You up on my computer and truthfully~ your not that great, Oh... the photo maybe older ~ I guess you thought it'd do.... oh what the hell is my space, and is that even you???" Link to comment
desertnomad Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 How about..."It was just my imagination until I saw you running away with him" (about those sneaky suspicions she always denied....) Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 The truth is i've been sitting on the subway train, many other places too, and cannot even imagine going out with anyone at all..... I guess either I'm too picky or reality is the pickings are very slim? Even in the bars....? Link to comment
desertnomad Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Thats exactly what I was feeling this weekend Sandy- slim pickings but theres no way I am going to think I am being to picky now, better too picky than the other way around.. Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Hey Desert your right about that, thats why when I click with someone I get involved despite the fact maybe they are not for me probably..... such as my dumb a** ex...... Link to comment
Biffy Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Hey guys, my ex contacted me again today. If you don't know my story I'll include a bit of background for good measure. My ex split up with me, I begged as you do, then had a period of LC... as close as NC as possible as we work together. The less I responded to her daily contact and the more aloof I was the more she contacted me/ flirted with me. She was phoning me for b/s work reasons to change it into meaningless chat or just emaing/ im'ing me. It got to the point that she was contacting me one way or another up to 10 times a day. I reached the end of my tether and said - do you want to get back together with me? she said no, so I said then please don't contact me again unless you change your mind. That was about 2 weeks ago. She emailed me last week to wish me a happy birthday, I let that slide but this afternoon she IM'd me... it went like this - Her "Hi" Me "errrm... hi" Her "How's you?" Me "Great, especially as you want to get back together with me." Her "I didn't say that" Me "I asked you to only contact me if that were the case" Her "You were serious??" Me "As a heart attack" Her "oh." Blows my mind... Though may make one or two of you chuckle! Link to comment
Biffy Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Hey Desert your right about that, thats why when I click with someone I get involved despite the fact maybe they are not for me probably..... such as my dumb a** ex...... What else can you do though? What else is there besides a genuine connection between people? It's the basis of any relationship I guess... Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Zombian that is funny! You put a smile on my face for sure!!! She sounds like she was so shocked...... lol Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 what else can you do? Z~run? lol Link to comment
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