Batya33 Posted October 30, 2019 Share Posted October 30, 2019 I agree to disagree. Not all people mature at the same rate based on my human observation. I agree. I don't think it takes maturity to ask someone to spend time. Little kids do that. "Want to come over my house and play?" You know why -because people move towards pleasure and away from pain -even immature ones. So if this guy wanted to see her again he'd make it happen whether by asking her out on a date or calling her and suggesting a get together, or similar. He hasn't and he never has. The extent of his interest in her has been telling her sweet things/compliments when he just met her, sexual actions and he has shown interest in how her sexual technique compares to porn stars. That doesn't suggest any interest in dating her or getting to know her for purposes of a relationship. Certainly if she calls him and asks him out on a date he might say yes but I would think that that would be mostly to have sex with her again if not the entire reason. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted October 30, 2019 Share Posted October 30, 2019 Because he kept telling you how much he liked you. I wouldn't do that unless I mean it. When you rejected his offer to drop you home. Maybe he took it like you weren't really interested. He said she was a good lay and compared her to a porn star. Not sure that translates into he "likes" her. Or that it's respectful. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 Because he kept telling you how much he liked you. I wouldn't do that unless I mean it. When you rejected his offer to drop you home. Maybe he took it like you weren't really interested. If he liked her he would have contacted her. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 He said she was a good lay and compared her to a porn star. Not sure that translates into he "likes" her. Or that it's respectful. Agreed..... Link to comment
minute_perception Posted October 31, 2019 Author Share Posted October 31, 2019 Update everyone: thank you for your replies! I noticed he just unfollowed a bunch of girls on Instagram and I was one of them. He seems pretty immature anyway and it's like he wants me to be affected by it. I wouldn't be at all surprised if he comes up with some lie saying his ex went through his Instagram and did a clean out. Anyway, no loss for me. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 Dump this clown 🤡 Did you delete and block him? Maybe he tells all his "followers" they are like porn stars in bed, it worked on you, no? Then promptly dumps them. He may keep a bunch of spare old clothes to give fellating ladies as souvenirs of their one-night stand with him .👔👕👖🧦👘 Delete and block him from everywhere and toss his stuff . Update everyone: thank you for your replies! I noticed he just unfollowed a bunch of girls on Instagram and I was one of them. He seems pretty immature anyway and it's like he wants me to be affected by it. I wouldn't be at all surprised if he comes up with some lie saying his ex went through his Instagram and did a clean out. Anyway, no loss for me. Link to comment
minute_perception Posted October 31, 2019 Author Share Posted October 31, 2019 Dump this clown 🤡 Did you delete and block him? Maybe he tells all his "followers" they are like porn stars in bed, it worked on you, no? Then promptly dumps them. He may keep a bunch of spare old clothes to give fellating ladies as souvenirs of their one-night stand with him .👔👕👖🧦👘 Delete and block him from everywhere and toss his stuff . Thanks wiseman, I definitely unfollowed him. I'm still so puzzled by it all though. I've had one night stands before and it's been pretty obvious it was just that and I had no expectations, not with this one though. What do you think the reason of unfollowing me was for? Link to comment
SherrySher Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 I'm just keeping it real, okay? If you behave like a "pornstar" and sleep with strange men like his, you're not going to get a boyfriend out of it and don't expect follow ups or dates. He got what he wanted out of you and it's done. Please respect yourself more and men might too. Link to comment
SherrySher Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 What do you think the reason of unfollowing me was for? He's no longer interested. It's clear as day. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 Thanks wiseman, I definitely unfollowed him. I'm still so puzzled by it all though. I've had one night stands before and it's been pretty obvious it was just that and I had no expectations, not with this one though. What do you think the reason of unfollowing me was for? I think it's irrelevant -probably no reason -he was just cleaning up his list of who he follows and he chose you as one of those people. Also he might think it's wise in case he meets someone else soon and doesn't want her to see that he follows a lot of women he slept with. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 Thanks wiseman, I definitely unfollowed him. I'm still so puzzled by it all though. I've had one night stands before and it's been pretty obvious it was just that and I had no expectations, not with this one though. What do you think the reason of unfollowing me was for? Back with the ex or something like that. Whatever the reason, it is a clear signal that he is not interested in meeting again. Link to comment
minute_perception Posted October 31, 2019 Author Share Posted October 31, 2019 Most likely yes, I have this intution that he's angry also because I put up an instagram story of another man last night. I think I will just drop his clothing back anyway. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 This is too much work for a one night stand. Make better choices! Link to comment
Hollyj Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 Thanks wiseman, I definitely unfollowed him. I'm still so puzzled by it all though. I've had one night stands before and it's been pretty obvious it was just that and I had no expectations, not with this one though. What do you think the reason of unfollowing me was for? Why do you care!? Move on, already! Block and delete! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 He's done.What do you think the reason of unfollowing me was for? Link to comment
SherrySher Posted October 31, 2019 Share Posted October 31, 2019 He does not care about another man. He doesn't want you for a gf. He said all the things he did to get you into bed. Once that happened, he was over it. Link to comment
calichick007 Posted November 1, 2019 Share Posted November 1, 2019 Most likely yes, I have this intution that he's angry also because I put up an instagram story of another man last night. I think I will just drop his clothing back anyway. That doesn't make sense, given that you were one of many girls he unfollowed. If he wanted his clothes back, he would have reached out to you. Going to someone's home who hasn't contacted you and unfollowed you is a terrible idea. At this point, it's an obvious ploy to see him again and he'll see right through it. Just let it go. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 1, 2019 Share Posted November 1, 2019 Agree. Do not stalk or just show up.If he wanted his clothes back, he would have reached out to you. Going to someone's home who hasn't contacted you and unfollowed you is a terrible idea. At this point, it's an obvious ploy to see him again and he'll see right through it. Just let it go. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted November 1, 2019 Share Posted November 1, 2019 Because he kept telling you how much he liked you. I wouldn't do that unless I mean it. When you rejected his offer to drop you home. Maybe he took it like you weren't really interested. Or maybe it took it as you being in the relationship you told him you were in and your home is also the home of the guy you're in the relationship with? Why did you lie to him about that? You told him you were in a relationship yet he still took you to bed? You still went to bed with him? Gah! Neither of you are ready to be in anything serious so if you just want to get laid, then text him or contact him through social media and set something up because all this is a eff buddy scenerio at best. Also, I'm not sure if it's important to add, I forgot. When he first asked if I'm single, I jokingly said I was in a relationship. When we got back to his, I got a phone call from a guy which he saw and I think he asked along the lines of "Are you really in a relationship?" Link to comment
Honeycomb8 Posted November 1, 2019 Share Posted November 1, 2019 You're way too casual with your body. If you're gonna be like that, at least don't overanalyse it. It was obv from your other thread the guy just saw you as an object. Didn't you also tell him you have a history of sleeping around? You can't expect a guy to take you seriously after that can u? Also why you didn't you agree to hang with him a few days later after meeting instead of going home with him that night? Impulse control would serve you well. We teach people how to treat us and I'm sorry, but if I were a guy I definitely would not take you seriously. Link to comment
Honeycomb8 Posted November 1, 2019 Share Posted November 1, 2019 He does not care about another man. He doesn't want you for a gf. He said all the things he did to get you into bed. Once that happened, he was over it. He didn't need to try. SHE kissed him and that was all it took to take her to bed. *Shrugs* Link to comment
minute_perception Posted November 2, 2019 Author Share Posted November 2, 2019 To my surprise, he opened and responded laughing at my comment and asking what I'm up to.. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 2, 2019 Share Posted November 2, 2019 Ok, are you going out again? To my surprise, he opened and responded laughing at my comment and asking what I'm up to.. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted November 2, 2019 Share Posted November 2, 2019 To my surprise, he opened and responded laughing at my comment and asking what I'm up to.. Do you want to date him? If so, suggest a going out date (not "Netflix and chill" i.e. more sex). If you liked the sex and just want more of that, invite him over. Let him do the traveling this time. Have a supply of condoms. Link to comment
calichick007 Posted November 2, 2019 Share Posted November 2, 2019 To my surprise, he opened and responded laughing at my comment and asking what I'm up to.. You sent him a message after he unfollowed you? Smh lol Link to comment
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