Youngb54 Posted December 28, 2017 Share Posted December 28, 2017 i met this guy on tinder and dated him for 2 1/2 weeks. he told me that he had social anxiety. when i first started talking to him he said he was between jobs. but than when we met up a few days after that he said he didn’t have a job. that because he had social anxiety and it was bad that he is on disability. so after a few days he told me that he can definitely say that we was dating. he posted it on fb. told his friends and family. showed my pictures to them. so than he came over to my house the second time we hung out. and chilled with me. met my sister and my cousin. so he texted me afterwards and said that since we are dating we should make each other feel good. i said how? he started talking about sex. i said oh well when i get into a relationship i wouldn’t mind having sex. so than i said well since he got some issues I’ll tell him like this...on Christmas Eve we can have sex. he said ok. than said well can we doing other stuff like fingering, hand jobs, oral. i said woah woah woah. um we can when we have sex. so than he told me that he had high functioning autism and Asperger Syndrome. so like all of that started making me really overwhelmed. im like nah i can’t handle this. so i told him that we should just be friends. than he started telling me that i was suppose to take him out for his birthday dinner, and we was suppose to go to the movies. and just seem like he was trying to guilt trip me back into dating him. so i said well idk. we just need to take it slow. so than i came over his house last tuesday and we chilling, watching movies, and than he started doing some stuff around his apartment so i sat on his bed and watched. than he told me that he wouldn’t be able to come over on christmas eve because his family was coming into town. so he ended up putting the moves on me and we did end up having sex. so after that we went to lunch and i paid for everything. and than i took him home and he said that we could hang out later but he was gonna see what was going on because his sister was coming over. so than he texted me hours later and said that he was gonna cancel on me because his friend messaged him and she was have drinks. i said . her? she? who is she? so than he said well she is my friend i knew her for 2 years and her mom is sick and she wants to have drinks. i said ok so all I’m getting out of this is that your ditching me for some girl. so he told me that she canceled. and that if i wanted to come over i said alright fine. so than i spend the night. and than the next day i texted him and asked what he was doing he said he was in chicago helping a friend. i said o girl from yesterday? and he said yeah. i said oh really now. he said stop if i was gonna be like that than we could stop now. i said you went against what i said. he said she’s my friend and she’s going through . i said and I’m not my grandma is in the hospital she had a stroke. he said her situation is more critical. i said wow. than i said go date her than. he said she has a boyfriend she lives in Wisconsin she’s visiting her sick mom. so than he just ignored me. he wouldn’t answer my texts or phone calls. so than the next day i called him and asked like can we talk what’s going on? he didn’t respond. i called him he never answered. i said ok . it’s not that serious. so i said after my finals I’m coming over. than he said no your not. and my decision is final. and I’m done. and just started going off on me. and we’re done and you sound pissy and possessive two things i can’t get with. I’m like but the situation is not that serious. like your telling me you with another girl and idk who she is. he said that he didn’t think he had to tell me about her seeing as he was helping a friend. so than i ended up coming to his house and he came to the door and started yelling at me and I’m like this is ridiculous. and than i told him your friends problems aren’t yours. and than i hear her in the back laughing. so he moves out the way and she’s in his bed. so i started yelling and going off. you got this girl in your bed. so you used me? he said no we didn’t have sex i slept on the couch she slept on the bed. I’m like oh ok and I’m suppose to just go by off what your telling me. and he said she has a boyfriend i said yeah in wisconsin and why isn’t he here with her. and why is it that her mom is in chicago in the hospital and she’s here in the suburbs with you. where’s the rest of her family and why isn’t she with them? her brother lives in shaumberg but she’s not with him. why couldn’t she stay at her moms house? like why. so than i threw a rock at his car. didn’t damage it. so than when i got home the police had called me. just wanted to hear my side of the story so i told them. so they said no damage was made and that no chargers were being pressed i said ok fine. so i changed my number and blocked his ass on fb. a few days later i reached out to his ex fiancé that he was with for 7 years and she told me everything about him. how she caught him in bed with the same girl. and he got mad at her about it and told her to get out. I just don’t understand what i did wrong though. 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