JackJackxD Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 I am the dumpee of a 2.5 years relationship, and it has been 5 months since our break up. It has been around 2 months NC now, and she unfriended me a few days after NC. Today I just realised that she has blocked me on facebook, and I can't seem to see her profile anymore. I am just wondering why she would suddenly block me out of no where? What possible explanations are there? I mean, I haven't spoken to her for so long so surely I couldn't have done something to make her want to block me. I'm very curious as to why someone would do all of a sudden after 5 months. Of course, this wasn't as big as a shock as when she initially unfriended me, but I am still kind of surprised. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 Hun, it doesn't matter. Trying to figure out why she blocked you. No one here could figure that out. She has moved on! She is no longer a part of your life. You need to focus on yourself. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 Why are you trying to look at her Facebook? Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 She may have a new b/friend ...she may just want to keep you in the past ...it doesn't matter , we can all compile a list but we will never know . Link to comment
relevart Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 I am just wondering why she would suddenly block me out of no where? What possible explanations are there? I mean, I haven't spoken to her for so long so surely I couldn't have done something to make her want to block me. She's moving on. You should, too. Link to comment
JA0371 Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 Because she's doing what she has to do to completely heal and move on. Maybe she didn't block you, maybe she just deactivated her acct. Link to comment
JackJackxD Posted February 20, 2015 Author Share Posted February 20, 2015 Why are you trying to look at her Facebook? I was looking at my pictures today, and all her comments on them are gone so it looks like i am talking to myself. Then I searched her name and I couldn't find her profile anymore. Because she's doing what she has to do to completely heal and move on. Maybe she didn't block you, maybe she just deactivated her acct. I asked a mutual friend if they could see her profile, and she told me she could, so I'm 100% she blocked me. Link to comment
No1 Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 You are an X BF.. she is moving on from you. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 try not to let it bother you this much darling .. even the dumper needs to move forward and cut all ties ...My pal split with her b/friend and he unfriended me straight away ..and i really got on well with him ...but I understood that's how he had to do it ...no ties to her what so ever ... Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 The mutual friend was probably telling her that you were creeping her profile which she was clever enough to know would be holding you back from moving on and finding someone new so she made it so you couldn't stagnate yourself over her anymore... That's My GUESS, anyway. Link to comment
misstee95023 Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 She has a new boyfriend. That is the first thing that came to mind. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
Patrick974 Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 Agreed with everyone before. If I for whatever reason dont speak to a friend anymore (or boy/girl friend) Id remove them. She has either found someone else, dont want a virtual friendship or Just want to move on for good. Link to comment
JackJackxD Posted February 20, 2015 Author Share Posted February 20, 2015 try not to let it bother you this much darling .. even the dumper needs to move forward and cut all ties ...My pal split with her b/friend and he unfriended me straight away ..and i really got on well with him ...but I understood that's how he had to do it ...no ties to her what so ever ... I am not really bothered by it in a negative way, I am just curious as to why she is doing this now after 5 months already. She should've done this like 5 months ago because at the beginning of the break up she said that she has moved on and wants me to move on as well. We already lost interaction 2 months ago when we started NC, just weird how she took that extra step to suddenly block me. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 I am not really bothered by it in a negative way, I am just curious as to why she is doing this now after 5 months already. She should've done this like 5 months ago because at the beginning of the break up she said that she has moved on and wants me to move on as well. We already lost interaction 2 months ago when we started NC, just weird how she took that extra step to suddenly block me. oh good ..I am glad to know that you are ok .... It is odd to suddenly do it and not do it 5months ago ..I really think she has met someone ....and that is why . Link to comment
Mari Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 I am the dumpee of a 2.5 years relationship, and it has been 5 months since our break up. It has been around 2 months NC now, and she unfriended me a few days after NC. Today I just realised that she has blocked me on facebook, and I can't seem to see her profile anymore. I am just wondering why she would suddenly block me out of no where? What possible explanations are there? I mean, I haven't spoken to her for so long so surely I couldn't have done something to make her want to block me. I'm very curious as to why someone would do all of a sudden after 5 months. Of course, this wasn't as big as a shock as when she initially unfriended me, but I am still kind of surprised. She probably needs NC to get over you and some of her friends tagged you in a photo bringing you back into her life. This reminded her of the good times you two had, then she got sad, and bam you're blocked so that never happens again. Or, she saw the block button and was like, "I wonder what happens when I click that". Then she clicked it. Link to comment
Clinton Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 I think shes pulling a reverse Kansas City bait and Switch. Of course it could be the old Cincinnati two step. If it isn't the Anchorage bluff that is. Just watch your back from now on. She's up to something Link to comment
PaintWithLight Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 I am not really bothered by it in a negative way, I am just curious as to why she is doing this now after 5 months already. She should've done this like 5 months ago because at the beginning of the break up she said that she has moved on and wants me to move on as well. We already lost interaction 2 months ago when we started NC, just weird how she took that extra step to suddenly block me. There is no time frame and method to handling the separation process following a breakup. Stop being curious. This is just another excuse your subconsious will find to keep you engaged in thinking about her. Social media can be insiduous that way. If you are in NC, how would you know that she blocked you? Isn't part of NC blocking each other to create space and separation. It seems like she is moving on. Wish her well and do the same. Link to comment
DancingFool Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 Spring cleaning...... I mean really after so much time, you shouldn't bat an eye at that. You are an ex and you no longer belong. It's as simple as that. Link to comment
sadchick83 Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 I think you are in trouble when you start asking others to look at her profile on your behalf after you have been broken up for quite some time....Just to peep to see if she is still there. I would channel my energy elsewhere if I were you and stop obsessing. Every time you feel like doing something like this, take the 5-10 minutes it takes to snoop on your ex and call your mom or your grandmother, or another loved one in your family and tell them how much you care for them. Time far better spent. Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 I am not really bothered by it in a negative way, I am just curious as to why she is doing this now after 5 months already. She should've done this like 5 months ago because at the beginning of the break up she said that she has moved on and wants me to move on as well. We already lost interaction 2 months ago when we started NC, just weird how she took that extra step to suddenly block me. You two were still in contact up until cpl months ago.. and you weren't un-friended then.. Hard to say why she's done it. But- does it matter? You ended things, right? Why aren't you working on moving on? What I find odd is when Ex's 'wander off' and months later try to get in contact with you again.. like What.. why?? I had that a cpl times now. Both chose to push me away & move on. Why try to be my 'friend' or meet for coffee, again? Most recent one.. was quiet for about 3 mos. Then, around NY Eve, he finds me, admits he does miss me etc.. and again a few weeks later.. asking if we could at least be 'friends', as he figures there's 'No making up'.. This behaviour is weird. I guess they aren't so happy anymore? Or, reality has hit and they realize we are done? But, missing your Ex is normal. Doesn't mean you have to be friends. Link to comment
No1 Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 You rephrased your question so Ill rephrase my answer. She is moving on from you... You are an X BF Link to comment
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