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  1. We all do stupid things when we are young. If you never do so, how can you grow wise? I still look back and cringe sometimes but just try to laugh it off as a crazy stage. Trust me, there will be those who have done worse.
  2. I just wrote for advice on this topic too. I feel everything you have written. I wish I could control it but i'm not wired that way and i hate it. Please feel free to respond to my post, this comment and please feel free to pm me xxx
  3. To cut a long story short, I stopped drinking for nearly two years as I was drinking every day and started even drinking in the mornings when I wasn't working. It nearly ruined my marriage and I wouldn't have my child if I didn't stop as my hubby refused to start family while I was drinking. I started drinking socially again and it started well but old habits crept up again when my kid was at grandmas for the weekend and hubby at work. Was drinking the night before and woke up to start drinking again and all day. Cue me really pissed and then really ill for days. Had a chat with an
  4. I hate to say it but it is likely he is just after sex and if that is what your after then fine but i doubt you would be writing on here if that was the case. His parents will despise you but his mates will find it hilarious. I think you need to work on your self esteem as surely you deserve better than to be used as a notch on the bed post?
  5. I really think a therapist / counsellor is the best way to go so you can both reach a mutual agreement with this so both parties can be happy. I don't agree with what some are saying that it is unhealthy and wrong. Also, you say that he shouldn't need porn etc when he has you. It is human nature to still find others attractive / sexually appealing etc even if you are with someone. To me, porn is part of that and won't lead to cheating. But just my opinion. We all have different boundaries and ideas on what is acceptable in regards to this. Please seek advice and counselling regarding t
  6. Problem shared is a problem halved. Just remember it is not you that is the problem. Your husband does not prefer porn to you. Maybe encourage each other to give each other complimemts, gifts etc...Also write some positive affirmations to read to yourself out loud daily x
  7. I have the same issues. I see a psychologist and we are using thought record sheets at the moment. U can find them online. Look up selfhelp.org too. I am now reading up on buddhism and meditation / mindfulness. See you GP. I get prescribed propranalol. Also get some exercise. I also take a break from social media for awhile and do reading, decorating, cleaning and more importantly spending time with positive people and my family xxx
  8. Sounds like you have both lost sight as who you are as a couple and maybe have taken each other for granted a little? Easy to do when u both were so focused on kids from so early on. It's easy to forget that you two matter too. I would suggest maybe even putting the sex side of things to the side and focus on having date nights and dress up like the old days or even snuggling on the sofa watching a movie. Even a nice meal in the house. Reconnect emotionally first and i'm sure the physical side will come naturally. I too suffer from insecurity and used to worry if my husband looked at oth
  9. It is a shame that your husband hadn't been open about his porn use but policing it will just lead you to feel worse rather than better. Snooping and checking his phone won't lead to intimacy but will kill it. Both me and my husband watch porn and it doesn't mean i don't find my husband sexy but it is just a cheap quick thrill and sometimes just a quick release. I have a baby so sexy time with hubby can be limited lol. If you can maybe speak to your husband again and discuss your feelings and perhaps any fantasies that he may have that you can try out together. Trust me, your partner doe
  10. I just think if i work on my confidence i wouldn't care what others think about me....
  11. Hi there Well this has been an ongoing issue hence the reason why this is starting to get to me. I know this has annoyed others who i have worked with as i work in a notorious y profession. Well I just hate it when i am saying something to someone and they stare at someone when I am saying it like I am stupid. Like today, i was telling someone my view on something and the b*tch i can't stand just stared at him like i am stupid or something. Thank god she is leaving in 4 weeks. I do have low self esteem and confidence and i am working on it but i hate this passive aggressive behaviour. L
  12. Just hard sometimes. He just acts like he owns the place. He has some of his gardening items in my area but i don't complain. But i think i should keep a log of any abuse for future reference in case i need it.
  13. I already work with a therapist. It was my husband receiving the verbal abuse today.
  14. Yeah i admit it probably isn't good having the bags outside but i don't drive so have to rely on man with a van services so have to wait and have no room or a shed to store it. I did wonder if he is getting dementia due to the behaviour.
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