redrose85 Posted December 11, 2014 Author Share Posted December 11, 2014 Oh my lord... the emotions that bubble up when you're all fertile and your husband isn't in the mood. Good grief. Can I just run away from myself for a day or so?? lol Nah, it's not that bad. I've been busy at work all day, lots going on. We better get it on tonight though lol. I feel like a dude, wanting it all the time! Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 12, 2014 Author Share Posted December 12, 2014 Wow, that was ugly. Didn't like the person I was just now. SIL called to announce her pregnancy and immediately started going on about how we need to have kids now too, and etc... and I didn't react well. She was trying to chat with me and I just didn't want to have any of it. I just sent her an email now apologizing for being a b. Like Alex says, I just need to change my perspective...instead of fear, I should focus on the positive, that we have finally reached the point where we can start a family, and there's no reason it won't happen. Juuuust need to relax and take time for myself. I've been working too hard. I met some new friends tonight and last night. I love meeting new people who I really click with and who I can have intelligent conversations with. I was saying to Alex how sad I've been that my maid of honour and bridesmaid aren't my friends anymore, but I'm not going to let it get me down anymore, I am going to move on and find friends who will stick around. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 12, 2014 Author Share Posted December 12, 2014 Friday woot!! We're supposed to be getting our new furniture delivered today *fingers crossed* Pub night with friends new and old at our favourite out of town pub too. Finally a Friday that isn't just coming home and crashing on the couch. Yay! I'm looking forward to finally meeting my friend's bf and baby daddy. Link to comment
sophie274 Posted December 13, 2014 Share Posted December 13, 2014 Friday woot!! We're supposed to be getting our new furniture delivered today *fingers crossed* Pub night with friends new and old at our favourite out of town pub too. Finally a Friday that isn't just coming home and crashing on the couch. Yay! I'm looking forward to finally meeting my friend's bf and baby daddy. Is this the guy from Bolivia? Did he manage to get a visa? Just a tourist visa or a longer-term one? If it's him, that's great he was able to come be with her. She must be really happy. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 13, 2014 Author Share Posted December 13, 2014 Is this the guy from Bolivia? Did he manage to get a visa? Just a tourist visa or a longer-term one? If it's him, that's great he was able to come be with her. She must be really happy. Yes he did! He arrived near the end of November. I met him at the pub last night when a group of us met up. He seems like a really nice, down to earth guy They're just counting down the days until their little lady or man arrives and I think really enjoying being together. I know my friend is so tired of being in her parent's house, but it's for the best right now. They've got lots of space and lots of help. The furniture came with a whole mess of packing materials and boxes and staples... I got home last night and Alex had already set up the tv stand and was just about done the bed and while he did the bed I unpacked the dressers and the night-stands. I misheard him when he asked me to put the bed in the wash and I was all "oh my gosh, you're my favourite husband ever! You built the bed AND washed the sheets?" Yeah no such luck hahaha. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 14, 2014 Author Share Posted December 14, 2014 Sold my MacBook. 4 years of my life were on that thing! Feeling a little empty haha Link to comment
hers Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 I enjoyed all the uploads you made last night!! Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 14, 2014 Author Share Posted December 14, 2014 Oh hahaha. Yeah I got so fed up that I finally just said "screw it, I'll upload to facebook and figure it out later!" Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 14, 2014 Author Share Posted December 14, 2014 We went for lunch and now I am looking at the house wondering if I should clean before Mom in law gets here tomorrow or just leave it because she'll do it anyway... Maybe a little spot cleaning is in order. The furniture is still off-gassing, so we've got the bedroom windows wide open and the vents open. It's slowly going away, but I am not looking forward to breathing that in again tonight! My husband is way too health conscious these days lol Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 15, 2014 Author Share Posted December 15, 2014 Just a small fire to burn up the cardboard and wood... Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 15, 2014 Author Share Posted December 15, 2014 Watching home reno shows is giving us both so many ideas for this place for future. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 15, 2014 Author Share Posted December 15, 2014 My new niece or nephew is already cute I feel sick today. I almost puked while brushing my teeth. Enough of this..mean body. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 16, 2014 Author Share Posted December 16, 2014 Morning sickness? Oh who knows! I think it's just my body being a jerk. I'm not even stressing about it anymore, just enjoying all the extra intimacy and loves from the husband. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 16, 2014 Author Share Posted December 16, 2014 Alex's best friend and his gf are pregnant too, due in June. Something in the water. Link to comment
BigKK Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 It must be! I have a lot of friend's getting pregnant! MissK had a day of mentioning things casually throughout the day... "swimming is better for pregnant women for their joints" "I'd want my daughter to ice skate" etc I had to sit her down and say DO YOU REALIZE WHAT YOU'VE BEEN SAYING ALL DAY?! I love kids, can't wait to have one...wait no, I can wait. I think it's an awesome time that you're in to be ready for one completely. Did you have some kind of checklist to get through before you wanted kids? I think for me it's career, then some very non-child friendly travel...then I'll be good. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 16, 2014 Author Share Posted December 16, 2014 It is awesome in a way, but it's also tough, because we're completely at the mercy of nature. You don't know if you're going to have issues until you try, and every new oops pregnancy that's announced (esp. this time of year, tbh) is pretty bittersweet. We had a chemical pregnancy shortly after getting engaged, so I think that's a big part of why I am feeling the way I am. Of course, it could also be because I feel sick nearly every day and have no clue why. I puked this morning and decided to stay home from work, try to de-stress. My MIL is over for the week and my SIL's Mom was just here visiting. It helped a little. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 Sickness could be from stress over everything pregnancy. Just try to relax (I know how hard it is!). Treat yourself. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 17, 2014 Author Share Posted December 17, 2014 I'm trying to relax, I really am. I really don't think I'm stressing myself sick though.... I don't know what's going on. Yesterday was the worst day though, probably due to no sleep the night before. I felt gross from 6 am to 8:30 pm. Life is no fun when you only feel good right before you have to go to sleep to get up for work the next morning. I got out of bed today and told myself that I was going to feel fine today, no nausea because there's no good reason. But a couple of minutes into my shower, it started to settle in again and it's stayed all day so far. This just sucks. If I were pregnant and feeling crappy then that's one thing, but to be feeling the same way as people who do have a little one coming, it's tough and it's making me quite depressed. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 17, 2014 Author Share Posted December 17, 2014 Okay enough woe is me. At least I am not puking 24/7 or anything like that. I can work--- not at 100%, but I can. And fitness can wait. The important thing is getting some yoga in, making sure to stay relaxed. Breathing really helps with the nausea...just taking deep breaths and focusing on that. Work is going pretty well today. I've got a few things to do, a new proposal, and I have someone calling me back tomorrow who's interested in a contract. The business group meeting this morning was good. I told them that I will be joining in the new year and they applauded, so that felt nice. Since it's the last meeting of the year, some of the members wrote poems and christmas jingles to showcase their businesses. I was going to do one, but I totally forgot! It was all kinds of cheese, but very entertaining. I am looking forward to getting to know the group in the new year. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 18, 2014 Author Share Posted December 18, 2014 I am kind of failing at Christmas this year hahaha. I forgot to make a bunch of cards, I never put the lights up and the tree only just went up yesterday So I love you all, but you're not getting a card from me this year. I'll make up for it next year! Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 18, 2014 Author Share Posted December 18, 2014 Or pm me your email address and I will send a custom e-card Last night was nice. I was super hungry so I had some leftovers for dinner, and a slice of pecan pie. mmm food! I had a nice hot bath with peppermint scrub, lit some candles, and then read a magazine until Alex came to bed. So peaceful. Link to comment
hers Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 Mine is my first and last name at link removed I love Christmas cards Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 18, 2014 Author Share Posted December 18, 2014 Will do You know you're getting over losing your best friend when you don't even notice her birthday passed already. Turnin a corner! Link to comment
redrose85 Posted December 19, 2014 Author Share Posted December 19, 2014 We have now reached that portion of the mother in law visit where I am getting annoyed lol She means well... Link to comment
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