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hers last won the day on January 19 2012

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  1. hers

    Fat girl.

    I am a marathon finisher. Official time was 5:17:19. Hardest thing I've ever done. I sobbed at 20 miles. I wanted to puke at 25.5 miles. My pacer and friends helped me to finish. They pushed me. It was an incredible experience. 26.2 miles done.
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    Fat girl.

    Hi, all, I wanted to say hi. I don't post on here anymore after everything that happened with the family, but I come on and lurk sometimes. I ended up looking at some of my old threads and I don't even remember writing this one. I don't even remember feeling like this. Mostly b/c I have such a different lifestyle now. I steadily got more and more into running. It started with the treadmill at the gym, and it progressed from there. Last March, I ran my first 5k race (3.1 miles), and then the next month, ran a 10k race (6.2 miles). I just realized how much I love running, and I've done 3 half
  3. Thanks. It's a little better but not out of the woods yet.
  4. Thank you for helping me today despite all of the stuff you were going through. You're wonderful.
  5. I'm really sorry to hear this. I remember when you were planning your wedding At any rate, I don't think his request is very strange, but I don't know enough background on him to think it strange or to make me think that it may be unsafe for you. I would insist doing taxes together in a public place, like a coffee shop or library on their wifi, and be done with it. Just to be on the safe side.
  6. Oh god, don't get me started on trendy baby names. I will get on a soap box and it's impossible to get me off!
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    Got Booted for Breed

    My husband volunteers for our local search and rescue group and the K9 portion doesn't discriminate against breeds but he said that their discrimination against your dog may be based on insurance policies that of course vary by your location. He said their canine division does have some pit bulls but most of the people on the canine division are animal trainers or pet sitters or other jobs focused on dogs so they have no problem--their dogs pretty much come in trained. Regardless, if you have already gotten some certifiable training for your dog, the point is moot u less it's bc of insura
  8. Is it possible he doesn't actually want a second child but doesn't know how to tell you?
  9. It's actually easier than you think. I've done it. A lot of people have. It's conditioning. Look up cognitive therapies. It's something as simple as putting a rubber band on your wrist an snapping it when you have a bad thought. Seriously. People go to med school to teach that stuff to clients. Even if you don't do that method you can still do something to Change your thinking.
  10. You do have the power to change the way you think though.
  11. So why would you purposefully want to make yourself feel crappy?
  12. What do you get out of comparing yourself to others? What good does it do for you? Give me a straight answer.
  13. My mom and I are nearly identical except for the fact we are 20 years apart! It's always like looking in an aging mirror for me.
  14. Is this the one you had lunch with the other day?
  15. I volunteer a lot at our local no-kill shelter (about 25-28 hours a month) and I love it. I look forward to the weekends not bc I have time off work but bc I get to see the dogs!
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