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  1. I have a feeling she'll be back whenever she has a fight with the boyfriend, and you'll accept her then. Hopefully you can break the cycle
  2. I'm trying to convince my 22 year old sister to go into med school, and she gave me the same baloney!! That she should of IMMEDIATELY went after college. You still have plenty of time justagirl if you want to do it, don't make those older than you that are back in school feel bad
  3. This is sorta weird. I'd take guest over sitting alone. The wedding I just came from I was alone with a bunch of randoms. The guy accross from me kept proclaiming I'm drunk...he was trying to be funny but came off as a tool. I had 3 drinks in 3 hours...it takes much more to knock me out. Loved the photos faraday...I am not sure if I missed anything...is the house moving forward still? Trying to catch up from the vacations
  4. I guess I should of added a disclaimer. Not all math teachers are binary thinking and don't appreciate art...but in this case, it sounds we have one. I am just saying that as crazy as one life can sound to someone so can another way of living come off as unfathomable. My closest cousin is the starving artist. But he is following his passion and his dream, and I think he will eventually achieve something that is really fulfilling for him. It's not for me, but my brain doesn't work like his. To tell him I think that his way of living is wrong and I am appalled by his choices would be ludicrous. I actually admire him and appreciate our differences and the way we look at the world is different. If we were all physicists, math teachers, and engineers...life would be boring.
  5. Who would expect a binary thinking math teacher to have appreciation for the arts? Not everyone can live a repetitious life of being a teacher and teaching the same thing over and over again. Some people couldn't live a life like that. Just sayin'.
  6. When I first read this, the words jumbled and I read "I went on a crazy date today! huh?" So the whole time I was waiting for the part where he dumps the wine on his own head and tells you he wants you to join a cult. hehe Congrats on the date, sounded like a good one. He could of done without the photo comment, but oh well. He was just being honest about seeing your photo somewhere.
  7. You might be leading him on, and he MAY be vulturing. Which means he'll hang around until things go south with J and swoops in to feed off your carcass. The thing is, I've met people on dating sites...didn't feel an attraction but liked talking so we kept staying in touch but we were both immediately like....eh this is not happening. It was sort of a mutual thing. I have a few friends that I was attracted to, and gently pursued...was gently shut down. Got over it, and was able to remain friends. That said...this is only a handful of people I've done that with. The rest I usually just cut contact to not have hurt feelings for either party. In the end the choice is yours, read it how you want. Was this guy super interested in dating you and into you or was it more like oh hey I used to know you.
  8. My usual routine was, walk in the door. Hang up my keys (that habit took ages), take off my shirt...fliiiing it towards the corner, as I'm taking off my shirt, also remove one shoe, kick in same corner. Shorts off, same corner...nope in the middle, second shoe, same corner. Socks in the middle, and hop in the shower. This is all done in roughly 3.8 seconds. I go back and usually clean it up after I shower and lay down for a second. Then again, I sometimes let it pile up for 3 days haha I will get a maid when I can afford one one day When I clean I'm OCD and will do it meticulously, so it's a weird ying-yang
  9. I'm sorta messy but I like it clean. When in a rush I can leave a disaster zone behind. The good thing is so is MissK so we are both guilty. Often times we'll both help each other with that, but no one gets mad. Occasionally I'll say something like hey do you mind helping out tonight...since this is WWIII in here...and she does, and that's that. My ex was a neat freak, and if the carpet didn't have nice lines in it after a vacuumed she'd give me the silent treatment lol I don't think you're a nutter like she so you don't have to worry about that. You need to figure out a system and nip it in the bud. You're totally reasonable in your requests so keep talking it through...and yeah...I think move time is not the fairest judgement. I'd say talk about this after you're moved in and settled. It continues...have another talk...right now it's going to be quite stressful.
  10. Holy moly, that is soon! Congrats faraday...in our tradition we'd be getting pretty plastered about now to celebrate
  11. I could totally see that paying off. Pay someone to act like you on social media...respond to fans, make them love you more...means more ticket sales, bookings, etc.
  12. I am THE worst person to ask about this stuff. Sometimes I have a good eye....but wait for it... I don't even mind the carpet. Plus like you said...that is going to get WRECKED by babies...so who cares. I'd throw a little rug over some of it maybe to offset it like you mentioned. When MissK is back I can ask her...she said if she wasn't help designing ships, she'd go into interior design...she has a good eye and always makes random broad statements about design...things like "wow they used earth tones with that back drop?" Or I don't know...hell maybe she DOESN'T know what she's talking about, but she's fooling me. otherwise I'm not answering any other questions...overwhelmed. It's an interesting dynamic as far as friend's go faraday. We have a similar dynamic, MissK has a much bigger friend group, but I'd call it a group of friends...pushing into acquaintances. You go on vacations with them, but you don't share personal issues really. She calls it a WASP relationships. Where as I have fewer friends but all of mine are really pretty deep connections, which she clicks with them instantly and is immediately welcomed with open arms. In her friend group...I have to kind of "prove" myself.
  13. I found myself doing both of these when I broke up. I'd meet a new girl, talk to her. It was like I was so fragile that the girl would smile and be nice to me....BOOM FEELINGS. "she's soooo great, she has nice hair, and she smiled at me, and she made that one joke and it wasn't that funny but I smiled, at least she tried right? She wears clothes, and sorta has a job. Okay I must take her on a date" It was like instant and I couldn't help it. We're talking instantly too. It was bad, THANK GOD. I didn't pursue some of the girls I liked. Two of them I had crazy feelings for, and the feelings literally went away in about 2 weeks for one, and a month for the other. Then I got to know them and was so happy, so happy. All I am saying I've been on the weird side of getting into someone quickly (not normally how I am) and I'm glad nothing came of it. Wasn't thinking straight. So yes, if a guy is doing that...then run!
  14. The vid is awesome, although people have a lot of time on their hands. Something like that would take me....maybe 3 years Congrats on the house, looking forward to hearing about the inspection. I wasn't THAT involved in the sense that it wasn't my money with MissK's house buying experience...but I was definitely her rock during the up and downs. She basically held her breath during the whole inspection process...the offer process...everything. I know it was easier for me to just remain calm since I didn't have a stake in it, but I think (hope) I'd be the calm and collected one during stuff like that. I was trying to tell her to be okay with walking away...but man she went all in...financially and emotionally on the first house haha. How are the two of you during this process?
  15. Oh okay, fair enough. Damn liars! Would it be awkward if you called him out, or is that just a mental note you make sort of immediately? I'm going to think of a way...perhaps an app to remove these lies from our lives. Some kind of scanner and ruler, that you take a selfie with and measure it, perhaps a laser? Lasers are always good. It'd have it on your profile.. "Scano Verified"
  16. annie how do you know he was 2 inches shorter? Was it that obvious that you could tell? Date sounded OK, good practice if anything
  17. I was going to say HOPEFULLY because that's exactly what happened with my parent's house that was built in 2001. They went from a 1926 to a 2001 and always had plumbing issues. The company that built it was almost impossible to get a hold of for warranties. Good luck, ENA party at your place if you buy !
  18. Don't forget the obvious POSITIVES of a newer house... (Hopefully) Less plumbing issues, less roof issues, less electrical issues, etc
  19. that house is sexy, love the big open floor plan
  20. I read the first 5 lines, and didn't catch those. Nvm Aren't they supposed to disclose that kind of stuff though? I don't know how it works in Canada but I was under the impression if you don't disclose that there is a crack in the foundation then the buyer can get his money back. I know of a story of a guy not disclosing a few things about the house, and the court ordered him to take the house back.
  21. Can you offer them significantly less due to the poor inspection?
  22. Sounds a lot of the same reasons I had for not wanting a baby. Besides not wanting to buy new clothes for when I would get pregnant...kidding I thought I was going to be (and my family did too) a 40+ year old bachelor just living the life, since I was so selfish. I guess certain things click at a certain time. When I was on vacation visiting my sister and seeing my 1 year old niece for the first time. It was this weird crushing realization like a punch to the gut, this girl was absolutely adorable, and it hit me once I'm done with school, have a new job...I want a baby. My girlfriend has said the same thing, she says she's not ready yet but everyone in awhile when she is playing with babies (in my eyes 1-2 is the perfect age for cuteness and reactions) that it hits her sometimes that she thinks in a few years it might come around her that she's going to want a baby. I have always loved babies though. With my ex, when we had a pregnancy scare. Oh lord, I remember in my mind I could see my life falling apart...it was like a nuclear apocalypse scene from a movie where buildings were falling apart. I think that was a telling sign that I wasn't ready but also that she might of not been the right one for me. Although at that time, no one was. I also didn't want to be committed to her the rest of my life at that time. (also a telling sign)
  23. I guess different strokes for different folks. I had really bad luck with that site, and it made me depressed. I'd have a ton of girls that turned out to be penpals, and I'd ask myself what the hell am I doing. I guess in the sea of millions of choices of where to meet, it matters less where, but rather who...and our right match can be anywhere. I doubt my potential candidates could be found on link removed but hell, maybe there is a few girls I'd click there as well
  24. I hated OKC and batted 0%, I don't recommend it!
  25. do you really think it matters? Her date was awkward and they just didn't click. Do you think if the guy was a few inches shorter, or taller it would of made a difference? Do you think that if she was +/-5 lbs it makes a difference? They wouldn't work regardless of how you manipulated these two's looks. On top of it, she is not attracted to asian men and was going out of her comfort zone so I think he would of had to dazzle her with his personality to win her over. Think you're off base here
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