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I'm going to give you a differing opinion. It sounds to me that because you feel the need to tell her anything that you have strong feelings for her. The problem is she doesn't seem to have feelings for you. If it were me, and it's not, I would cease all contact with her and let her make the next move. You're trying too hard for someone who doesn't appreciate it. If you are to ever have a realtionship whether girlfriend/boyfriend or just friends, it's going to take both of you. If she's not involved it's just you obsesing. Again, just me, but I'd wouldn't do anything. Don't call, don't answer her calls or e-mails. If you do this something interesting will happen. Either she'll contact you wondering where and how you are OR you'll have moved on and you won't care. But that's me.

STOP being friends with her!! You aren't moving on because you're trying to be friends with her because deep down you think she'll change her mind and be your girlfriend again. But you aren't giving her a chance to miss you and you're not giving yourself a chance to move on. Stop any contact with her and do something with yourself to get your mind off of it. If a relationship is to be again(and the odds are always against that) then she needs to change her mind. You always being there isn't going to change her mind. She views you as a friend and nothing more. No more calls, emails or hanging out. If she calls don't answer and never call back. Dude, do this and it will get better. Harsh words but right on. My fiancee dumped me 5 weeks ago and it sucked in the beginning but the longer I go without contact the easier it gets.

Sorry to disagree with the "moderator" but if she's cheated before she's going to cheat again. It might not be at this party thing but it is going to happen. If you don't want her to go and you've told her you don't and she goes anyway(which is her right you can't TELL her what she can do) then you should cease all contact with her and wait it out. You'll hear through the grapevine what happened. She's making her choice but you have one too.

She is doing just that. It sucks that this happened but really you don't need any more from her. She's trying to be nice and probably avoiding a conflict by letting you get upset so you'll dump her. Stop all contact and move on.

No, creatine is not a steroid. If you eat enough beef your body gets all it needs. When I'm lifting I do take it. A big teaspoon mixed in grape juice(sugar and low acidity) right after a workout. I also try to get as much protein as possible. Creatine doesn't make you stronger but it does allow you to push yourself a bit further without as much pain. You'll see some size gains but that's mostly from water being stored in your muscles. That's not a bad thing but the size gains aren't as much muscle as water. It's not very expensive so why not give it a go for a couple months and then decide for yourself?

A better question for you would be why do you think you should want to date right now? My fiancee just broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I decided from the start that I was going to take time to be me and be happy before I start even thinking about dating again. She was wonderful and we broke up for similar reasons. We just weren't happy enough. But making me happy wasn't her job nor is your boyfriend's happiness your job. You're only responsible for your own happiness. Until you're able to find ways to make yourself happy and until you're ready to date again, don't push it. You'll know when you're ready. Your friends see you in pain and want you to be happy again. They think finding another boyfriend is the key. But that isn't the key. You being happy being you is the key and only you know when that will happen. You probably don't want to be around people because you feel they don't understand. I do understand that, it hasn't been until this week that I've been able to be around friends. You aren't weird for not wanting to date yet and you'd probably end up with a broken heart again if you did already. Hang in there! HTH