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I got back with my ex 2 weeks ago, and I haven't told my parents yet or anything, but my friends know. They're all cool with it, and some of them understand me well also, but when I told a certain friend she got really mad. After a while I talked with her and she wasn't mad anymore..so I suggest you tell your friends or anyone you can trust that will not freak out right away at this sort of thing, and even if they do listen to them, and explain the answers to their questions. I don't know if it helps...but good luck, and no worries.

I agree with ZTB, I used to be addicted to it also, and heck I don't mind admitting it, but cyber sex is fun to...it seems to help you gain more experience in a way...anyways hope this helps.

yeah..you should try and get her back because my girlfriend I'm with now..well I broke up with her for 3 months..and couldn't get over her. I just loved her to much, and I tried talking with her every day..but one day her bro came on, and I said that I wanted to talk with her. After a long conversation she told me about her probs with her last bf and about using her, so I comforted her as best I coud...before I knew it I was back with her again. Anyways, good luck, and don't let her go, if she means so much to you...

Oh now I told that other person that loves me..everythings just fine, now I'm just figuring out how to meet my girlfriend who lives in Arizona while I live up here in Canada. Its hard to do because of the distance and how much it would cost to travel...and also because she's in school starting tomorrow, and I'm in my last year of school. She said she would visit me next spring break or in the summer sometime..hopefully, but I don't really know what to do...me and her really love each other alot.

Well this sounds like my situation..but the distance is greater I live up in Manitoba above North Dakota, and my gf lives down in Arizona, and I'm 9 months older than her, but she won't be graduating this year and I will. What he's prolly thinking is that he can't wait to talk with you next and waiting to meet you. These kind of relationships are hard to keep up, but it always works out in the end. Yes, I think your situation is love, becuz look at mine...me and my gf love each other alot..we try and talk to each other almost every day. Anyways...he might also be thinking how much he loves you, just my opinion, hope this helps a bit Good luck

I am one who slowly moves up the latter..right now I finally broke up with someone becuz I loved someone else alot, and we were good friends for a while, now me and her are gf and bf. The long distance thing gets in the way though, but I talk to her online every day..or at least try to , but it will work out. Anyways love is the best thing in the world to have...got to run for now.

this is kind of a long distance thing to..but she also has a girlfriend (Believe it or not), so its kind of hard to meet her, I usually see her online once and a while...but I can only be on at select few times...so I can't really meet in person...I"m kind of addicted to the internet...but work gets in the way so next time I see her online I'll tell her in the best possible way without breaking her heart.

Best advice..just be yourself, and act like you normally do. Your right not all guys are the same, take me for example, but if you want to win her heart maybe send her a rose or write her a love letter maybe. The first girl I loved..well it was online, but I knew she was the right one, eventually I started to flirt a bit, and moved on up with there..then I asked her out. So I've been in this situation before..but I'm no expert on relationships. Best of Luck to you...

Yeah, I've got a long distance relationship goin to, but my girlfriend is down in Arizona while I'm up here in Canada...we met online, and saw each others pics...we've had one breakup but got back together...we're trying to set a time to meet up with each other. At least I know about her current bf..who is now her ex...and I let her cry on my shoulder, and comfort her. But in your situation it would be best to keep in contact as much as possible, things happen which change peoples lives alot...good luck to you.

This isn't what I really had in mind..I messed up alot, but thanks..I can work this out, and no I don't mean to play with peoples feelings, I don't find this a game at all. I only love Amanda, so I'll tell the one I'm dating and see what happens...but not in an abrupt manner..I need something to start the conversation off..and somehow get it out.

Well this may sound strange to some people, but this is kind of a weird situation I've gotten to. I met this girl (Amanda) about a year ago now, me and her started going out for maybe 3 months, then we broke up after a fight we had, so i ended up dating someone else (Laurel), but I would always try and talk with my ex. About 6 months later after dating this other girl, she finally decided to take some time apart from me, thats when I tried talking with my ex again...it seems she had problems and I comforted her. So I told the girl I was going out with that I'm back with my ex again..and she freaked out at me. It all turned out good in the end because I explained to her why, and stuff...but theres this one other girl I'm going out with at the moment who doesn't know about any of this...what should I do???...because I know if I tell her straight out I'll break her heart, but I have to tell her in a way which won't hurt her feelings at all...but these are long distance relationships, but I need a little help with this...