Sweet Euphoria

My first time I was 16 years old. Needless to say, I was pretty nervous. Trying to be as cool as possible, I told my girlfriend I had done it before. That was really stupid because I put even more pressure on myself. I was in really deep now. I did tell my girlfriend it was my first time after sex, though, so things were still cool. Anyways, my first time was pretty amazing. I loved this girl so much and we both wanted to do it so bad. IT WAS MAGICAL. We had such great chemistry together. We did it in every position imaginable. The best part of course was her moaning and screaming. Afterwards, it was even more amazing. We just looked in eachother's eyes, and held eachother tight. I will never forget my first time. It has been the most amazing experience in my life so far.

You should probably keep your first kiss simple and sweet. I never french kiss unless my partner and I are engaged in something more physical, but you shouldn't be worried about that (hopefully). I find that little kisses are the best way to go when just cuddling. Girls don't want you to be all over them when you are just cuddling together. They like the little kisses. Trust me, most girls appreciate these more. I hope I was of some help...Good Luck!

I don't think there is really any correct way to french kiss. Who even came up with kissing with the tongue anyway? Anyways, you just have to relax and it will come natural. My first time I had no idea what I was doing, but I just experimented with different things. I still don't think I know what I am doing, but I am comfortable with doing it. I feel sorry this girl commented on your kissing the way she did. That was really unnecessary. Once you do it multiple times, you will feel comfortable, trust me. Have you tried nibbling on her ear and kissing her neck? I know this always excited my partner. Well...I hope I was of some help. Good Luck man!

I really need someone to help me out here. I am constantly depressed about my recent breakup. I have tried going out with my friends and tried to have a good time, but I can't. All I think about is her. My stomach constantly hurts and I have had a bad headache. I have been so depressed, I cannot even eat. I've lost almost ten pounds since the breakup. I cannot see myself getting through this. I need somebody to hold me and cuddle with. I wish I could just find someone special, but no one will ever come close to my ex-girlfriend. I don't know what to do now. I cannot talk to anybody and I just wish I had somebody to comfort me. What can I do to get over this? Should I find someone else? If so, how do I go about finding someone? I have never had a serious relationship before my last one. Dah...I need help...Please! Thanks...

My girlfriend has just currently broke up with me and told me that we should just be friends. I think it is really hard to do this though. I believe ex's can be friends, but it is extremely hard. Both parties must have the same outlook on what they each want the relationship to become. I know that I still want to be with my ex, but I am doubting it will happen. She wants me to move on with my life. We have major differences right now so I don't believe this "friends" thing is going to work out in the long-run. I think he probably wants to be friends with you again because he wants to see if anything can happen between you two again. As for him not telling his current g/f; well, he probably figures that if she knew then she might question their relationship. You shouldn't hesitate to tell your current b/f though. Tell him that you are just friends and things that have happened are way in the past. If he can't trust you, then he shouldn't be worth your time. Well...I hope I have helped out...Buh-bye!

I was supposed to go the Chicago Cubs baseball game today with my ex-girlfriend. She promised me a week in advance, but this morning she called an told me she couldn't go. She said she would be uncomfortable going today. Also, she wasn't feeling good and it wasn't the best of days weather wise. I told her I understood and that it was okay. So now I had no one to go to the game with. All my friends were either working or they couldn't go either. I decided I was going to go by myself and I told her this. When I told her this, she started crying. She told me I couldn't go alone and that it would hurt her if I went. Still, I told her that I wanted to go. I mean, the Yankees are in town. It's not going to happen until a long time from now. She kept insisting that I should just stay home today and watch the game on television. Then, she asked me if I wanted to go to her house and watch the game there. I figured that this was probably because she felt bad that I was going to Chicago by myself, with no one. I don't know what to think about this situation. I am not going to the game, but I don't know if I should go over to her house. Ironically, the reason we broke up was because she told me she needed to experience life more and I was controlling her life sometimes. Well, now she seems to be the one controlling me as of now. I don't know what to do. Should I go to her house today? If so, how should I act around her? I need advice on what I should do. I miss her so much, but I can't help thinking it may be best to just not see her today. Any help would be deeply appreciated...Thank you!

Can I ask how old are you? Remember...sex shouldn't just be something you do, it is something special that you need to share with people you love deeply. Anyways, I think that you didn't offend her. She is probably just saying that to cover up the truth. I think the problem is that she is worried right now about things that could happen. Sex often kills relationships dude. You have to understand that sex occurs by natural causes. I think you two were forcing it upon yourselves either because it just feels good or you two were confused. I'm not trying to come off mean by questioning you, but things just seemed a little odd in your situation. Right now, you have to give her some time to think about things. The consequences that could occur strain the mind of women, and respectfully so. Try to be respectful of her wishes right now and I am sure things will get back to normal in a little while. I'm not trying to be your mom or dad right now, but calm down on the whole sex thing. Your not going to want this same thing to be a continuous cycle. Good luck man...I'm sure you and her will soon be cool about things. 8)

You shouldn't have to worry about keeping your cool. You know you can have a successful relationship obviously since you are just coming off of a big one. First dates seem scary because of the first impressions and everything, but the secret to this is to just relax. I know that may sound vague, but that is what you have to do. Do not do anything too extreme. Do not say things you think he wants to hear. You will have plenty of other times to say things to him if your relationship progresses. On this first date, you just have to try to be as natural as possible. People always think if a first date isn't all successful, then your relationship will end in a failure. This is not true whatsoever. There is always time to grow a relationship. Right now, the only thing I can say is to not scare this guy off. Act around him like you would any of your good friends. Hm...I'm sorry, but I can't help to wonder why you are so quick to get back in the "game." A year and a half relationship is still a pretty big thing. You are not trying to make your ex-boyfriend jealous are you? I do not want to speculate things, but make sure you are okay with doing this before you go out with him... Always a pleasure to help!

The most obvious way I can tell if someone wants to be more than a friend is by their body actions and movements. Usually, you can tell if someone has feelings for you by this. Some examples would be if when you two are hanging out, and she is right next to you. If you two are close side by side, then that is a good sign. I knew my girl had feelings for me when we watched movies and she would get up close to me, touch my hair, play footsy (I know that sounds stupid). Any time she touches you in any way is always a good sign. Also, when you she is talking to you, try to see if she is looking at you and studying your face. Are her eyes locked onto your face? Another way to determine if she has feelings for you is if she constantly wants to and is talking to you. Do you two talk long on the phone? I believe that if you have had a good solid friendship that has been easy flowing, there is an excellent chance she has feelings for you. Good close friends have tendencies to have feelings for eachother because they know eachother really well and feel extremely comfortable around eachother. Well...I hope I have helped you out man. 8)

Wow...I read your post and I believe you should just be happy you two are friends right now. I am going through the exact same kind of problem right now! I was going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 7 months until she broke up with me. Our love was so amazing and then it was over so quickly. This breakup occurred only a week after she started a new job and met new people. Now she told me she needs to hang out with them and experience life more. I think you should be grateful that you have a friendship with her right now. In my situation, it is becoming too hard to be just friends. Man...my advice to you is to not try that "jealous" act. That is going to just complicate things. And think about this, if you two ever got back together, would you want it to be as a result of messing around with her emotions and making her jealous? I know that many people think about this, because I have too, but it is seriously going to make things worse. Do not go that way. You should should just try to have the best time as possible. I know this is extemely hard, but I don't think you can give her your undivided attention. She invited you and hopefully wants to see you have a time. Just relax with the whole situation and have fun! You will be ok....

It seems to me that this relationship shouldnt be elevated into anything other than a strong friendship, at least to this point. I havent been through anything like this but it seems that both of you enjoy eachother's company best when you are strong friends. If anything more than a friendship is there, it will show itself later on. Do not rush things. I dont want you to ruin an amazing friendship with someone by making this relationship be anything bigger than it is. I hope I was of some help...

I am 17 years old. I have never had a serious relationship until my last one. I had been going out with the most amazing girl in the world. We went out for 1 year and 7 months, and on that day she broke up with me. She told me the reason was that she felt held back and trapped in our relationship. She also said she wanted to experience life more and hang out with different people. I always told her that I agreed and supported that decision, but I always found myself constantly wondering what she was doing and who she was with. I should have been more trustful of her, but it was hard. We got into several fights because of this, but always forgave eachother. I promised her things would get better, and I thought they were. It has only been three days since the breakup and I am not doing good at all. I've seen her twice since the breakup, and both times I broke down crying (I am a very emotional person). She constantly tells me that things will work out in the end and that we will both get through this together, but I can't see myself getting through it. I need advice. How should I go about getting over this? We loved eachother so deeply and experienced so much, but now we are no longer together. I find myself confused and deeply depressed. I can't talk to anyone else about this because it is too hard. I haven't really aten since the breakup and I have felt extremely sick. I wish there was a way we could still be together because I still believe we were meant to be. Please help...