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its like impossible.....well not impossible but like super hard cuz i have her for alot of classes and stuff and we always see eachother i just need to somehow start thinking of her more as a friend and not a girlfriend... any suggestions i know i should just start dating someone else...but it seems liike i cant find anyone interesting or i just dont try or something???? uhh...this is so old already

yea i know it just sucks.....

well i dunno i dont think she is like that "just for excitement" but she is like a really bad girlfriend...i mean shes an awsome person she just sucks with relationships.......i need to move on thats all this website tells me haha so im trying i have been and it sucks and its hard MLB

man Esh that same thing happened to me and one of my friends i had since 1st grade he supposably liked this girl before me and i dated her first then he ended up dating her behind my back (like without telling me) after we broke up. the alot of bad stuff happened from there on....i dont talk to either of them anymore...well not in that same way whatsoever so im telling u man watch what your doing you on steep slippery slope....with this bros before hoes!! (haha im not calling your significant other a hoe..) goodluck MLB

when was the last time you saw her in person? and no i dont think your suffocating her she is probably just really busy with work... man i dont think i could be in a long distance relationship i would go crazy... well crazier than i already am good luck.........dont stay on the fone tooo long you could develop cancer haha MLB

well i hope you figure it out... and u should probably talk to your best friend alot about it now cuz she will help you!! thats what friends are for... i wish you good luck MLB

thanks for all of your opinions....(i like this website alot) haha it sucks because no matter what i see her alot at school...i need to find a kool new girl! haha she just called me since i had tryed to stop talking to her all together and i couldnt even talk so i told her i was going to go to sleep. im pretty sure it is a physical infactuation cuz how could u like someone with no feelings back im just stuck in a rut... well i appreciate everyones opinions on my dumb problem that i created... o yea "JJ Says Nay" im 18 but i am probably young relationship wise... MLB

i freaking hate myself........im tired of liking this girl she doesnt even like me but i am like totaly in love with her i think my hearts broken.....

man i know how both of you feel i am going through some weird retarded problems and i dunno...i feel out of place with all the people i used to hang around with so now i feel depresed and like ***t all the time. Also the one person i would talk to all the time (a girl i am totaly in love or obsessed with) i stopped talking to her or am trying to......so man you guys are definetly not alone.......

yea it was kind of long but i dunno what happened and how it ended up being that long (2 years). yea i think your right cease contact....or keep it to a minimum is what i need to do... thanks for the advice i dunno it just seems kind of hard but im sure thats what i need to do...

Well its probably going to be sort of long...but i met this girl probably about two years ago and we started talking and stuff...sparks...and stuff eventually we ended up going out but it wasnt for very long i think about 2 weeks or something like that (all gay) yea but i dunno i couldnt get over how awsome this chick was...i just found her personality so awsome. She was the one that broke up with me. her reason was that she didnt know me well enough??? (i thought thats y we were dating?) i duno i thought that was a * * * *ty breakup reason. I wanted to tell her no and convince her to stay with me but im not that type of guy ...or at least i wasnt then. But later on i found she regreted breaking up with me and that she still wanted to be with me and stuff.... Im kinda cloudy what happened on this part but i dont remember but i think i was trying to move on and just forget about it but then i eventually started talking to her again and once again...sparks.... but then it seemed like out of nowhere she was talking to one of my good friends....then they ended up going out??? i dont even remember how this happened but i know it sucked cuz now i had really started liking her...and i couldnt have her anymore i dunno i couldnt stand that my good friend secretly went out with my ex.!! and didnt want me to know uhhh.... that sucked i dunno i couldnt stop liking her though then at one point she told me she still had feelings for me even though she was with someone else....this drove me crazy i just wished she would break up with him and go with me.......never happened eventually their relationship (girl i like and friend) became unsteady and it seemed like if they were going to break up...then they did. during this time me and her talked alot and i was pretty close to her and she ended up doing stuff with me which was awsome but then later on she went back with her ex. (i just wanted to die) like seriously i hated myself for not being able to let go..... but their relationship continued to stay on the rocks for a while and me and her continued to do stuff....i felt like * * * * for letting her cheat but i dunno i hade this hate against my against my "old friend" so it didnt matter to me... ///////////oh wait i left out a detail that he said....According to him he liked her way before i ever started talking to her and that i stole her away from him...seeing how i never heard of this or him never talking to her i had no clue that he liked her which im sure he didnt...i made a move and started talking to her but then he starded dating her behind my back so i had already had sort of a pre-born hate against him./////////////// but yea anyways she continued to cheat on him with me....i kept telling her to just break up with him and be with me....she would tell me she didnt know how to do it so it never happened (this whole time i am seriously going crazy!!!) Well eventually they ended up breaking up for good and i had stopped talking to her for a period and when i did start talking to her after her final breakup again it seemed like this to me ........SPARKS!!!!....... I thought we were finally going to go out for real this time seeing how she wouldnt have to cheat or hide her feelings for me and stuff.....but i dunno we would hold hands kiss hold eachother etc...... but it kept turning from i just want to be friends to more then to less, more, less..... (now i seriously think i am messed up in the head for still talking to this girl and letting myself get this done to me) well in my story i am now closer to today but recently she has just stuck to wanting to be friends and she once again HID ANOTHER relationship behind my back she is now going out with some other guy.....i cryed like a little * * * * * *(what the hell is wrong with me)* and no i am really close to her she tells me all her problems i listen give adivice and help her to be happy i feel like a doormat i just feel like im so far down a hole that there is no way out if anyone read this whole thing i am greatfull this problem has caused me so much greif for almost 2 years now...... i think its just cuz i am a weak person sometimes i think i need consuling or something i just wish i could find some other girl to pull me away from all this it seems like no one understands mabye writing all this will help???? thank you..... MLB

Man dude yea that is a like a super super size mistake on her part....from what u have said about this relationship is seems like you have got the * * * * out of it. i mean i know u like her but you can find someone else that makes u feel that same way.....you do both deserve a second chance i believe though..the only problem is trusting her. P.s. i drink.....sort of alot haha and that is no excuse to do that much u cant be that freaking retarded when your drunk..... come on!!! trust me i would know...you have to want to do that even if you are drunk well good luck dude MLB

overanalyzing is bad yes dont do that i think both of you should really consider getting back together and making things work /and if he doesnt see that yall make eachother happy im sure if u ignored him or left him out of your life for a while he would realize what he lost and want you back in a real relationship. but dont keep banking on him being the only person you can feel this way with...its just cuz he knows all the right buttons to push to make you happy since you have dated previously and you both know eachother. Also secret relationships end up causing problems and drama between some of your closest friends. So i hope you figure this out...good luck MLB

Man that really sucks candice...i would definetly finewhine on this one!! i kind of had a similar situation to this but i didnt do what finewhine said but now where i am i know that she is definetly, positively, absolutely right! haha but yea i know its gonna suck but you will come out on top for sure. You are a better stronger person than the both of them Go Candice whoooo... haha i wish u luck mabye someone will have some MLB

No i dont believe that once you cheat you will always be subjected to cheating in your relationships. I think its more based on the circumstances of your present relationship or previous relationships. I do agree RayKay....yes teens do make some very bad choices hopefully i learn from them