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  1. papalazarou
    I know what you mean. When you go thru a break up you cant help but lose weight! I remember when I split from the ex wife I lost 3 stone! xx
  2. papalazarou
    So she has told you NOT to call and you still are? You cant change her but you can change yourself. Do something different and dont contact her. Disappear. I know you have been trying to move on but e I feel you cant let her go and you have this need to talk to her about something, anything. Also I know you have a good group of friends you can surround yourself with. Its obviously difficult to do NC so you can do LC, when she contacts you but be prepared it may be once a week or once a month...! In the meantime you have to move on from her emotionally. Easier said than done I know. With regards to your insecurities. I know why you had them. You must NOT beat yourself up about it. I would as well, always, always, ALWAYS trust your gut man. By the way how did you get on in Brighton? You never did call HA HA!!!!
  3. papalazarou
    I absolutely 100% agree here. I couldnt add anymore than to reiterate what has been said here!
  4. papalazarou
    Valentines Day. Well I heard someone say that the bars and clubs will be full of single people, so if you wanna take the plunge its a good night to meet fellow singletons because all the couples will be indoors or restaurant or cinema! Much better Superdave...!!!!
  5. papalazarou
    Im sure the girls on a diet would really appreciate this !!!
  6. papalazarou
    Exactly! Remember how good you felt when you were re-establishing your identity and he wasnt around and there were no reminders! I suppose to a certain extent your co worker is also a reminder.
  7. papalazarou
    Well in that case she is obviously after a bit of gossip and yes im sure she is fishing for information as to why you havent responded to him!!
  8. papalazarou
    Yes she does mate. She is just fishing for information and at the same time trying to upset your "karma". No doubt she has seen you doing well and has decided to rattle your cage. It must be very difficult for you having a work colleague who is close to your ex. On the other hand I know you cant help wondering if he is with someone else, thats only natural and whilst its easier said than done you need to put those thoughts to one side...difficult I know :sad:
  9. papalazarou
    Indeed I remember when my marriage broke up the Doctor said to me its almost like a living death. The relationship is over but they are still alive!
  10. papalazarou
    No thats a DRUMMER mate! The HEARTBEAT of the band!
  11. papalazarou
    If Scruff would only respond to my PM!!
  12. papalazarou
    As Alan Partridge would say "lovely stuff". "Not my words Michael but he words of Shakin Stevens" Im so proud of you!!!
  13. papalazarou
    cheatedon. Run away. As fast as you can. Parsley. I bet that this time you will recover quicker from your knockback than last time babe xx
  14. papalazarou
    By doing nothing you cant be doing anything wrong.
  15. papalazarou
    In the long run it will be a very good thing - for YOU.
  16. papalazarou
    Mate. I bet a few people on here would love to have that dilemma!
  17. papalazarou
    Basically if someone breaks up with me and wants to be "friends" then its thank you and I will never see you or talk to you again. If I see you in the street I will say hello and then goodbye. When someone dumps you and says lets be friends. Why would you want that. This was somone you were inimate with and now its gone. You would have had friends before you met your current partner, you dont need them as a friend. When they end the relationship as far as im concerned they also end the friendship. Having been a dumper on a couple of occasions of course I have said lets be friends but I have respected them by not contacting them whatsoever as, lets face it, its not fair on them.
  18. papalazarou
    Because she has had two other guys I would be very wary that she isnt using you as a security blanket. She seems to me to be a person who always needs a b/f. Furthermore I would also be wary of reconciling with someone who left me for another person. If you split because you didnt get on or things were not right then that is something that can be addressed but leaving for another person means they could do the same again...
  19. papalazarou
    Well as you know whats been going on...no I havent heard anything for nearly 4 days now, so tomorrow is the key as thats when we are supposed to go out. I mean I did say on Friday if I dont see you before I will see you Thursday so its 24 hrs to go... All my mates think Im being played for a fool - one of my mates said this: " Things are obviously not progressing with XXXX whilst she’s going through all these traumas so you should look after yourself and your own interests for a while. " At least this way I have effectively been in NC for 4 days now!! Pisces there is no way I would have been friends with her if we didnt have the children. As I said she had the affair, it was not a mutual break up or anything like that, I wish it was.
  20. papalazarou
    Im sorry to hear about your cat mate I didnt realise And thats my problem as well or I suppose the problem in general when you "be friends" with someone. One or the other will want something more initially, until time has passed. EG 4 years ago I was divorced. I had two kids so I am friends with the ex wife now. It wasnt always like that as she had the affair but now she is a friend.
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  22. papalazarou
    This is very true mate and its a real ego boost even if the feelings are not reciprocated!
  23. papalazarou
    and a nice hot cup of tea!
  24. papalazarou
    Im sure he would replace it with a similar cream or sponge cake!
  25. papalazarou
    SD couldnt have put it better parsley x
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