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    Guys (and girls) The ONLY think you can do is get THROUGH this. Not round it or over it but THROUGH it. Do things that you ENJOY. No matter how hard it is at first. It really is easier said than done but it does get easier as the days, weeks then months pass. You will think about them less and less as time goes on. To anyone going thru a break up my one piece of advice would be this Keep BUSY. Dont let the mind wander. Keep on moving on.
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    Yes mate I have flogged the proverbial dead horse plenty of times!
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    So you SHOULD. You dont have to sleep with them or anything however it will make you realise that A) Other females find you ATTRACTIVE B) Maybe just maybe you will find that they are better than the ex was anyway.
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    Over 3 months since I saw her. Over 3 weeks since the last little flurry of texts. No matter. Dating someone else. And mighty fine she is to. Would not go back if she begged me. Not that she will. Even if this new lass dont work out its proved 2 things. A) There is life after your ex. (well I know that after the ex wife but anyway) B) Dont put up with any crap. This new lass has been nicer to me in three weeks than she was in the last 3 months.
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    Blimey Kate. I remember when you could see no light at the end of the tunnel. That is excellent news babe!
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    Its only natural mate. I still miss my ex...from time to time now not all the time like I did at first....
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    Thats the spirit Mac. When we split from our SO we think they are the only person in the world who will/would love us. The truth is however very different.
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    GOOD news Mac Just take it slllooooowwww with the new girl. But I agree its a great confidence boost!!!
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    Yep same here. But those days of feeling like cr@p do become more infrequent as time goes on...
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    Hit the nail on the head there... Also girls dont actually appreciate when you do become the nice guy and treay them well and do whatever you can for them (within reason), they then get bored and dump you for guy #1 and then repeat to fade. Im a nice guy. I have a social life, a great group of friends, decent hobbies etc. Treated a girl real nice. Introduced her to my friends who all accepted her. Then after 6 months POW see ya. Thanks alot. So much for being a nice guy...
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    Well done Miss Indigo!!! Caring for the other person is not a problem. You are only human after all!
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    Mac I sent you a PM on this. At then of the day buddy its up to you. Do what will make YOU feel better. Just remember she left you for another man. But as I said mate whether you send it or not is not going to change anything whatsoever...
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    Its well documented. But myspace really should be ignored. I mean whats it for? Really. SD has said he hates myspace. I have to agree. Its easy to lie in cyberspace.
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    Good luck Mac with both of them!!!!
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    And theres the rub. They want "excitement" and how long does it last one month? Two? Six months, a year? Two years? They think they have found their soul mate. What they have done is find a cancer to trouble their existing relationship. Mac, sorry but whatever happens you did not deserve what happened to you if she had any integrity she would have ended it with you. Had some time out single then gone with the other guy. What she did sucks and no amount of dressing up can ever cover that up.
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    All I can say Miss Kitty is that after a month of NC you will feel better.
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    Hey Mac Anger is good for the healing process...we earlier you need to get angry and at the time you said you couldnt.....now look at you!
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    Very, very, true Mac.
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    I feel the same
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    Mate it happens to us all. First couple of weeks I couldnt care less...im now at 6 weeks of not having seen her and I must admit I have had moments of weakness. Maguyver said in an earlier post that he read somewhere that the body kind of realises that at 6 weeks they aint coming back...
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    Amen to that.
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    deelove...nope you are not a loser mate. However would knowing if she was with some other guy really help you?? Sometimes it is better to not know. If it was a yes you may freak out... Deal in facts. The fact is she dumped you and paid the friends thing lip service just to make it easier - for her. I truly feel your pain mate but the best thing you can do is try and forget about her. Easier said than done I know.
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    Hi Mac Personally speaking you would have done the 30days by the time her bday comes round so I would send that card. I wouldnt send a gift or make the card too mushy tho, but I think there is nothing wrong in saying happy birthday. My ex birthday is in the middle of May and I fully intend to send a card at least. I think that it will show you have no hard feelings but be prepared that she my just say "thank you" and leave it at that.
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    Probably because after 30 days you will be in a better frame of mind... It will be up to you if they want them back and lets say you did and they said no then you should be (relatively) sufficiently healed to be able to take it, having done 30 days NC.
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    Same here Mac. I want to do the same thing as well, especially this Its been over a month since I last saw her in the flesh so to speak and about 2 and a half weeks since we last spoke. Think that 6 week thing kind of makes sense. Im feeling it today. Swingers will make you feel better. I thought it was great
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