RufusDawes

Being nice is not the answer. In this type of situation you need to be cruel to be kind, properly make her dislike you. Tell her exactly why it is you are not attracted to her, even if you need to be rude it will be better for whoever it is in the long run. They will be angry at you, find reason to possibly hate you, kill whatever feelings have been built up and be able to move on. It must really suck for both parties that said feelings developed in a work place. I'd hate to have a geniune unavoidable heart clunching crush on a co-worker.

I flirted once. Didn't like it.

Ignore him completely while he has his girlfriend. You don't want to do the wrong thing and be the other girl and you also shouldn't cause yourself distress because of someone else who by the sounds doesn't care about you enough to leave his girlfriend. Its probably the best way to sort your feelings out, have some time away from this dude.

You're going to get rejected and yelled at a lot.

Hello friends, Is anyone a geologist here ? or does anyone know one, or know of a good place to get information. I'd like to become a professional geologist but I don't really know much about the industry, or how hard it is to get into. I realise its a long shot asking, but what the hell, figuring I'll do a Bachelor of science with a geoscience/geophysics major. Thanks in advance

do what you want to do. don't strip if you don't want to but feel you have to - there are plenty of other ways to make money.

I'm definently a beta male, don't like it ? Well I'll fight ya.

It is a sad fact that attractive people will often feign interest in a person they know is attracted to them. It helps them network, who knows, keeping this person around and on side might be of benefit someday. Also I guess some people just like the attention.

mmmmm 500 dollars to show off ur beautiful body !!! you should be proud of urself not ashamed to show what god gave you why the body shame !!! ur a beautiful women and men want you, it is a wonderful thing embrace it

You must find your path.

O MAN, never apologize you did nothing wrong.

It is definently still true. Most girls I know expect men to make the first move, they expect men to call, and to pay for everything. One girl told me I should get a nice car, because it lets me play the dominant male.

Yes, yes and yes.

you can hypothesise and discuss things all you want but theres only really one way to find out.

How do I make a girl at a bar go out with me. Plz tell me stuff if you know any good stuff that works for making girls like you.

LOL - ROFLAMO, sounds utterly terrible.

if a girl asks you to do something say do i get a kiss or after you've done it say wheres my kiss but smile and say it like ur joking but also be suggestive i did it once and the girl just paused uncomfortably as if to say - lol @ your face me no like u so i know then nice and easy she no like me I fixed this girls internet once and said well wheres my kiss ? she laughed and said maybe latter if ur good but it never happened she lied women are liars i don't know just tossing some ideas up there

a woman once told me she wants a man who will dominate and control her. then she told me i'm a typical greek - doesn't see a woman as anything its all about guys. She then said she'd never had a greek boy treat her bad. This woman was more sane than any I have ever met. She said some crazzzzyy stuff but atleast she told me what she wanted rather than leaving me to guess. This use of logic apparently forgotten by all other women in the world leads me to believe that in all probability what she said about attraction might have a tonne of merit.

Just wondering If anyone else has had or is having the same feeling. It seems like everything moves so slowly, as if I am in exactly the same position I was in five years ago. Trying to get myself going into a decent/real job, I know you're supposed to respect all labor but I feel like I am still doing the type of job you should be doing when you're 19 years old. Theres nothing really wrong with that but it feels like such a shame to have put in so much effort to university only to find the course you did is fairly useless, and doesn't lead to anything I want to pursue. I started a science/teaching course straight out of highschool, dropped out after first year, worked for a year then started and finished an economics degree. Now, a year after graduating I find myself enrolling in the same course I started 5 years ago. I'm going to end up spending 7 years at university in total, three more to go. I'll be 25 turning 26 when I finish. I'm scrounging for hours at my current job and applying for the same type of, lets face it - crappy jobs I've done for the last 5 years. It doesn't make me unhappy, I don't mind the work at all. Money is not a huge issue I make enough to get by and thats enough for me at the moment. But I am starting to feel a bit ashamed that I've gotten nowhere with my time. I don't meant to, or want to complain about it but I would like to know if anyone else has been through something similar or had the same type of thoughts.

Yes big boobies are a turn on. So are a lot of other things and a lot of things are a big turn off. Like boobies that aren't breast tissue but are fat cells.

Lower your standards Works a treat

I hate people who hate people.

Wow... I never want to work in a corporate environment.

you're right it won't hurt to say hi, unless you've been accused of stalking > : l have you ? SAY HELLO