I too have to agree with the rest of you. It wasn't until my ex was sent to prison that I began to hate him, the time apart was the key I think. It's been 3 years and the fact he was deported back to portugal if not for that I would more than likely still be with him. The road to recovery for me is still a long one, the bitterness I feel inside is still strong. He was sent back and started a new life where as his children and I were left here to struggle. Sometimes when things get real bad I wonder was it worth it ? Only time will tell.