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  1. BeatleJon
    I talked to my Psychologist about this. She said to concentrate on yourself before dating. She said to me "you have a crater in your heart and filling that crater with another girl would be pointless". You have to improve yourself before seeing anyone else. She actually said to me that it would be better to go out and do things with the same sex people.....not being gay or anything. Jon N.
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    The way I see it if you wanna get back together with anybody......PATIENCE is the key. If the person really loves you, he or she will eventually call.....If not, then get on with your life. This is what I am trying to do but, it is still VERY VERY hard to deal with (especially since I was involved with my ex g/f for over 3 yrs). Don't contact them..........let them contact you. Jon N.
  3. BeatleJon
    Thanks for your reply's guys and gals.
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    I was with my girfriend for 3 years and 4 months. She said her biggest fear was to lose me and guess what...........She ended it. I just don't want to live everyday like this. I cant take it. I talked to her severl times and she has seemed very nice and she still has me on her aol instant messager. I really just want her to say "We can work on this together" or "dont call me anymore". She is not giving me any answers. Thank you, Jon N.
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    I've been without my girlfriend for about 3 months and I've now come to the conclusion I can not heal. I've tried NC but, I think that only works for people that have friends. I dont have any friends and I'm all alone in this battle. I am going to a Psycologist soon to see if I can get some help and some happy pills. I've never been so depressed in my life....this is a new low for me. I can not be happy. I just wrote her a long email telling her everything I feel. If I don't get a response, I am burning everything and being by myself for the rest of my life. I couldn't take another break-up.
  6. BeatleJon
    AMEN to that. Good luck.
  7. BeatleJon
    Thats great!!! Congrats!!!! I hope it works for me too!!
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    I hear ya. I've been doing LC and its killing me. I'm going to try NC for a while but, I don't think it will work for me either. I think it would be a little different if I has some friends to hang out with but, I really dont have anyone.
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    She broke up with me. I begged and cryed for the first few weeks and went to mostly NC. I talked to her a couple times and she seemed very cool so, hopefully, the night will go smooth. Thanks for the advise, Jon N.
  10. BeatleJon
    Haha! Michael Myers would kick the Predator's butt! Haha! We might go see "Click"...the new Adam Sandler movie.
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    Welp, I broke down and called my ex-girlfriend after about 2 months. We MAY go see a movie tonight and I was wanting some advise on how to get things started off to a good start? Any advise would be swell! Thanks, Jon N.
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    I too am having this problem. I constantly check my email/cell phone. I keep on listening to The Beatles song "We Can Work It Out" but, so far....its no luck! It's really bad because I dont have anybody to share the 4th of July holiday with this year...I've been with her for the past 3 1/2 years. Jon N.
  13. BeatleJon
    No Contact and Limited Contact.
  14. BeatleJon
    So, did she get in contact with you or did you contact her?
  15. BeatleJon
    I am pretty much going through the same thing....you are not alone. My girlfriend of 3 years and 4 months dumped me because she doesn't think I have a future either (but I'm going to prove her wrong). I've cryed, constantly called, and cryed some more. I have be doing LC for the past month and its helped just a little bit. I still feel as if a piece of me is gone. All I can say is try to stay busy and TRY not to think too much about it, even though it's VERY hard. I still think about her everyday but, you kinda just gotta give them the space they need for a while to let them miss you and realise what kind of mistake they have made. My prayers are with you and everyone on this board with broken hearts. All the best, Jon N.
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