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  1. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    yeah, it's not good, if he's running around outside his marriage then theres an integrity issue, and it looks like he loves drama. So say he did leave her, do you imagine what kind of wild situations he would drag you into just to keep the level of drama high enough in his life?
  2. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    number 3 is my guess. If he wanted to leave you'd know it because he would have left. Sounds like the two of them both enjoy a lot of drama in their life, and you are the perfect foil.
  3. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    well youll do fine you're moving away anyway I'm sure you'll meet someone there you like. Good luck!
  4. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    lol, this post is funny! heehee..."take a feel"...heehee...
  5. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    so, casually walk toward her, w/o staring at her. then as you get closer, you 'all of a sudden' 'notice' her. then you say: oh, hi aren't you in my (whatever) class? Why aren't you doing homework? tease her or say something, ask if (for instance) she'd like to come to the coffee house you hang out at sometime? you were just going that way anyway....
  6. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    That's great! you did the right thing. it is very hard to do that i know! A while back a friend of mine did something that was pretty uncool. I let her know, and then I just stopped taking her phone calls...for like a few months (I figured what she did was pretty inexusable, and would do better off with out). So after 2 or 3 months she left a couple of apologetic voicemails for me, saying she'll never do that again. Honestly I appreciated the apology it did seem pretty sincere, and things were fine after that. I guess sometimes we all have to suck it up sometimes and put things right!
  7. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    I inadvertently did something wrong recently too, because i did not have the facts. When i realized it, i felt pretty bad, but believed it was most likely too late to rectify. Nonetheless i let the person know that i now understood, and wished the person well.
  8. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    try to take walks whenever you can too, its great excercise and fun too. I used to do volks marching, and it is fun.
  9. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    The part about not talking about past relationships could be anything, doesn't have anything to do with his effeminate nature. But the effeminate stuff you described would bother me as i prefer men not too on that side. It really depends what type of guy your into. And yes there is also the possibility that he may be gay.
  10. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    I think this most likely means she likes you and is moving towards liking you more.
  11. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    it's ok absolute empathy is not something that many people have perfected. you're making progress, thats always a good thing.
  12. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    No I haven't heard of the ladder theory? Maybe I should check it out. But any way let me know how things go. I think you can get this back under wraps, as we discussed it appears to be your best, if not your only alternative.
  13. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    yes, try someone else, it can't hurt, and if you have to try someone else after that, it's ok, there are people who are trained and have an innate understanding of your issues, so don't give up.
  14. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Well I don't know some guys are more approachable as friend types than others, but regardless, she probably just thinks of you as a friend and hopes you guys can just go back the way it was. Can you? I should mention, that THIS is exactly why some women are apprehensive about becoming friends with men.
  15. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Well, she has probably considered you a platonic friend for all this time and now you are telling her you will not be her platonic friend. So like anyother friend she feels you are dumping her through no fault of her own. I have male friends at work and i wouldn't like it if they suddenly said they wouldn't be my friend anymore. How to tone that down? I have no idea. If there's one thing I know for sure, we cannot pick and choose who we like and who we don't. it just happens. you'll have to put things back into reality though, to help the situation. Again, you should look into your own marriage. If it's really miserable, you should decide if you want to take steps to improve it or if you just want to get out. then proceed from there.
  16. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    No, I'm not judging harshly, i have known people who were married and left their spouse for someone else, and into a much happier marriage. So it does happen, but that doesn't make it ok to carry on while you're still married, you must decide, and do the right thing. Another thing is i don't get the feeling that this married woman in question is on the brink of leaving her husband for you? is she? if no, then you are looking at a moot point, my friend.
  17. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Well if you have autism and ocd, i am certainly not without compassion for you, but like i said you should try working with your health care providers on some medications and behavioral therapy as they may be very beneficial to you. But until you have a better grip on things, you should take care of your friend too, you see?
  18. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Just my two cents... unless and until you are legally divorced, you have no business taking this further with her or anyone else. If you're that miserable in your marriage, then you should get out, if your staying then make the best of it.
  19. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Mee tooo! lol..
  20. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Well if that is true, then that is actually quite scary for this girl in question. You should not continue to ask for her address, and you should talk to your health care provider right away. Treatment may help you. Perhaps you need an SSRI.
  21. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    ....mmmmhhhmmmm.....
  22. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Ummm...maybe because she doesn't want you turning up on her doorstep? Why don't you be honest about your motives. In this day and age email works just as well as letters. You want to know exactly where she lives.
  23. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Do it, man, just at least try. if no; no harm, no foul.
  24. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    If I like a guy and he doens't figure it out, lol, he is 3 feet thick!
  25. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    you gotta talk to her...
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