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overthinking...... just ask him out. And also no its not always true that men always like to take the initiative. 80% of men wouldnt mind that the women actually is the one making the first step. Arent we living in equality time? women should be allowed to hunt also so go for it. At least you'll know how its like to be in a man shoes trying to ask girls out lol.

You know what? just do what you feel like doing. If you just wanna call her and talk to her, just do it. Life too short to hang around people who missreads you by thinking your desperate. Beside there is a market to buy off women...to make them yours if that doesnt work! LOL (man i am gonna get hang for this )

Indeed why wouldnt women be in other jobs area? I just sited the mall as an example. Though maybe i didnt present the post in a more politically correct way. But i tend to willingly not do that and i tend to keep it "vulgar" so everyone gets the message and provoke in some way (ive been told before than i used to much "fancy words" to communicate so i keep it simple). "Hot chicks" can be many things (though i bet you though i was referring to the traditional meaning), what men would consider hot would be very ordinary for others. Taste varies. Would have it been better to say "charming women"? Though I think women are somewhat biased over the subject as it wasnt presented in a "good light". I'll keep that in mind of the next threads i start.

That actually 19 ways to actually end lose a girl. Done at rare times and limited it can do wonders. But too much of it too fast you'll just end up alone....with your hand...or anything else that you use to keep you in control lol. Basically when i just read all those 19 stuffs, its hit me has being a WUSS. And chicks dont dig WUSSES. Never give what the want! Thats the key of keeping a girl. We keep power and control and decide whenever she deserve any of that attention. Thats all.

But ya, thats basically what confidence is all about. But there is such things a too much confidence to the point like lil miss here mentioned as being arrogant. I'll just sum up with the following. Be confident isnt the only thing to make people (not just women being attracted to you), you need nuance this with by being also open minded....which is quite rare to find these days. Even from people who pretend to be so but who arent really. This implies listening, accepting difference of opinion, not taking everything personal, willing to admit to be wrong and understanding (specially when it comes to pushing others people button, you gonna know when its a touchy subject.) I know its hard, but if everyone did half the effort the world wouldnt suck that much.

When people can't read its mean they are analphabetic. So you aren't illiterate, but you definatly can't write! Good luck

in other words, less than good-looking people needs to be more patient and work more at it lol. Beside it goes the same way for women. Men like a women who also has a good sense of humor.

errr...maybe you want something that you can't have? Alot if not all people are like that. Go figure, I like the easy way out. How about i make you forget him and making you feel like a woman again? LOL Plus I am even younger than your ex hehe, though just by a year.

well, come here you can get back at him trough me hehe. Yeah i am kinda masochistic.

Hey annie. You are HOT and I'd never cancel on you! I dig scientist chicks! You are living my lost dreams and i am not a converted artist in the visual effect industry ( grades sucked too much!) hehe Ok that being said and I hope it makes you feel better. Personally, flakyness comes on both side, either from women or men. I had a girl which i met in online for a movie at a festival we both wanted to go. She said she didnt have anyone to go with so i said to her we could go watch together like friends And then when i was trying to setup something and sent her the link for the listing she took her time before deciding and acted desinterested. At the time i met her, she was crying over a breakup with her ex blah blah, and as usual at the time i tried to console her, big mistake, i should have busted her instead for being so clingy. Anyway, suffice to say that we never went to see the movie and never met and she got back with her ex. Waste of my time it was. And the whole process lasted 2 months. So my advice, don't look back and just move on. You shouldn't care that much from people you just met anyway. Heartless and inconsiderate people is common, and we are among them ourselves. Sometimes women makes me angry like men does to yoiu...but i try to remember the ones who were angels (rare as it may) and remind me that YES good women still exist. So don't lose hope. Beside i love women, its so much easier than being angry at them all the time.

Man...don't people read? Sigh, ok since you can't here another solution. If its true that your are blessed with so much other things and hopefully money. Here is a trick get loads of it and go get surgery! But let me tell you this, surgery wont mean squat if you continue to self-loathe yourself. Let me finish off be saying this quoting billy bob thornton caracter from bad santa "Don't take crap from anybody, especially from yourself." We go around in this world meeting people who will try to take us down all the time, there are enough of them already so why would you allow yourself to be among them? You can be either our best ally or worst ennemie. And no body else can play best either roles because you are the person who knows you best! Be a MAN and take control of your reality. If women tries to take you down, fight back, and overwelm by being unwavered and embarrass them instead. This is how you get noticed with your personality. AND PLEASE, men speaking of their feelings, especially to other women, is really not working. ANd sends a message of neediness and lack of confidence. Prove the whole world that you are a much better man than you "cuter friends" by making something out you, having projects, leading instead of following! EMPOWER yourself. The rest will only follow.

THANKs! I working hard at being a mean guy, specially toward spaced-flaky girls-who-should-study-harder-instead-dating-this-much! LOL Stick to your essay only because if your attention is anything like here...you are bound to end up with a bad grade!