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  1. lonelyfish
    Hey Lady Bugg, You seem to be in the same situation as me as my ex was also previously married. You probably had a great relationship with him but yeah, like me you might have scared him a bit regarding the commitment thing. Don't blame yourself! Every girl that he will meet will want the same thing from him. As his first marriage failed he is just making sure that the next time around he will get it right, and he probably just wants to see what else is out there. If you were good to him he will always compare every girl to you. Not a bad thing. Maybe he'll find out that the grass is not always greener. I say do N/C with him. Give him his space and it give it some time.
  2. lonelyfish
    Could it be that maybe things with her ex are not that great and she's trying to see if she still has feelings for you, maybe she's keeping her options open which could be good or bad, just don't wan't to see you get played!
  3. lonelyfish
    You have to go back to playing it cool again and wait for her to call you. The situation with her Mom on top of everything else that is going on (her surgery, the holidays, her son and you in the picture) most likely has her brain scattered right now. You have to relax and wait for her to make the next move towards you or you could scare her off because she's probably a little stressed. The last thing you need to do is to put any added pressure on her - so yeah just continue to play it cool, so far you are doing great!
  4. lonelyfish
    Please tell us that you finally talked with her OCD!
  5. lonelyfish
    Maybe not directly ask for her to call you, but say "I know you're going in for your surgery tomorrow and wish you well, feel free give me a call today if you would like to talk" or something like that.
  6. lonelyfish
    I don't think there would be anything wrong in trying to contact her again to wish her well prior to her surgery. Contact her in a way that you feel most comfortable text or phone call and that you'll know she will actually get and see the message! (I am curious whether or not she did hear your last voice message you left her?).
  7. lonelyfish
    That is great!
  8. lonelyfish
    If you haven't worked out in a while get back at it and wip your body into shape. It's hard to be depressed when you are looking good, plus the added indorphins that you get from working out will really help your depression and you will sleep better and gain confidence. Also, how great would it feel when the ex sees the new confident you.
  9. lonelyfish
    Whatever you do, wait until Thursday. Will you know she will even see the text if you send one with her little cell phone knowledge that she seems to have?
  10. lonelyfish
    Give it another day. I think it would be OK to call her on Thursday before her surgery to wish her well.
  11. lonelyfish
    Any updates OCD? Hope you are hanging in there!
  12. lonelyfish
    Best Song - "Good Bye to You" 80's song by Scandal Worst Song - "Bless the Broken Road" Rascal Flats
  13. lonelyfish
    That is great - I think we all aim to be that!!!
  14. lonelyfish
    If she asked you to just call her cell phone then she should obviously know how to use it. She seems like she is wondering about what you have been up to, this would give her every reason to check for any messages you may have left on her phone. Today is only Tuesday, hang tight. She'll probably be getting anxious for her ucoming surgery and feel the need to contact you. Lets just give it some time and wait for her to call. Relax, I know its frustrating for you but so many of us are envious of you right now having the ex seeming like she may be interested in you again. You totally have to keep your cool or you'll risk messing things up!
  15. lonelyfish
    Great post GreatGuy!
  16. lonelyfish
    Sukerbut, I right there with you man. I'm crying over an ex that everyone has told me that I'm better of not being with right now, he has a lot of issues going on, just divorced with kids, and recently lost his job, etc. Me, I'm smart, cute, independent, great job - but why I do I still care for this guy who broke my heart. Dako is right, I'm competive in nature and I think it's the the thought that I lost in love. Best advice is to work on improving yourself right now, that's what is keeping me going and giving me confidence.
  17. lonelyfish
    OCD, don't dwell on it too much. I'm sure she we call you back. Just like you she is probably going to be a little cautious so don't start to freak if it takes her a few days to return your call. You seem like you made a connection again with you last phone conversation with her. If for whatever reason (though I think unlikely) that she doesn't call you back then she is not worth your time to be getting involved with her as she is still really confused. A normal happy person would return you call, it's only decent. Just be patient!
  18. lonelyfish
    Yes! I wish my ex all the best, but I sometimes wish he'll gain all this weight and lose his hair so I at least I would lose the attraction! Sounds so bad I know!
  19. lonelyfish
    Definitely keep dating the other girls OCD. You never know, look how much fun Dogg is having and we all thought he would never get to that point! I wouldn't be surprised if you ex calls you Sunday night. In my opinion I don't think there would be any harm calling her Sunday night if she hadn't already tried to call you. You could talk about how much fun you Xmas party was Friday night! But don't talk as long as you did the other night.
  20. lonelyfish
    Dogg, I am so happy for you - things seem to be turning around for you! Glad to hear you are feeling so good!
  21. lonelyfish
    My ex decided to end the relationship. Looking back it was probably for the best considering his baggage he was and still is dealing with. I just thought we could have least be on friendly terms and feel comfortable talking more frequently with each other. Though I guess I understand he has lot of things to figure out on his own. The last time I spoke with him he ended by saying "Ill talk to you soon" but yeah, we all know how that goes. It's not like I don't think I'll ever here or see him again for we have mutual friends and I loaned him a bunch of stuff for his place.
  22. lonelyfish
    Thanks for all your advice. My ex and had such a great friendship within our relationship, and we always told each other no matter what we would still be friends. I haven't talked to him in 1 1/2 months, I just thought he would have tried to contact me by now. The last time I talked to him though he said he was an emotional mess with things in his life and said he couldn't have talked to me prior. I know he's probably going through some tough times still so maybe thats still the reason he is being M.I.A. There's a part of me that is emphathetic to his situation but then every now and then this hurt comes over me like a freight train wondering why he hasn't contacted me.
  23. lonelyfish
    Hi, I was just wondering how many of you out there had your ex tell you they really wanted to be friends, hang out, etc. then to never here from them again! I hate that, are they just trying to make you feel better by giving you hope that you'll at least be friends? I've seen the good and bad posts on here about remaining friends with your ex. - most being bad because it seems like you don't get a break to either move on or solve the issues that caused the break up to begin with. Just wondering about all of your thoughts on this. Thannx!
  24. lonelyfish
    This thread is a waste of everyone's time
  25. lonelyfish
    Ouch, that's harsh!
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