NorthStar90745

at least you got a chance to be with her. that should be some comfort.

she was probaly just srewing with my head then..i guess she had no real feelings for me

i guess i am vulnerable knowing where im going...i never felt for anyone like this before and im 28 already!! thank you for your prayers..dont forget the other soldiers/ marines that are out there..

i know its wrong..the priest says so..but he said that the only thing i can do is tell her how i feel..the rest is up to god...

i meet this girl a few weeks ago. shes married. she married at 17 now she is 22. she started talking to me..going as far as waiting in purpose when we got out of class. i didn't mind. but we connected that night..we talked for hours. the better part of me had to end it. there was this strong...moving connection. it was mutual. the way she looked at me..it was with such affection. no woman has ever looked at me like that before. my firends told me that the right thing to do was to stay away from her....i did...and on the last day of class..we said goodbye..she was crying..i felt devastated...i knew i would never see her again....a week later..i still weak up with her in my my thoughts...hating myself for not telling her how i felt...struggled with my own conscience...ask my priest for advice... at the end of class that night, i had to slip a note on her car's windshiled saying to stay in touch with my email address...she has not emailed since...this was about four days ago...i underestimated how i felt about this girl...i know this is wrong..but i want to give myself some closure befor i leave for iraq...i want to tell her how i feel.... why has she not written yet????????????????????? she is always in my thougths... she was crying but we had to keep it civil because we were in class when we said goodbye

i can assume that this guy is about your age right?...if he is then he should be thinking about settling already...finding a potential mate...if hes distancing himself from you then theres probably something wrong...confront him..ask him..if hes younger then he may have an excuse for "career, spiritual search..."...whatever. but at thirties..i dont know..you really should ask him

like or not its gonna be a new way of meeting people

if she loves you she would not flirt like that with other men....its as simple as common curtesy... class...you know...sort of like..an unspoken respect for your feelings...me for example i love looking at other girls...but i would not do that when my girl is around...i hope you get my meaning...if you cant stand it, flirt with other girls and maybe you'll find someone thats attracted to you ...not like men thats not you.....besides, this is probably the kind of girl that gets off by making you jeoluos...giving hher a since of power over you...you really dont need that

in my opinion he is toooooo young and will probably end up outgrowing each other in divorce???? opinions and advice please

i moved out of my parents house when i was 17...for bootcamp...the army..it was tough..at least you have some lovin to look forward to..r your parents ok you moving in with someguy ?

he sounds like John Kerry...flip flopper...

oh...take it slow and easy..this guy sounds a bit immature..flighty ...indecisive....Be careful...you might get hurt

i lke this guy already..i did the same thing...but got dropped for some looser..but man i felt proud of myself for having the courage to seize the ,moment.....if you feel the same good for him if not, dont feel obligated ok

oh yeah, take that crappy avatar picture of yours and place a nice sexy picture of yoursel...quit feeling sorry foryourself..this guy is not worth it...sorry....ii so admire women who give and love all...to a man...

You need a REAL MAN not someone who is out there trying to prove that he is one of these so called "players" now a days. leave this looser behind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. he will come crawling back to you for some booty...but dont give it to him..tell him that you found a co-worker that was much better in bed...bruise his ego..lol.....MOVE ON...with some dignity and pride