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  1. cheech
    ppl fall outta love for many reasons. It could be habits which one party can't stand. They may have a feud which doesn't mend, or sometimes, it's just too emotionally taxing on each other. Relationships take time and commitment, and when one party can't fulfill that, things start to chenge. I think you get my flow. But it's natural to miss your ex bcoz even though you can talk days on end abt what you can't stand, you've seen and experienced what he is really like beyond all that... so give it time. It'll get better. Good luck! -cheech
  2. cheech
    I don't see why not, but it's easier if you just cut all contact. It gives you space and time to think.
  3. cheech
    if he truly loved this girl, he'd have been absolutely CRUSHED by what she did to him. Through all the anger, there would have still been longing.. and questioning of his feelings and where he stands in her life. I think it's still possible. But then again, I could be wrong.
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    After all that has happened to him, I'd say that he's affected. Very affected. I'm not surprised that he's been feeling the way he is. In truth, I think he's treating his break up with that other girl like his parent's divorce. Being from a family with divorced parents, you'd know. He needs time and space to work things out with himself. He needs to think things through and know what he wants. Guys don't say it, but they're more often thatn not feeling insecure, so just give him time. Good luck! -cheech
  5. cheech
    go with your heart girl! If you have feelings for him go for it. Believe in yourself. Things will be fine! Good luck! -cheech-
  6. cheech
    hi there! You sure sound really really confused. You have to get things clear to yourself. Find out what you want out of this relationship. If you don't think it's possible to get what you need to sustain it, then it's not going to work. When you've been together for someone for 8 months, you'd naturally have strong feelings for that person. But sometimes, it is better that you leave if it's becoming emotionally taxing on yourself. It isn't fair to him either if you are always unsatisfied, and on the same token, not fair to yourself either. I personally feel that you should break up because it sounds as if there is alot of strain between the two of you. Breaking up is never an easy thing to do, and i understand your dillema completely, having been through it myself. All the best and do contact me if you need anymore help! Good luck! -Cheech-
  7. cheech
    Happy easter everybody! I just thought that i would use this opportunity to thank everyone who posts here. I think that it is absolutely fantastic to know that even when you are facing your darkest moments, we can rest assured bcoz ppl are there rooting for u to go on... it really lightens the spirit. So thank you everyone! Cheech
  8. cheech
    I broke up with my bf about three weeks ago bcoz we're prob never ever going to see each other again after we've finished school. (He's going to a different place to study) BUT, this doesn't mean that we didn't still love each other when i broke up with him. I never anticipated that I would miss him so much and that it would be SO hard on us to get over it.It's getting to the point that i cry myself to sleep because i miss him so bad. But then i've got to tell myself to get real bcoz having a long distance relationship isn't the way to go... or so i believe. I thought that by breaking up now, it would make it easier for us to go our separate ways at the end of the year. I want to know your opinion. Did i do the right thing? Pls help.. i'm totally miserable.
  9. cheech
    hey... not sure how useful this advice will be, but i think that the fact that you're still angry with this girl for cheating on you speaks volumes. I think you've gotta ask yourself how much you trust her after what she's done to you. People cheating on each other is so common now, but it doesn't in any way make it acceptable behaviour. Relationships are built on trust. If you don't even trust her anymore, it's time to move on. Good luck! Cheech
  10. cheech
    hi gary! it's quite clear that you love this girl to bits. Firstly, i think it's important that you find out what she feels for you. Tell her how you've been missing her since she left. If she isn't feeling the way you're feeling about this whole thing, it may be time for you to move on. You also need to find out if she's seeing someone else. Don't go after her if she's already seeing someone else. It's not right to make her cheat on that person. So in other words, it's all about working with what you have and making th most of it. Good luck! and i hope this is of use to you. cheech
  11. cheech
    that was superb! it's so inspiring! And thanks for the advice u gave me... i've used it. thanks!
  12. cheech
    I've been together with my boyfriend for 8 months now. When we first started out, everything was great. But recently, i've been realising more and more that i'm not feeling like i'm connecting with him. We argue quite a bit. I'm even starting to question my love for him. I'm also sitting for a major exam at the end of the year, and i don't know if i can manage the time sacrifice. I really don't know what to do bcoz i know that i'll be hurting him if i break up. but then i know i should bcoz it's not fair on him for me to lead him on like this. What should i do? pls advice!
  13. cheech
    i think that it's important for you to realise that whatever you're going through is what your bf is going to as well. I don't think it's fair for you to be angry, after all absense makes the heart grow fonder. try talking to him about it if you still feel angry. Good luck!
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