civic03

Well, I still don't know what to think of my ex!! She cheated on me with one of my friends. I did push her away in the relationship. tomorrow i am getting all my stuff from her. She says she misses me but I don't know if that is true. I'm so mad at her, we were so muh in love, I really thought she was the one. So I go and get my stuff, I have tryed so hard to win her heart back, and it has almost worked 2 times. Last week she told me that her and this other guy are on a break. That lasted for a couple of days. Now there with each other every minute! I can't believe she has done this to me!! Is there anyway she will want to work things out? It seems like she will never come back? I don't know if I want her back? Well, I know I would in a second, but things would be different! Has this happened to anyone else where its seems there is no hope, and the relationship was so strong, and were in so much love? I feel like theres no hope!!

I am starting to think sometimes that my g/f is testing my love. First we broke up, then she tells me she kissed my friend. She doesn't want to spend time with me!!! I go out with my guy friends to a car show, she gets pissed-off that i went, and tells me not to call her!! Last week she tells me i don't love her, and if I would show her how much I love her, I would have her back!! I tell her all the time how much i love her and miss her and wish we could work things out. But she never wants to spend time with me, she's allways with this other guy and , I'm supposed to stay in the closet while she can do whatever!! She says I made her jelous!! Ya ok.. i tell her that thats how I have felt for the last month. I never did anything wrong unlike her. Everywhere i go I just think how i wish she was there!!! Is this testing my love, or what might happen with us? I'm still confused????????????????????????????????????

Thanks again, I know she's not experimenting. Shes had boyfriends non- stop since she was 14. She does want a commitment.I am talking to her tonight. So hopefully all goes well. Its so weird, yesterday she never called me, but she allways says she misses me. Its really confusing me??? i don't want to take the chance on losing her, but you guys say its the only way. I had my life planned out with this girl.. Were both into cars, we both have Hondas, we play in band together, we like the same foods, have the same outlook on life, like the same music. I hope this really works, it scares me alot!!!!!

Hey thanks for the reply.. I know i do want her back.. She knows that, she also knows i love her very much. Her parents were devistated. They really liked me. They really hate this other guy! I do want to take all my stuff, and she if she chases me! But I want her so bad. Gut instinct says she will come back! I spent ever minute with her, now I feel so bored and empty and loanly. She ment everything to me, she knows that. I know she's not ment for this guy. She already told me all the things she hates. I was working on her car the other day. That other guy would never do that,she knows that.. I know sometimes I'm jealous, but i think about us, what we need to work out, not the other guy.. Maybe i should stop chasing her. I guess i could give it a try!! Thanks for your help!!

Hello.. I was wondering if i could get some advice? Well, ok i was with my girlfriend for 2 years 11 months.. We are very much in love!! We have bin together since my last year of high school.. We had or ups and downs. We hung around this one guy he was a good friend of both of us. One day we got into a fight and she started going over to his house.. I did trust her, she was always over there. I would get mad at her because she was always over there. She would get frusterated and not want to be around me!!! i never thought anything would happen because our friend is very ugly!! She told me that he said he would never come between us and all that crap!! I just recently went on a trip with her and family to the south, came back the next day and she broke up with me.. That was like 3 or 4 weeks ago. Then she tells me that they have "kissed" and thats all. i do believe her. But since then she sending me all these mixed signals. We went out for dinner yesterday, and we kissed a bunch of times. But she tells me she doesn't know what she wants.. She is always with this guy. I still talk to her everyday. She says she doesn't want me to take my stuff from her room. But she never wants to spend time with me??? I want to know what i should do? I love her soo much. We had a future planned and then this just came up! We also have so much in common!! Wonder if this kind of thing has ever happened to anyone else?? What should i do, or what is the next step???