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  1. pineapplegirl
    About 4 years ago I got involved with a married man. He has since filed for a divorce and we have continued our involvement. Needless to say, our relationship has been a secret from everyone. And, we have become very good at hiding it from the world. Until the divorce is finalized, our relationship will remain unseen. And, most likely, will stay unseen well after the divorce. We met professionally and it would be VERY damaging to both of us. My dilemma arises: How can I trust a man that is so good at keeping secrets? Am I a fool to think that our relationship will ever be healthy? I find myself wondering if he was so good about keeping us a secret from his wife and kids, isn't it just as easy for him to keep another relationship secret from me? No judgements please. I know that I slept with a married man, and that I shall lay in the bed I made. But, objective feedback is what I'm looking for. Thank you.
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    >I'm sorry for your broken heart...there is no feeling that can compare to the pain of a lost love. I wish I had words that could take away the pain, but unfortunately, the tincture of time is the only medicine. >What song is making you cry?
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    >JonnyG and Phantom: >Excellent replies and I agree it is nice when the woman offers to throw down some of her $$$ to help the bill out... >I love the responses, keep'em coming!!!
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    > Hi comalies >If she is really taking the pill everyday, at the same time, never missing, the chance of pregnancy is actually less than 1%. But, you should really make sure she is on the pill, and that she really is consistent about taking it. >If she is allergic to latex, like you said there are other options for her. >Please remember that the pill does not protect against any STD's, including AIDS, Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C, ghonorrea, chlamydia, syphilis...the list can go on and on. >Other than her reaction to latex, is there any other VALID reason? >Has she always had unprotected against STD sex? >A word of caution: If you do have a sexual relationship with her with or without using condoms, it would behoove you to BOTH get tested for the various STD's. The testing is available for free at any Planned Parenthood, or are available from you primary care physician. Not using a condom with someone is a big step, and a big risk...You should know what you are getting into, before you get in to it...Best of luck.
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    You're a good man Silvi, and I hope it works out well for you with the fish and chips girl...BTW-here in the states we call them "FRENCH FRIES". But, I've had your version of what "chips" are and they're really yummy. Thanks for your post and your feedback...Say hi to Big Ben for me....
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    Xbox-You will have many dates in your lifetime...but please, learn where to NOT take them from this post okay???
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    >Sorry to jump in on your post kitz, but in addition to piercings can we also find out about tattoos...I'm interested in what the guys have to say too...
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    >I think she's being confusing too, so I like your plan....Good luck and keep me updated.
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    >Would you feel weird asking her on MSN? I think after all your anguish with this chick, you have a right to know...
  10. pineapplegirl
    You're not a freak, you're just freaking out...
  11. pineapplegirl
    Wait, clarification please: She said "yes" about wanting to be your girlfriend, but then acted weird when you said that you LIKE her?
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    >Yes, I agree with the respect thing 100%, but you know and I know that you are trying to rationalize in your head why you're being paranoid right now. (Don't take offense to that, I just know I've used the same rationale when I freak out about stuff like this) >It is really easy for me, and everyone else, to say "relax" etc., because for you right now this is the most important thing in the world. So, in light of that, I would say try calling him again in a while (DO NOT BE A CREEPY STALKER GIRLFRIEND AND CALL EVERY 2 MINUTES). If you don't hear from him tonight, I'm sure you probably won't sleep well. But, if this plays out how it usually does for me, you'll end up talking to him tomorrow and it'll be all good, and you'll think about how much you stressed over this and you'll think to yourself, "Okay, I was just being paranoid." >Please keep posting if you need to occupy your time to avoid being the creepy stalker girlfriend. I'll respond okay???
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    >It's cute that you apologized for your grammar and spelling. >Yes, the signs would indicate that she, in fact, did/does like you. Maybe she's just having a bad day? Sorry, that's kind of a lame excuse for her behavior, but it doesn't make sense... >I thought she said, "yes" when you asked her if she wants to be your girlfriend...? This is that girl named Ashley right? >P.S. What cologne do you wear? >P.P.S. I don't want it to seem like I'm flriting with you (I promise-God knows that I'm old enough to have baby sat you when you were a kid), but I do want to know what cologne you wear...
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    Okay, don't get ahead of yourself Funk... >Now knock on wood for even THINKING that he's hurt. >As you said, he's probably doing inventory or whatever to make a little extra $$$. >Now, knock on wood again for thinking that he's cheating on you. > I know it must be hard if you guys just got back to good yesterday. But, banging your head against a wall to figure out where he is isn't going to help you right now. You're probably feeling really vulnerable and scared, I imagine something like this is going on in your head, "He wasn't 100% sure if we should be together so now he's on a date with some girl, and that's why he isn't answering/calling back, and that's whay he wasn't sure if we should get back together, and I don't want to lose him again..." >Stop me if I'm wrong about what you're thinking, and I'll stop replying on your post.
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    >okay, here's my 5 cents... >Sometimes women are not as intuitive as you think. Yes, to a certain extent I play by the rules that I create...in a relationship or whatever. But, I will never claim to know it all. >As far as messing with your mind, I'll admit to it. Yes, I've done a fair share of playing, but karma is a b$%&h. And, trust me for every game I've played, it gets played back on me. >I know that for myself, I've dated a few guys that I never should have let go of. They were good to me, and in the end, they will end up with someone who is equally good to them. >As for me, I have tried to be better about playing games, messing with minds etc. I know it's not nice. But, there are genuinely times that I just don't know what I want from a guy. Or what he wants from me...
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    Take a deep breath Funk... >Not too many people on tonight I agree...but, maybe I can help u. >Don't go jumping to conclusions about where the b/f is. IS it marginally possible that he is out on a date, yes. But, that is probably not what you want to be focusing on right now... >He may still be at work, he may have gone out with some friends, he may be with his family, there are a million reasons why he hasn't called. >Why do you think he'd be out w/someone else?
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    Is it possible that you might have been misinterpreting signs from her? Like, you thought she was into you, but actually she was just trying to be nice?
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    Do you guys have a lot of mutual friends?
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    Hey Josh- >Is this girl the same age as you???
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    >I'm going to have to agree with DBL on this one. know, it's a shocker, me agreeing with DBL) It sounds like she needs a little time to catch up on being young and unattached. >You should do the same... >Another good point by DBL, don't go planning your life around someone...it puts a lot of unnecessary stress on you, your s/o and the relationship.
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    >Society says that you "can't base a relationship on lust"...but, basing it on an evening at the coffee shop is okay??? Maybe I stand alone with this, but I don't think that a relationship started off with sex is pre-determined to be a lose-lose situation. >As far as the infidelity...to each his own...
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    GREAT AND FUNNY RESPONSES, WITH A LOT OF HONESTY AND INSIGHT...THANKS TO ALL WHO HAVE RESPONDED! So, it's looking like there are a fair number of guys who are paying on the first date...What if the girl asked you out? Do the rules change or still apply?
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    Congrats Josh!!! Glad to hear it all worked out...Be good to her.
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    > Bravo pinkbiologist...I couldn't have said that any better myself.
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    >you know more than you think you do about this situation. some of my best (and worst) dating experiences happened between 19 and 25...you kind of owe it to yourself to experience being your age without worrying if you're losing out on "the one" >and, for the record, I actually do believe that if it's meant to be, you'll end up together...once you've both grown (and I don't mean that to sound condescending at all) and experienced more of life...
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