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well it was her party last nite and the new one wasent there. but i got along well with my ex(as did a few other people) but i was the last one to leave and while wait i was chatting to her and her parents. and a couple of good things were said namely i was asked what school i went to by her parents and my ex replyed with "he's goin going to the same college as me" then i said "yea either that or moving" which is when she said "no your not" which must b a gd thing. problems thou are that my ex got hold of my phone and was reading my messages all(bar about 3) are from the other girl and quite flirty. and also my other girl knows that i still like my ex. damm

right thanks. isnt life funny i go from having nothing toa possible two at once. how annoying.

well i could be wrong cos ive never used personals(and never intend to) but using common sencse them the idea of a personal is too mett people yes? so if you have a personal then you shouldbe surprised if people contact you as that is its purpose. so i say go for it what you gotta lose?

the type of girl that says she really innocent an act like it but you know shes not but cant quite put your finger on why.

link removed thats's for figureing it out for certain activites. dosent have heartrate but how it helps.

shound like a plan. that should suit there personalitoes quite well. also my ex is mayb goin to the same college as me next year(we're currently at different schools) so i'll be seeing more of her. which leads me on to, what do i do if: a) im gettin on well with my ex and think theres a chance to getting back 2gether b) i get on well with the new girl c) i get on really well with both of them

well a bloke opinion again but im like the other way round with a girl. i let all my stuff out her (an she does 2 me as well) but id never ever go out with her. not 100% why mayb because she knows to much or mayb its just that i dont like her in that way. not sure but could be a possiblity for your situation too.

Well this is kinda moving away from getting back together but its still related so here goes. well basically i got dumped an still really like the girl(she dumped me because 'it wasent the right time for her to have a bf). that was 3 odd months ago n well ive stayed friends and aint had anyone else since.(becausse i aint bin interested mostly rather than waitin out for her) now the problem. ive been chatting and gettin to know one of her friends quite well an ive only met them once briefly while i was going out with my ex. but i *think* i quite like her (they both have the same name as well which is a bit weird) . On saturday it is my ex's birthday party and i think the other girl will be there. Also recent communication with my ex has been fairly low(we live a lil bit apart) but i got a call from her a few days ago and we had a nice chat about nothin much really. one thing i noticed is that she was with another one of her friends and before she has become more 'warm' to me wen that friend was stayin with her. Bit confussing really. but what i would to know would be how to react towards the two girls.

well with my (now ex ) gf i just did small talk and stuff. i wasent really looking but she appeard and like me so that helped. but yea after 3 days of knowing her we were goin out. but this was on a camp so we were around each other a lot which again helped. ps. just wait for the right one to come along as well. i thought i was a kinda no for girls but theres always one,just gotta find her gd luck.

Yea she is True, she is a bit(well a lot) of a flirt so i guess shes bound 2. i'll jus have 2 hope that she like me again sumtime. [-o Yea true its jus finding them thats the problem

after chatting to a mutal friend ive found out that she's fancied him for a while. well her reaction when i told her was 'still?'. so if they havent been going out then hopefully that means its not going anywhere and she might move on. Also i sent her this text saying Still no reply but she dosent often reply to txts because she says she dosent have any credit. Thanks in advance

Well ive posted here a few times before about my situation and it jus took a turn for the worse Well basically i was goin out with this girl and she dumped me cos she ' wasent ready for a bf' (after we'd bin going out 4 3 months, but anyway) and so i left her and we were still friends. just recently i felt that she was warming towards me again, little things like she replied with a comment to one of those survey things that id sent a loads of people. I that cheered me up a bit . So we had a party on sat and i was going to give her my xmas prezzie then. The prezzie was cd called the caroline collection that id been planning for a while but did want to give it to her but xmas gave me a good excuse. anyway she didnt turn up cos she was feelin ill so i gave it 2 one of her mates to give to her(we live a fair bit apart ,9.4 miles to b precise). Also she had got wind of this somhow and was asking me what it was but i refused and said shed have 2 go 2 find out. so from the impression i got what happed was that the person i gave it 2 forgot it, no big deal there should b anohther oppertunity. Then tonite i quiz the 'delivery person' about it and she tells me that she felt guilty about taking it cos she fancys sum1 else. I think i heard her speak about him b4 but not like she fancyed him(there were a few i was slightly worried about thou but he wasent one of them). As far as im aware there not going out. What should i do now? Do i talk her and just let out how i feel? or jus keep quiet and hope it passes? Thanks

know the feeling mate. we lived/live 9.4 miles away(yep i figured it out) and go to different schools so weekends only. and this was after spending a week togher like seeing each other for most of the day everyday.

yean close to but it was taken on my phone so it was electronic and so ive still got a copy. and it dont think it was that because there's been no nastyness afterwards still friends. but were kinda deviating do u think its time for me to ask her again or at least ask her if she would consider it or sumthing? thanks for your help so far

sorry i aint 2 great at explaining. like i said this is probably nothin but... well when we were goin out i manged to get a picture of her 'chest'(she v camera shy,ive only got about 2 or 3 of her). then today she asked for one of then that she knew i had taken. and i emailed it to her. why she wanted it i dont know. any girls got an idea? sorry and thanks

yea the reson she gave was that it wasent the right time to have a boy friend. which to begin with sounded like BS but i think it might actully be true and that she just wants the freedom an she is a big flirt. and she hasent had a bf since to my knowledge. yea well this was a pic of lets say a part that men havent fully developed so i doubt showing her mine would be any good. really puzzeld me why she asked for it thou its been 2 months ,1 week and 1 day since we broke up. cheers

[link removed posted on here a while back about my ex and basically came to the conculsion that i just had to wait. well just recently shes been much more forward with me. like like she begins convo's with me (we mostly communicate through msn cos we live a bit apart. not far but enough to mean we only have the chance to see each other at weekends and i dont really fone her which was 1 of my downfalls) anyhoo yea an then today she asked for for pic of her (which she presumed i still had, which i did ) is this just me reading too much into things? how could i find out if she is ready? thanks

id sugesst IM (msn etc) that way u get a reply almost straight away rather than waiting ages for a reply to an email. but phones better thats where i screwed up. only called her 3 times in the 3 months i went out with my g/f. an 2 of then was to ask for directions to sumwhere that we were meetin up.

yea good idea its certainly more refined than when i did it. all i did was walking along togther will you go out with me. only excuse ive got is because we were on an air cadet camp an the officers dont like it when you start suggling up. even holding hands is a crime. PDA is the term. good luck

your situation sounds a bit like mine only it was her that dumped me cos she wasnt ready for a bf (even thou we'd bin goin out 4 3 months but thats women 4 u) and according to sum of her friends she sttill likes me but just dosent want a bf. so it mite be the same 4 her maybe shes still gettin over splittin up. jus gotta wait n see. id go along anyway n chat to her u never now like u say it mite remind her of the gd times u had together. when i did it it was actully me who organised it as an excuse to see her n i kinda flirted with her a bit and she flirted back and now shes bin much moreactive towards me like txtin me randomly askin wot im doin n stuff like that. look at it this way wot have u got to lose gd luck

I got this in an email and i think it kinda sums up your situation gd luck

yeah thanks guess its just a matter of time *sighs*

well ive made a cd with all of the track with her name in them (hers names caroline so it was quite easy to find some) unfortunitaly she dumped me before i got a chance to give it to her so im now planning to give it too her at xmas to show that i still like her. so maybe some other personal gift like that would be good just dont make it too tacky otherwise she might think that it's because you forgot and did it at the last minute. hope that helps

lol well ive seen her a couple of times since be broke up and ive kinda flirted with her a bit (and she flirted back so i think still still knows im interesed in her

I split up with my gf about a month ago because she 'wasn't ready for a relationship' which I still don't understand because we'd been going out for 3 months already. Ive tried really hard to get over her but I jus cant. When she dumped me she said that she just needed to sort her head out and maybe we could try again. This was over a month ago now I im still in love with her and I don't know what to do. How do I know when it's time? I've spoken to quite a few friends about it and half of them say just go for it and tell her how you feel about her. While the others say just give her time. What should I do? I understand if she needs time but how long?? There are 1 or 2 mutal friends which have said that she still does like me but just dosent want a bf at the monent. Thanks Btw she lives 9.4 miles away(yes I am that sad) not exactly long distance but enough to mean that we can only see each other at weekends.