He wasn't the man you fell in love with...but you still love him.
You don't still love HIM...you still love what you THOUGHT he was.
Been there. When you think of him ...remember this:
That guy you fell in love with, was not a real guy. It was the guy HE wanted you to see.
Once you have sex, guys start to show who they truly are. So do we actually!
It is THEN you need to decide - "This person I see before me now...can I live with him?" Because, that is the TRUE person he is.
Also, the guys will see our true personalities emerge after sex. Then they have to make the decision...is the the girl I want to be with.
If the answer is yes on both sides...congrats! If not, then move on and try again!!!
Try ...try again!