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lol this is very interesting.. how many others can confess that they check their ex's facebooks once in a while? i must confess that i do this and now i wish i never had because it seems to me he has found another girl who keeps commenting with him back and forth and ahh i just kills me so i try and stay of his facebook but it is just sooo addicting!

okk this question is for guys but if you girls have done this before you are more than welcome to give an asnwer ok so the question is: guys have you ever had a girl say that she liked you too much and as a result couldnt go out with you. Maybe she said that she was too scared losing you in the first place and didnt want to feel vulnerable? if so then what did you guys think about this? and what happened, did the two of you end up going out in the end? As well was it a second attempt or first attempt at the relationship and last but not least, did she have other reasons for not wanting to go out with you even if she liked you very much or for that matter loved you? thanks for the replies!

thank you all very much for your replies..i feel better already.

ok well me and my bf broke up about 3 months ago and my point is that i think about him still andd like i see him everyday at school which doesnt help also i seem to have dreams about him like for example in the most recent one, he just came up to me and hugged me and told me he was sorry for everything and that he really liked me and couldnt be without me which made me soooo happy and then i woke up and realized it was all fake and i also have dreams of us kissing and really random dreams, why is this and what should i ddoooo??thx in advance

ok well me and my bf broke up and basically during our relationship he used to get jealous of other guys quite often and like i found it kind of cute but sometimes really annoying anyway we broke up three weeks ago and although i told myself i was over him, i obviously am not. i think about him like soo often and it doesnt help that i have class with him everyday. i noticed that he started talking with this girl a little more than usual, and i know that they are friends but now its like whenever i see him hes trying to find a way to get close to her or talk with her. This is killing me like honnestly it feels like someone is just stepping all over my heart and im soo jealous! anyway after class today i just walked by him dindt even say hi and then he noticed and yelled out wat the hell? and the rest of the day he was purposely walking by me and going u dont even say hi?! urgh it was so bad.. anyway what do i doo, how can i stop caring about him and just MOVE ON... thx in advance..

dont deal thanks

ok so i really need help with this one.. kk so lets put it this way there is this guy named kyle and hes really nice and all my friends like him and the thing is he really likes me and he wants us to go out butt as much as i like him i really like this other guy named nick and the problem is that nick doesnt know this but i think he has some clue because of the signs i give him. Also me and nick started getting kind of close but ever since he saw me with kyle he keeps asking why im with him and he started being kind of distant. Anyway i cant figure out if nick likes me or not but he always asks me why i hang out with kyle and he always makes fun of kyle. Then last week i asked nick to give me something and he told me to ask kyle to give me it which was just totally weird. I dont want to tell nick i like him because im scared hell reject me but i also find myself avoiding kyle because im scared he will ask me out...what should i do?!?!

ok well me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago, and after that we still talked and even hung out but then we kind of got distant. Now were talking again and he started giving me compliments. Like he would tell me that i looked good today and things like that and he plays around alot.. what could that mean from a guys perspective?

im truly sorry for your loss and i will keep charlie in my prayers i think that he was very grateful to have a brother who loved him as much as you and he will be deeply missed. my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family

what do u guyz find attractive in a womans looks and personality?

and what if the guy is really nice to you and you think that he likes you and all (bcuz he shows signs) but then when your friend asks him if he likes you he says only as a friend? do u think the guy would like the girl (me) more if he knew i liked him?

okay this is a question for guyz lets say you find out a girl likes you and u never really thought about liking her would you go out with her or would you say no to her because you dont like her also if you find out that a girl likes you is there a possibility that you start liking her to (if you know the girl already)

okay well there is this guy that i liked for a long time and he is really nice to me like he notices me in the hall and he always says hi just recently my friend hinted to him that i liked him and he was like oh thats nice and i know that he thinks im pretty but he wont ask me out or anything i think he doesnt like me but then wouldnt a guy stop being nice to a girl if he didnt like her and he knew she liked him can someone help do you think he feels the same way? and could there be any reason that he doesnt want to ask me out other than that he doesnt like me or that he is shy? thx

well it all matters on the type of guy he is for example a playful type of guy would complement you alot on a friendly basis, a shy guy might never do it....... if you have a guy that your specifically talking about give me some details and ill try to help you out cause i went through something like that

about grinding, dont think about it too much the best thing to do is to relax and naturally ull grind. also it is much easier for the guy because the girl is the one that is actually doing all the dancing so just follow her guide if u are completely clueless but i know that even if guyz that cant dance are on the dance floor my friends and i will appreciate them more than the guyz sitting on the couch the whole night doing nothing!

i have a question.... how come guyz that are hot and that alot of girls like are scared to go up to the girls that they like and ask them out? why are they so terrified when everyone and they know themselves that they are hot?? i know a reason could be shyness but it doesnt make sense plz answer my question thx

okay so i had a big crush on this one guy for quite some time now and hes very nice and we talk "sometimes" not alot because i hardly see him around skool. anyway when he obviously couldnt see that i liked him i even got a friend to hint on (she told him that she knew i thought he was hot and that she was almost positive that i liked him) all he said was kool and he acts the same way!! he told her before that he thought i was pretty and stuff but he is still the same even now that he knows that i like him! should i keep at getting him to ask me out or should i move on?? any kind of help would be greatly appreciated

okay this is my question, this is targeted for guyz that are 14-16 anyway if a girl that you think is pretty likes you then would you go out with her.... in other words when you say a girl is pretty than does that just meen that you think she is pretty or that you are attracted to her and possibly like her....? and would you consider going out with that girl? thx in advance

i have a huge problem! i have a crush on this guy and he is amazing! he is cute, smart and funny and i just melt whenever i see him! my problem is that i am really really shy whenever im around him and even when i try to be open i still feel my face burning! its really weird because i was never like this around guyz and ive never been like this with my old boyfriendz either! i feel like such an idiot when i start to blush when this guy starts talking to me! how can i stop it? he gives me major butterflies plz help! thx

hey i have a question for all u guyz that are out there if a guy tells his friendz that he thinks your really pretty (a guy thats about 14) wat does this mean? does that mean that he ONLY thinks your pretty or does it mean that he likes you.....or does he plan on asking you out or something? help would be greatly apprciated +do guyz think that every gurl is pretty or is it supposed to be considered special if a guy that alot of gurlz like calls u pretty? lol hehe

wow man, thats quite a story! this is one of the most touching things i have read in a long time

well im a girl and that is how i act when i like a guy! i dont think she is playing around wit u cuz usually gurlz dont do that, i really think she likes you especially if her friend told you to ask her to dance. if you like her then you should definatly ask her out! you have nothing to loose except for maybe a little bit of pride but we've all been through that! i know being rejected is tough and were all scared of it but trust me i dont think she would be acting like that if she didnt have a thing for you + if she stares at you then its practically a done deal, that means she cant get enough of you! hope this helps!

hey, well theres this guy at my skool and im pretty interested in him and he is really hot but i was wondering if you could give me signs on how a guy acts when he doesnt like you and when he does. this would be greatly helpful because i really wanna know so guyz plz tell me how you act around girls that you dont like and girls that you like thx!

okay so well school started and i went to this party a few days ago and i saw this really hot guy. anyway i got my friend to tell him i thought he was hot and when we met he seemed really nice but i was a wreck! i never really was that around other guyz until he came along! i was so nervous cuz he was so close and it looked like he was going to kiss me! anyway we kinda got closer and he asked me to go to the movies with him and i said yes but im so scared, wat should i do, i dont know wat to do if he kisses me because i never really had a real kiss, and its so akward! plz help does anyone have the same problems? thx

oh im sorry if i didnt make it clear, we are both american and he is one year older than me (i am 15 and he is 16)