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  • Birthday 09/25/1986

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  1. Well, I have to say I feel entirely strange speaking on equal ground with someone 15 years my senior...and I wont try to even advise you of what you should do. I think all I can say is that it's really up to her. You know, be who you are and dont change anything for her. And although I dont often say this, if it's meant to be, it will be. She needs time to figure out if this is just prolonged puppy love with Michael or the real deal. And I say that because those emails and text messages sounded like something I shared with my every-other-month infatuations in Junior High. Be yourself for her when you see her, and if she realizes that you are what she wants, it will be. Dont "promise to change, I'll do anything"...I've only been around for 18 years, but I swear it doesnt work. Best of luck to you...I hope it works out for you!
  2. About a year ago, I was in exactly the same position. Self-conscious, worried. If this is the time, and you think you're ready, do what you feel is natural. And if he is sincerely attracted to you that he would want to be your first, then I'd say you shouldnt worry about him seeing you. A lot of men are shallow, and unless other factors are included, a lot wont have sex with someone they arent attracted to. I wouldnt worry! (I hope that made sense) As for positions, yes, you being on top will let you control what's going on and how fast. Missionary might feel more...instinctive, but you'd be less in control. Go with what feels what right.
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    Curious!

    did you forget to finish your post here? or is that just my computer...
  4. Happily, if your profile is correct, you're only 15! This leads me to believe you're in grade 9 or 10? Lots of time to decide! I'd say keep your options open, take the harder stuff. It'll be worth it.
  5. Ever since I was in Grade 9, I have been making films with my friends. We've done everything under the sun. We filmed entire movies backwards (lines spoken backwards, movements backwards) and reversed them. We've done lightsabers. Fight scenes. Dramas. We just finished an epic fantasy film. Considering we're half a dozen people with a 8mm camera, we've done some amazing things. I've been set for a long time on going to film school. I was considering Concordia, in Montreal, Quebec. I was so set on it that I didnt take the advanced math or extra sciences in high school that would allow me to do a BSC in the future, if I so decided. This year, I'm in my first year of university, in a 1 year philosophy program, which I took so that I could enjoy a year of reading and writing. Now the time has come that I have to start thinking about applications. But....I'm not so sure anymore. I'm starting to have serious thoughts about Med School. And my torment is that...do I want to do some pick-up courses to attain what I need to enter into a BSC? That would involve me taking a pre-calculus math, calculus, chemistry and physics. I know I have the brain-power to do it- when my friends want to make a new computer game in Macromedia Flash, I do all of the physics for them, all of the code. Stuff that my friends told me was identical to what they did in Calculus class. I always got Chemistry when it was mandatory in grade 10. I took university level biology in grade 12. I could do it. On the one hand, being a film director would be fun. But it's very hard to make it to the point of real recognition, and a lot of people end up falling out of it. It also only takes 4 years of school. Well, technically, if you have the skill, you dont need to do it at all. But a degree of some kind helps you get a job. It would be fun...I've been doing it for fun for a long time. The potential for good money is very big. But at the same time, if I ever wanted a family....directors go all over the place. That's hard. On the other hand....if I became a doctor...the hours are long, but the jobs are everywhere. They're needed. And I think I have the required passion that it would take to be an ob/gyn. Now, why would a man want to be an ob/gyn? Well, I can imagine what some people might think- wrong. I think that they have on of the most important, rewarding and personal jobs in existence. Unlike other doctors, ob/gyns are with people in what is usually one of the happiest moments of their lives. I've always had a lot of respect for them. So, what I'm really looking for here is this- has anyone felt this before? Been here? Have you ever felt equal pulls towards two very different careeers, both with their pros and cons? I really cant decide what to do, especially since I put so much into film, but feel a more personal desire for med school. Talk to me!
  6. A lot of people think like this! You're not alone. I'm not too happy with college, either. I pursued the girl that already had a boyfriend...and felt like a loser for not asking her out sooner. It's hard to respond to a post like this. But think on this...you're how old? 19, was it? (Bad short term memory here). Play your cards right, you've got anoher 60 or 70 years to tackle. And if it's this bad now, it can only get better! If you've got a good family, rest assured they love you. Talk to them! It's hard to do, I know....but it works.
  7. You could expect things such as headaches, fatigue, increased or decreased appetite and possibly even morning sickness as early as two weeks. sometimes earlier. but thats not always a given.
  8. It is true that stress can affect when the period shows up. As well, some women completely miss theirs, if their hormones are out of balance. and lots of factors can affect that. But I totally agree with Mythicak_Suicide. Get a test, and good luck with whatever comes of it!
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    To everyone who responded here, thanks. Means a lot to me. Nice to know that somebody out there understands. Even someone who doesnt support abortions read through this AND commented....well, that's a warming feeling. Thanks.
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    " just thought I should point out that if someone's pregnant, but get a very short period or randomly have blood coming out of her..." I was suspicious about that...but I didnt know enough about miscarriages to really say anything. Her mother's a prenatal nurse, so she probably told her. Once that starts, there's not a lot that can be done...I mean, the body has obviously decided that it cant carry on for whatever reason...defect, incorrect implantation, whatever.
  11. A lot of people bite their nails, or their lips...habits formed from childhood that we never get out of. And some pains can be almost satisfying- pleasure is a form of pain. That which comes from a bitten lip is sort of the bridge between the two. Some people like the sight of blood...(I'll admit I like the taste.) But that doesnt make it good. I wouldnt say you have a serious problem- you might just want to consult a book about kicking habits like that. Dont worry too much!
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    Thanks...there arent a lot of people who would say that. Abortions, miscarriages, teen pregnancy...they're all really risque.
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    removed post.

    I've removed this post due to some friends joining the forum. While I dont mind sharing with people behind the wall of anonymity, there are some things I dont want people close to me to know.
  14. Thanks for the input, but I dont think that that is the case. I love her more than anything, and there's no one I'd rather be with. I think it's something we're doing....or not doing as the case may be.
  15. Me again. I posted a couple of weeks ago about a problem I had- I just couldnt get an erectionwhile I was fooling around with my girlfriend, and yet I've never had a problem on my own. S4il offered me some advice, and a bit of it worked. Last night, she was over, and of course thiings progressed...at first I was just cuddling with her and already at full mast, so I thought all was well. When we actually got our clothes off, it just faded. I had a hunch that it was something to do with actual contact, shifted a little, and pressed against her differently, and it came back. Got the condom on, and all was well. I still wish it was as easy to get as when I'm in school, at home, in the car.... *sigh* When we actually got to the point og intercourse, I simply couldnt get into her. Partially because she's still pretty inexperienced, and...well, to put it bluntly, she's tight as hell. And the more I tried, the more my erection faded until I had nothing. Now, she claims it doesnt bother her (mostly because of what I can do with my hands..) but I'd still like to resolve it somehow. The real problem here is- it takes to long to get an erection, and it fades too quickly. Anyone have any thoughts?
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