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Sorry this happened. Between the distance, living with his parents and being broke, it seems like you dodged a bullet. He may be nice but he's looking for a sugar mama and meal ticket. Once you tried to discuss finances, he may look for an easier target.

She seems to really like you as you are. Please don't let vanity or body image obsessions stand in your way. It's fine to be in shape and bodybuild, but be cc careful about putting all your worth into vanity.

Sorry this happened. At least she was honest so you're not being led on or wasting your time. Hopefully you can move forward to local interested women and invest more in that.

Sorry this is happening. Do you live together? How old is he? How is the relationship otherwise? Have there been incidents of inappropriate behavior? What are the family issues and reasons for separate vacations? Your BF is the issue, not the friend. She openly posted pics, but with your BF getting a little too cozy. He seemed to lap up the female attention.

Sorry this is happening. LDRs are lonely, difficult and frustrating. Trust your instincts that he's holding you back from experiencing life on campus more fully. However the real issue is the possessiveness, jealousy and trying to tether you, make you feel bad and hindering you.. Please rethink the relationship and consider setting each other free..

Please try to have fun and mingle with other singles. It's not worth investigating this guy to the point of contacting the "competition". Any guy who calls you just for booty call, should be a red flag and deal breaker.

Hopefully he has a lot of ancillary care options available such as occupational therapy and physical therapy to help with Exercises and rehabilitation.

Sorry this is happening. How long have you been dating? How old is he? How is your relationship otherwise. It's good you're getting help with your mental health, however you may be in the wrong relationship if it makes your mental health worse.

Try not to expect so much accommodations from your friends and try to respect their lives instead of expecting special treatment. Especially try to understand that they have their own lives and you've grown apart, so staying stuck in the past while they evolved is your issue not theirs. Perhaps a referral to a physician for the severe anxiety and other issues would help with more complete treatment because talk therapy alone doesn't seem to alleviate your discomfort.

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Sorry this is happening. Do you live together? How old is he? If he's on dating apps it sounds like he's cheating. Either way talking at him hasn't helped. Porn is the least of your problems if he's checked out and on dating apps. He's interested in sex, but with others. Please get tested for STDs. Why tolerate his dating apps?

Is she clear that it's just friends?

Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately running from something instead of to something can lead to disappointment when you get there. Perhaps figure out the job, housing, family and BF situation to decide where you would rather be?

Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately this nebulous exclusive but dating others arrangement is a recipe for headaches, headaches and confusion. For example now you're both busy with "friends" and the interest level is tapering off. Either she found someone else and is giving up on this bizarre arrangement or she is simply checking out altogether. If you want to continue to date try to clarify what's going on and suggest actual exclusive dating or just set each other free.

That's great. Make a nice date of it.

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Great you're going on a date. She's in the kid in a candy store phase of divorce. Avoid anyone not yet finished with their old business. They're just looking for attention and validation at your expense.

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Try to believe her that she's stressed and busy with her school. You didn't mess up. Just stay on the radar and offer to visit, see each other, take her out whatever, but don't suffocate or second guess.

That's the best approach. Document everything, put things in writing and try to keep it uncomplicated and make a clean break. Yeah court is ridiculous and drags things out.

Sorry this happened. At least she was upfront. If she's in the throes of divorce,it seems more like you dodged a bullet. Please don't be her shoulder to cry on. Let her pay her therapist and attorney for that.

So you want to try to work things out? It's much better to work things out with ower if you get your refund. You can't just drag people to court when there's no dispute.

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That's the best course of action. No it's not a sign.

Try to focus solely on co-parenting. Enjoy the pics of the children but try to interpret her level of happiness.